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Topic: Synastry:When yoo feel so COMFORTABLE with someone
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scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 217
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 10, 2009 03:39 PM
 
I've done a thread on the moon and comfort in synastry before. But due to a recent relationship where I felt so comfortable so immediately with a person(I'm usually a high strung, nervous uranian type), I decided to look back at 2 other charts that I had the same reaction with in my life. It's 2 men and 1 woman. What I found overwhelmingly was moon aspects, with saturn being 2nd.
1st chart synastry:
moon oppose moon
moon oppose mercury 2 deg
moon oppose saturn 2 deg
moon square jupiter
moon square saturn 1 deg
moon trine node
2nd chart synastry:
moon conj asc 1 deg
moon sextile moon dw
moon oppose venus 0 deg
moon square saturn
3rd chart synastry:
sun oppose moon
moon square moon
moon trine mars
moon oppose asc
moon square node 2 degDoes anyone else have this reaction to others whose moons strongly aspect eachothers charts?? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 1599
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 10, 2009 03:55 PM
Yes! Moon is so key in comfort...as is 4th house/IC.
I think some people freak out about their moons being touched though lol.
I have my moon in the 12th and never liked it when it conjunct another's sun.
But I have a moon-moon conjunction with who I'm seeing now, and also easy stuff with Moon/Jupiter, Moon/Venus, Moon/Mercury. It's really lovely...very 'at home' feeling. With my 12th house, I have a very hard time expressing myself emotionally sometimes, and the ease of his Mercury on my moon feels like I am understood...and it's 10fold because of my 12th house issues.
I had my moon square someone's Saturn and YUCK! I HATED it! It made me feel all stifled and depressed.
It feels way worse to me than a Sun/Saturn square. IP: Logged |
scrappydog
Knowflake Posts: 217
From: Texas
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 10, 2009 04:10 PM
Yes!! The third chart in synastry my sun pluto conj is in his 4th and his sun is in my 4th, so we have a 4th house dw! In composite we have a sun venus pluto conj in the 4th. I love moon/ 4th house aspects. I even love moon square,oppose,and conj saturn, But I have moon in cappy square saturn natally so maybe this is more comfortable with me.IP: Logged |
running_bull
Knowflake Posts: 31
From: usa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 10, 2009 05:09 PM
Moon sextile Venus brings those nice "I feel good with you" vibes.I'm usually not into trines, but have to admit Moon trine Mars also gives a feeling of "we". IP: Logged |
Lonake
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 11, 2009 12:52 AM
yea you have moon conj asc, conj dsc, and then squaring the nodal axis those are all v.strongi've noticed when someone's moon is activated strongly the reactions are more surprising and harder to control (of course). the funniest is to see it in men. really funny. some of em whose moon was conj mine really did at times think i was their mother, for ex. my boss after having gone on vacay for 2 wks comes back and doesnt even say hi, says right away to me "so did you miss me" just like a little boy would, he'll also show off his new jacket to me as if he's 5 and he just got it for christmas, but who also gets the brunt of his stormy moods when they're roaring? me, and he keeps em under wraps with everyone else. yea, thats how the moon works. it feels safe and when kids feel safe you get ALL of their b.s. they don't hide anything. apparently you're supposed to take it as a compliment when they act up  IP: Logged |
downtomars
Knowflake Posts: 537
From: NY
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 11, 2009 01:54 AM
My relationships usually fall into the "too much too soon" category, sometimes ending with the eventual realization that it isn't going to work. Not only with romantic relationships but with friendships, people I meet on the street, etc. People have always felt strangely and automatically comfortable with me. It is funny because just yesterday the one millionth person asked if they knew me "from somewhere" and that I "look very familiar" and proceeded to tell me their life story. That usually ends with the "I can't believe I just told you all of that!" schpiel. I chalk it up to my Moon in Libra contacting entire generations of Pluto in Libra and Uranus in Libra folks. I wonder if the other Libra Moons on the site feel the same way? I'll have to ask... In my last relationship, his Pluto, Venus, Jupiter and Saturn were all in Libra. He wanted me to move in after dating for two weeks. Well thank goodness I didn't, but I felt really comfortable too and I always told him so! Didn't know why, now I know! The thing about comfort though is that it can turn into "rut"... IP: Logged |
mir
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Registered: May 2009
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posted October 11, 2009 07:44 AM
My 2 longest relationships: although I felt VERY comfortable with both, when I look back I would never do it over again. Feeling soo comfort. also brought the most heavy problems.
