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Topic: This Taurean Mommy is upset. please help with daughter's chart
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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 16, 2009 08:58 PM
 
my daughter told me today she officially in a relationship as of today. they have been manipulating and verbally abusing one another for at least a year. she has been waiting on him to be in a relationship with her for at least a year. he has been seeing other girls and she has been very jealous. ie. they bring out the worst in one another. i have spoken with her about this and have warned her. i thought we were out of the water because she has not talked to him lately. this was a surprise. wow she is my oldest daughter and i dont know what to do. can someone please look at her chart?? another bad thing: her father is emotionally abusive as well (to his current wife and all the kids), used to be physically abusive to me, but we broke up when she was one, so she doesnt remember it.
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hanakin
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posted September 16, 2009 09:34 PM
the boy's chart?IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted September 16, 2009 09:42 PM
dont have right now. and i cant ask right now bc she will know. i remember looking at the synastry last year, and i remember alot of squares. i will be getting the info, though. thank you in advance.IP: Logged |
belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 09:08 AM
t.pluto is square venus in her chart. It may indicate an obsession with someone who she does nt get along with. Its also a very sexual aspect along with t.uranus trine her mars. Pluto is trine her sun also maybe meaning she will transform herself and change somehow. T.uranus is crossing over her i.c it could show problems at home or most likely a move. Is she likely to runaway with him or anything like that? I hope evrythng works out xxx ------------------
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•Moon• Gemini
•Mars• Cancer
•Mercury• Cancer
•Venus• Leo •••Virgo Rising••• IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 12:46 PM
thank you so much belgz! i am crying as we speak i am so worried. no, i dont see her running away from home but she will probably try to be away from home alot more. ya i saw the venus square pluto and my heart sunk. that transit is no joke. i will be right here when she comes out of it. im sorry this is my first child and i have not been through this letting go thing before. it reminds me of a song
If I could
I’d protect you from the sadness in your eyes
Give you courage in a world of compromise
Yes, I would
If I could
I would teach you all the things I’ve never learned
And I’d help you cross the bridges that I’ve burned
Yes, I would If I could
I would try to shield your innocence from time
But the part of life I gave you isn’t mine
I’ll watch you grow, so I can let you go If I could
I would help you make it through the hungry years
But I know that I can never cry your tears, babe
But I would If I could If I could
In a time and place where you don’t wanna be
You don’t have to walk along this road with me
My yesterday won’t have to be your way If I knew
I’d try to change the world I brought you to
Now there isn’t much more that I can do
But I would If I could If I could
I would try to shield your innocence from time
But the part of life I gave you isn’t mine
I’ll watch you grow, so I can let you go If I could
I’d help you make it through the hungry years
But I know that I can never cry your tears
But I would If I could i love you jazzy. IP: Logged |
todd
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From: Baghdad by the Bay
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 01:30 PM
i sense that your daughter is very psychic and intuitive but this ability can backfire as sometimes it allows a person to be controlled mentally.i think that is what is happening here.she probably has felt this "union" of the minds with him and thinks it is a sign they are "soulmates" or something, when he is actually controling her thoughts.
with the saturn square to pluto ,which shows the abusive nature of her father,she is attracted to men on the darkside.this is also shown by her jupiter/pluto midpoint square to mars.this aspect indicates that this individual not only is controlling her but that he is most likely into very bad things,it is a criminal vibration i get.
wished i could be a bit more upbeat.you might try to find out his birthdate.i would suggest you be a bit proactive as this could turn into a dangerous situation.todd IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 03:49 PM
***i sense that your daughter is very psychic and intuitive but this ability can backfire as sometimes it allows a person to be controlled mentally.i think that is what is happening here.she probably has felt this "union" of the minds with him and thinks it is a sign they are "soulmates" or something, when he is actually controling her thoughts.***todd, that is amazing. i never heard that before, and yet, doesn't it make perfect sense. TVLL - i feel for you. it is a very hard thing to watch. hugs to you..and i know you will be right there for her... IP: Logged |
belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 07:11 PM
jupiter trine moon (mum) very lucky supportive mum. :*IP: Logged |
todd
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From: Baghdad by the Bay
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 08:35 PM
hi winner
you are correct ,it didn't make sense to me at first.but it seems that if one does not realize they possess a active pyschic ability ,they can be sensitive to other's thoughts.
this first occurred to me in composites where i noticed that a psychic connection was often associated with abusive relationships.you would think that this would be an asset,and it is sometimes,but i kept finding relationship complaints when one would expect a unison of minds.todd IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
Knowflake Posts: 133
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 09:55 PM
yes i feel like she is being controlled. she can get very irritable and i think its partially bc of him.(when he toys with her mind and makes up excuses.) she has made comments on facebook about him that were unhealthy and it was clear that he was hurting her. when i spoke with her about it, and she removed me as a "friend". then she removed my younger daughter also. she doesnt want me to know her business. bc she knows i am right.
there is no criminal activity known. this kid is truly driven. that is the only credit i can give him. he is going to be successful. cappy sun.
going to try to get some sleep, this has just been horrible so maybe i'll feel a little better tomorrow, and think a bit more clearly.belgz thanks for pointing that out, bc i feel horrible and maybe its my fault. this is just a second reminder for the day that i am going to stop being so hard on myself. yes, i believe she is brainwashed and is not using her god given senses. sounds accurate, "yes, were finally together as one" type thing. kind of rambling. ok going to bed. you guys are such a comfort. IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 17, 2009 09:59 PM
just gotta say real quick what really ****** me off. she told me the other day that she was finally interested in someone else. i said "Good for you!" i was sooo happy that she was officially getting out of this phantom relationship. they were together THE DAY AFTER! why? because he is being CONTROLLING! it makes me question his true intentions. jerk....IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
Knowflake Posts: 133
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2009 06:30 PM
this is their synastry, shes on outside.
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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted September 18, 2009 06:33 PM
his natal.  IP: Logged |
belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2009 06:52 PM
they both have transit pluto aspecting venus and transit uranus aspecting mars. I still remember the loser who broke my heart when i was 16 but thats how we learn from relationships. Its easier at 16 to learn rather than later so she learns to pick out the ones that are not so great. She has had saturn square her moon for a while and now thats moved past so she will probably handle it alot better.------------------
•' •.♥♫♫´°°♫ • Life is Beautiful •.♥.•♫°°´♫♫ ♥ • •Sun• Cancer
•Moon• Gemini
•Mars• Cancer
•Mercury• Cancer
•Venus• Leo •••Virgo Rising••• IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
Knowflake Posts: 133
From: a previous life
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 18, 2009 10:52 PM
i have started to look at things in a better perspective now. i am going to accept it and deal with it. i am in a better place mentally, for now. he will definitely be invited over for dinner, and he better be ready. i will be kind but let him know she has a mother that cares and i am going to look out for her best interest. i will be giving him the eye. "Dont mess with my baby" (smile). ya its best she goes ahead and gets it over with. shes gotta be herself and i cant fight her battles and go through her heartache for her. but i'll be here.IP: Logged |
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