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Topic: Synastry that consists of same planet conjunctions - unlikely attraction?
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letram
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posted October 02, 2009 12:42 PM
 
if a synastry chart consists of identical planet conjunctions, and lacks the 'classic' synastry aspects (such as mars moon, mars sun, venus sun, venus pluto etc etc) does that mean attraction is unlikely?in this synastry chart, we have sun conjunct sun mars conjunct mars venus conjunct venus, merc conjunct merc everything is conjunct. none of those planets (sun/venus/mars/merc) aspect eachother nataly or in the synastry chart. we just have the same hard aspects to jupiter/venus/saturn/uranus/neptune. (our bdays are 4 days apart) the only thing different is the moons. i don't have there birth time. but the aspect between our moons is quite likely a sextile. mines aries, the other is in aquarius. her moon is also quite likely on my DSC (tight conjunct) so when synastry lacks the classic inter planet synasty between mars sun/moon mars/venus pluto etc, is it unlikely for attraction to build? any experiences with these kind of aspects? IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 12:49 PM
I was born on the same day as Winona Ryder.
That means that all our planets,asteroids,centaurs,transneptunian objects are conjunct each other. She was born a few hours after me,and so our Moons are conjunct too. I will straight up tell you that I have never felt any attraction to her. That's both before and after I learned about Astrology. so I honestly don't know if synastry that consists of same planet conjunctions indicate unlikely attraction. I think that there are other factors like "being someone's type" and things like age,race,ethnicity,religion,spiritual beliefs,political beliefs,finances,social status,gender are also factors in attraction of course,I believe that our souls transcend all that. In a way, I believe that we humans are picky and discriminate to what we are attracted to.
Raymond
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aerialcircus
Knowflake Posts: 334
From: Western Massachusetts, US
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 12:52 PM
Letram, my first love was born 3.5 days after me in the same year- our synastry was comprised of basically NOTHING but same planet conjunctions. Even when our planets differed: his Moon (in Pisces) was conjunct my Venus and his Sun (in Taurus, April 20th) was conjunct my Mercury. Just conjunctions, everywhere you look. I don't even bother to look at our synastry anymore- if I want to investigate a new asteroid or whatnot, I just know it will be a conjunction with us, without even having to look it up.We were together for 5 years, off and on (my longest relationship), and operated very much as a singular unit-- like Voltron. We even started to dress & look the same after awhile. We excused a lot of bad behavior in each other and eventually started to drag each other down. It was VERY VERY hard to separate myself from him, as there was just endless understanding and love between us no matter how unsavory our relationship became overall. I eventually ended up having to move out of state without telling him where I was going, it was literally the only way I could sever the tie. IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 02, 2009 12:58 PM
thanks for the quick responses guys.thats how i like it!  IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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posted October 02, 2009 01:19 PM
my first love and I were born 45 minutes a part, one town over....accept our asc, our charts were exact conj. our composite looked like my birth chart.
7 years together. 3 children together, many breakups and reconciliations. i guess if you add all of the reconciliations it would be 14 years all together, from the time i was 16 till 30. it was not a healthy relationship for me. we actually kinda do look like brother and sister,and its hard to say which one of us our kids look like as i see both of us in them so clearly.only leo i ever dated. i will tell ya, a leo sun/moon with taurus rising should stay away froma leo sun/moon with aries rising. we almost killed each other. IP: Logged |
amowls*
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From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 01:21 PM
In 11th grade I sort of had a thing with a dude who was born 2 days before me. So it was a very conjunction heavy synastry. But since I have hard aspects in my natal chart, I had the same hard aspects with him (Venus square Saturn, Venus square Uranus, Moon opposite Jupiter, etc). Also his Moon formed a tsquare with my Venus and Saturn/Uranus square.I see in your synastry that you have hard aspects to some planets (the same ones you have natally). I think that would be enough to get the ball rolling. IP: Logged |
Lara
Knowflake Posts: 1667
From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 01:45 PM
Would you like to date a mirror? IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 02, 2009 01:53 PM
thats almost as pointless as you're post lara!hardi har. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 02, 2009 01:57 PM
Well, i thought my post was pretty accurate because dating someone with all the same aspects as you is like dating YOURSELF!!Who wants to do that when you can expand and be with someone different! Just my 2 cents  IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 02:06 PM
Lara,I agree with you. Good point! Maybe that's why I never thought of Winona Ryder being attractive.
