posted October 01, 2009 05:53 PM         

Did this transit BRING an important relationship into your life - or did it END a relationship?

Did YOU hurt people - or did PEOPLE hurt you?

Did you experience yourself as "active", the RULER of your love life - or did you rather feel "passive" and as some sort of VICTIM?

posted October 01, 2009 06:16 PM         

You will not like this answer.

When Pluto transited through my chart and Opposed my natal Venus, it was in the 1st and Venus was in the 7th. What happened?

I met my husband.

Was I a passive victim, hmm, I was quite keen at the time. Swept off my feet a bit, lost all sense of reason.

Progressed Venus Square Pluto.

Bore him a son one degree applying, one degree separating.

posted October 02, 2009 01:59 AM         

The reason why I posted this question: By studying some past Synastries and Composites of mine and all ... I discovered that one of my ex-boyfriends had tr. Pluto squaring his Venus while we met for the 1st time - and during the most decisive time in our relationship. That Pluto-square to his Venus lasted for almost 2 years (procrastinating retro & forward) - and he stood under its "spell" while we were together ... I was just wondering how this might have affected his "view" on and his "feel" for our relationship ... ?

The most intriguing thing: He's got a new girlfriend now, again long distance, with a remarkable age difference between them. I came to know (through friends, incidentally) her birthday - and that this is not an "easy love" for her. And I found out THIS: Actually Tr. Pluto started to square HER natal Venus when THEY met!!! And Pluto will stay in this square to her Venus for a while ... So: HE was under the spell of this transit when being together with me ... and now his next girlfriend is under that same transit-aspect ... Coincidence? "Fated"? ;-)

Concerning that new relationship of his - I didn't want to know much about that at first, but some people have told me about it, not knowing our whole story... And I listened, I must admit;-) It was very interesting to see what is happening with him now - and it didn't "touch my heart" anymore at all - which is good news, of course! (the break-up occured 1.5 years ago). Intersting: It sounded as if they'd repeat all the things, problems, mindgames etc that WE had gone through before - again, with him being on the more "manipulative" and "difficult" side. Seems to be "chronical" with him. ;-) Which - once more - delivered a dose of relief for me: He can be an a**hole indeed, nothing personal (with me), in a way. He's doing similar things to her now - only worse, because she's way younger, less experienced and probably, well, less "clever", a "victim" much easier to play with. I know (from 100% reliable sources) that he has cheated on her twice, since they have become an official couple, which is about 5 months ago. I even know one of the women he has slept with - after telling that new girlfriend that she was "the love of his life" (like he once had told me.) And, of course, she doesn't know, what he's doing while she's away ...

So tr. Pluto-transiting-Venus has influenced that man's love life for about 3 years now - first in his own chart, and currently affecting his new girlfriend's chart ...

I myself never experienced that transit, by the way! And probably won't, during this lifetime. BUT: I've got Tr. Pluto TRINING my natal Venus and natal Juno from the beginning of 2010 onwards .... Can't WAIT for this to occur!!! ;-)

posted October 02, 2009 02:07 AM         

Out of all the transits I've experienced, this one was the one that I complain about the most. Granted, Pluto was also conjunct my DSC at the time too so it magnified the experience.

My Venus is at 29 Pisces, DSC at 27 Sag, so this has been active for the past 3 years.