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Topic: Synastry: Moon opposite Saturn
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Writesomething Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: meet me in montauk Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 09, 2009 02:52 PM
I know what it means, and how it plays out between 2 people generally but I just want to hear some stories about how people have experienced this aspect. IP: Logged |
mica Knowflake Posts: 22 From: sea of tranquility Registered: May 2009
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posted September 09, 2009 03:30 PM
I just checked my daughters and my chart we have that aspect my moon opposes her saturn. We constantly argue, she has this incessant need to correct me which can be quite annoying and at time embarrassing More often then not she is acting as if she is the parent in this relationship. The parent child dynamic is alittle off, well actually alot off.IP: Logged |
Writesomething Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: meet me in montauk Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 09, 2009 08:00 PM
interesting.IP: Logged |
mica Knowflake Posts: 22 From: sea of tranquility Registered: May 2009
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posted September 09, 2009 08:25 PM
A love relationship is somewhat different, then parent and child but we also have the hot and cold although its usaully me that turns off and on based on my frustration levels with her IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 10, 2009 02:39 PM
Me and one of my older "brothers" (long story) have this aspect across the Gemini/Sagittarius axis.We didn't grow up together, and when I first met him it was exciting and we got along great. We hung out, did things together, I could talk to him. We also have Moon Opp. Moon, and Sun conj. Moon, I'm born on the full moon you see. Secretly, I think he hates me. Sometimes he'd make plans with my younger brother and not include me. "Bye" "Where are you guys going?" "The amusement park" "That sounds fun, and I'm not..." "Bye" They have the square aspect. Other times I'd find him unapproachable. He does a great cool icy exterior that can freeze me in my tracks. He's born on the 14 (Mercury) with moon in Gemini, he's a terrible gossip. I thrive on information about my immediate surroundings. Can I get anything substantial out of him? Nope. IP: Logged |
Writesomething Knowflake Posts: 1177 From: meet me in montauk Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 10, 2009 02:49 PM
you are the moon and hes the saturn?IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 10, 2009 02:58 PM
Me? Yes. He has Saturn at 7 Gemini.IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1431 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted September 10, 2009 03:04 PM
I have the square. I am the Saturn person.It is difficult because I flip from wanting to influence this person and help them, to just wanting to enjoy and indulge myself in their behaviour. It is a very up/down thing. I notice the feeling of wanting to get away from that person (both of us feel this way at times) but then when we are apart, we are miserable and nobody else wants to be around us. The makeups and breakups are always dramatic, with this being the 'last' one and so forth, and then all of a sudden the gusto has gone out of the fight and it is all over with. Takes a little more on my part, the giving in, he is more stubborn and would probably hold a grudge say one to three days longer than I can possible manage. It is weird, but it feels permanent to me. IP: Logged |
blue moon Knowflake Posts: 677 From: U.K Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 10, 2009 03:25 PM
Moon/Saturn from the book "Mapping Your Family Relationships" by Dr Stephanie Jean Clement quote: Difficult Aspects - You strain each other's patience because you are headed in different directions most of the time. If you take the time to discuss your thinking, you find there is common ground
Checking around my family charts I can't find a Moon/Saturn example. One of my sons and my mother are both Saturn to my Sun. As a conjunction it can go both ways. I'd summarise this as the line between being kept on the ground and being dragged down. IP: Logged |
woah city Knowflake Posts: 399 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 10, 2009 05:08 PM
we have this in a double whammy. his natal saturn opposite my natal moon and my natal saturn opposite his draco moon. obviously the draco placement modifies it slightly but i do feel it goes both ways. i like cafeastrology's interp: http://cafeastrology.com/synastry/moon_saturn_aspects.html how it feels to me. we are very close and it is just somehow automatic. a feeling of safety and emotional understanding that doesn't need to be discussed. we are there for eachother. when i get emotional, he either comforts me or goes cold. when i get chilly (usually because i want to be very close to him, but for whatever reason can't, often cuz i feel he doesn't want to), he gets warmer toward me. but either way i feel safe with him. i think saturn has the wisdom, and thus when it goes cold, it is a bit like disciplining. it also has the fear and inability to express emotionally in the ways moon can, but in both scenarios the connection is still there. it's a very sobering experience for the moon, and warming for saturn.
it's sort of balancing the axis of capricorn and cancer. IP: Logged |