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posted September 16, 2009 11:50 PM         

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This is my parents' relationship. Lately, some things happened, that I would appreciate it if someone can help me understand it better.

Thank you all!

(note: I'm not sure if the times of birth are 100% right)

Synastry:

Composite:

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posted September 17, 2009 12:04 AM         

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I can't read charts very well but I'm sorry .. hope everything turns out. *hugs*

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posted September 17, 2009 12:19 AM         

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8th house stelliums are a b!tch in composite sometimes.
Their comp Uranus is unaspected. Methinks change comes out of nowhere with them, in contrast to the Saturn in the 7th (which is also the comp 7th house ruler).
I'm sorry if things are not well with them

May I ask if there's some kind of financial stress between them, if this is a recurring theme at all? Fights about finances?
You can tell me it's none of my business if you don't want to answer.

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posted September 17, 2009 04:42 AM         

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The 7th House Composite Moon was infleunced very powerfully this summer due to Jupiter-Neptune-Chiron conjunction in Aquarius.
If they did some joint speculation or investment from overconfidence, there will be mental and emotional stress now as Mr Saturn is exactly quincunx the Moon.
In any case, Saturn quincunx Moon causes emotional stress. Chiron is still close by.
This may create deep emotional wounds due to the Saturnine stress.

And Pluto has been hitting the Composite DSC for nearly a year. That would have created quite a few problems in the relationship.

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posted September 17, 2009 10:03 AM         

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Thank you everyone for your support! ^_^ Actually it's not really serious, but coz of what happened lately, old issues between them started to surface. Although for my surprise, they seemed to be dealing with them kinda well. But well, it's still going a bit like up and down, up and down, so that I'm trying to understand their relationship better (which lately, I came to knew things that surprised me lol).

MyVirgoMask, they don't seem to have much financial problems/disagreements, although lately, there might be some extra spending. Did you notice anything related to finances in the charts? ?_?

iQ, yeah there has been some emotional stress lately. >_< And there's definitely the Neptune/Jupiter/Chiron flavor affecting the moods, specially to my mom's.
But Pluto is still far away from the composite DC, right?

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posted September 17, 2009 07:29 PM         

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*bump*

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posted September 17, 2009 08:00 PM         

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Pluto's still at 1 degree (actually 0 since it's gone direct) - I don't think it's on the Dc. But in synastry it's going through their 7th and 4th houses, soooo.... I would imagine that's intense.

Comica, I just saw Uranus in the 2nd in composite. I wasn't thinking clearly, sorry.

In synastry, they've got Uranus right on the NN (i don't know who is who), so I think this would make for changes... lots of them. And maybe this is pat of the surprise element. Also, one of them puts their Uranus in the other's 12th, so I would think changes come from nowhere in a way.

Still, in the composite they've got Mercury well-aspected. It's in the 8th but I would imagine even in that intensity they know how to talk to each other.

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posted September 18, 2009 03:18 AM         

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Their composite ascendant got slammed by the eclipse at the end of July (29'26 Cancer). Major change in the way they appear as a couple, the way they present themselves together, and how they perceive their own union.

With the moon as the ascendant ruler, I wouldn't be surprised if this also contributed to the lunar issues iQ mentioned. Since the moon is not just emotions/domesticity but also the past, memories, history, etc., the eclipse poured a surge of energy into issues they thought were long gone, but (perhaps) were never completely dealt with.

The moon is also in the 7th house, aspecting only Venus (which is angular to boot -- therefore very public). So this is mainly affecting how they relate to each other (especially emotionally), rather than being rooted in something like finances or career.

I hope everything works out for them, comica.

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posted September 18, 2009 07:48 AM         

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MyVirgoMask, it's logical that one would associate the planets in the 2nd house with the finances. ^_^ Actually, I also wondered about the finances, but coz Jupiter/Chiron/Pluto are in aspect, but I'm not sure how to interpret this.
In the synastry chart, my dad is the person in the inner ring, and I guess that the Uranus/NN aspect makes sense, about how my mom affected my dad.
About Mercury in the composite, they do get along in talking, although it can be kinda heated. *_*

origami_salami, thank you for your comment. ^_^ Yeah you're right, what happened brought some "forgotten" issues of the relationship to the surface, that it affected how they perceive their relationship. But well, they seemed to be able to talk about this calmly (I thought that there would be heated fights - lately I just came to know things about them that surprises me lol), so I hope that they will be able to solve the issues together.

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posted September 18, 2009 08:57 AM         

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Oops

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posted September 18, 2009 02:27 PM         

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i can't get a good handle on this composite but my speculations would be directed to an affair,most likely your father.but what ever transpired ,it seems to be based on deceptive qualities around your dad.

todd

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posted September 18, 2009 09:16 PM         

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todd, maybe it's due to my lack of analyzing skills, but this composite's aspects kinda feels weird to me. But anyways, are what you noticed from the transits?

But well, what's more important is, do you spot any danger with the transits, and do you think that they can be better soon? It would be great if I can just know this.

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