Raymond
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DiandraReborn25
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From: Portugal
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 02:19 PM
my parents were born 2 years apart,in different places and with different dates.they are pisces and pretty much,they have the same planets conjunct.that is extremely rare,and i think that makes them a very unique couple. they always looked similar to each other,dressed by same colours...they seemed brother and sister too. the attraction was instant and they are together since they were 20.they are now 65 and 63  so i think it depends on who you are today and who you were in the past. it is probable that you build a good relationship if it is "destined to be". but hey - being born so close doenst mean that you are each other´s mirror!! i have a twin sister and we are completely different from each other IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 02, 2009 02:31 PM
thanks, two people with even the same birth dates don't necessarily make each other the same people, thats just presumptuous. they might be prone to having similar tastes or thoughts, but doesn't make two people the same.my mum has a twin, 20 minute difference in birth time, and they are Hardly the same and don't get along at all. Lara, i never said you're post was inaccurate. i just ain't interested in any presumptuous posts about me and another person, i didn't create the topic to ask if i wanted to "date a mirror", i just wanted to know if these aspects are less likely to spark attraction. i don't care if the person is my mirror or not, thats my problem and for me to find out. thanks for all the replies. IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: Formerly Missneptune
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 02:53 PM
I've been seeing someone that was born the same year and 3 weeks after me. I've been hesitant lately that it is really all that much of a connection, until I went out on a blind date with someone else and realized: "oh, this is what its like to have nothing in common!"
There is something so familiar about being with someone that is born around the same time as yourself, because they pretty much go with the same rhythm even if for the most part your pretty much different from the other person, I think Mars conjunct Mars is helpful with being on the same page as someone else.
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Lara
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From: aspideronmars
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posted October 02, 2009 03:21 PM
Raymond,attraction is the magnetic allurement in another that we in ourselves lack lol bee to flower
planet to planet
etc etc Makes sense no? I didn't realise this thread was about Letram. I didn't read the whole synopsis!
So i'm sorry if i ruffled your feathers but you did ask if it meant attraction was unlikely!
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letram
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posted October 02, 2009 03:41 PM
haha..the topic WAS about the aspects i was talking about, and what the chances are of them igniting attraction as opposed to the more common 'hot' synastry aspects. it was actually you who made this topic more about 'letram' by asking if I want to date a mirror or not. whether two people are the same with them kind of aspects is irrelevant, the idea of the topic was to find out if these aspects can make two people attracted to each other.
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Lara
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From: aspideronmars
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 03:47 PM
I would say no then.. attraction needs some juice/friction and there is no friction in conjunctions. Am i wrong?!Sorry, a misunderstanding... i simply asked a question - to everyone. "would you like to date yourself?"
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letram
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posted October 02, 2009 03:49 PM
thanks, so you would say no, but then you ask a question which suggests that the aspects make it a subjective situation?IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 1605
From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 03:52 PM
nope, not correct.... plenty of friction in my first marraige. for the good and the bad...5 or 6 times a day was not unusual...fck or fight we were both at it all the time. IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 02, 2009 03:58 PM
i don't think conjunctions are the most peaceful, i think trines/sextiles are.conjunctions/oppositions and squares are the most energetic i think, so i guess even though conjunctions arn't hard aspects, they can be prone to friction with the energy they produce? thats also interesting cpn, i think if people have exact conjunct aspects lacking the classic 'hot' synastry aspects, then it might boil down to the houses each others planets is hitting. IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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From: Sacramento,California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 04:06 PM
Lara,It makes sense to me. Also Winona and I would aggravate each other's t-squares. Raymond ------------------
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cpn_edgar_winner
Knowflake Posts: 1605
From: Toledo, OH
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2009 05:01 PM
well we both have uranus pluto conj in 5th oppose saturn in 11th , i mean come on. what do you expect with one chart like that let alone 2 with the exact same t square.. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 02, 2009 05:21 PM
I would like to have both.
Conjunctions of same planets for the "common ground", and some other aspects for the attraction.A synastry consisting only of conjunction of same planets would maybe trigger a strong sense of familiarity and unity, but not necessarily attraction. But it definitely also depend on houserulerships. With Aries-ASC and Taurus-ASC for example, a Mars-Mars-conjunction can be pretty attractive, as it is also a conjunction of ruler of ASC (Aries) and traditional ruler of DESC (Scorpio). IP: Logged |
blue moon
Knowflake Posts: 850
From: U.K
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 03, 2009 08:59 AM
It says to me intensity. Conjunctions are powerful aspects. If someone so close in age is like looking a mirror, I wouldn't assume this is some kind of vanity exercise. Looking at yourself in the mirror or in a photograph can be an uncomfortable experience, a reality shock. I bet you could learn a lot. Families are a great place to look for being confronted with the realities of some of our more difficult characteristics. Astologically that might be similar aspects, in different signs but still reflected in real life behaviour. Er, like the Mars CNJ Node Square Ascendant on my mother's chart. I've got that one, too.  We fight all the time
You and I... that's alright
We're the same soul
I don't need... I don't need to hear you say
That if we weren't so alike
You'd like me a whole lot more Listen to me now
I need to let you know
You don't have to go it alone And it's you when I look in the mirror
And it's you when I don't pick up the phone
Sometimes you can't make it on your own IP: Logged |
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