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Moon opp Moon
Moon conj Sun
Moon square Mars (1)
Moon conj Merc (wide: 9)
Moon conj Venus (wide: 10)
Moon square Saturn (0)
2)
Moon square Moon (0)
Moon conj Mars
Moon opp Sun (wide: 9)
Moon conj NN
Moon square Saturn (4) Person 1 was full of Scorpio, Person 2 full of Aqua. In both cases it was MY Moon that squared their Saturn.
Striking thing:
Saturn person 1 conj my NN (2)
Saturn person 2 conj my SN (2)
My current SO (also full of Scorp):
Moon conj Sun
Moon trine Moon
Moon conj Venus (7)
Moon conj Pluto (wide: 9)
Moon conj Merc (7)
Moon square Mars
Moon trine Jupiter Mainly MY Moon: I feel like a vortex of emotions inside!
Till now: less comfort. than the other 2. (all that past-**** deep down in me...my open-mindedness is gone!)
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Venus De Milo
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Registered: Jul 2009
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posted October 11, 2009 06:06 PM
My last major relationship -- his mother was heavily into mysticism and he wouldn't tell me the time of his birth! Gah!!! So I don't have all the information. But, the way we met, we literally locked eyes across a crowded room and as soon as I saw him, I thought "oh my God! WHO IS THAT? I could totally get into that guy..." and as I walked past him, we both smiled at one another and said hello. This was at a gym. So, over the next month we would say hi and make small talk and then one day a month after we first met, he asked me out for a drink. That date lasted two days, and for the next year and a half we were inseparable. We're still really good friends. He just doesn't have time for me, and I refuse to be someone's last priority, sadly enough. Anyhow, his Venus in Taurus is trine my Capricorn moon... also his Mercury is sextile my Moon. His Moon is definitely in Aquarius, anywhere from 5 - 18 degrees. I'm an Aquarian... but I'm not sure what else may be going on there. His Sun is in Pisces. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 12, 2009 01:25 AM
hey voodoo lady  so could your sun be conj his moon? with 3 deg orb it could warrant your immed attention and proud solar response and a continuing friendship, when a woman's sun is conj another's moon she derives power from the association, and is strengthened and feels more secure of her position and entitlement. the other 2 you have are nice but frankly wouldnt contribute to your initial reaction as theyre not strong.IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 342
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2009 08:41 AM
My bf's moon trines my moon exactly. Our saturns both trine each others moons.my n.n trine his moon his n.n conjunct my sun ------------------
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•Moon• Gemini
•Mars• Cancer
•Mercury• Cancer
•Venus• Leo •••Virgo Rising••• IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 12, 2009 08:51 AM
A friend of mine has been together with an ex-boyfriend of hers for 7 years, even though his attraction to her was limited, there was no romantic vibe bewteen them, and they have never been in love, or at least fell out of it pretty quickly. I think my friend was a bit more enarmoured by him.So why did they get together and stay together?
She said he was giving her security, she felt comfortable, even though they didn`t have anything in common intellectually, emotionally and even their interests were quite different with a few exception. Yet he felt like "family", even though later on she felt very neglected by him and it was more a kind of difficult family-relationship, and the glue was some kind of ignorance and routine.
I think he actually felt much more comfortable in this relationship than she did. She didn`t leave the relationship for very long, because she felt she "owed" him something, and because of an affair she had had. And it was not before he HIMSELF had an affair, that the relationship ended; well more detoriated and detoriated until there was nothing left anymore. It was just crumbling away. There is not much in terms of usual romantic synastry. Nothing of her planets aspects his Venus or Mars or ASC/DESC. (Venus and Mars are also ruling his ASC and DESC, and his 5th house ruler didn`t have any aspects to her chart) His Pluto is conjunct her Venus-Mars-conjunction in Libra though and squared her ASC/DESC.
(her 5th house ruler was conjunct his Pluto, so I guess at least in the beginning there was some kind of obsessive interest from her side)
What they had was Moon-aspects.
His Moon was:
conjunct her Neptune
trine her Saturn (her DESC-ruler)
trine her Moon
sextile her Venus-Mars-Pluto conjunction Her Moon was:
trine his Moon
square his Saturn
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Got Gemini?
Knowflake Posts: 142
From: Mercury
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 15, 2009 04:24 PM
Well, the Moon for me is important. When my moon is conjunct another woman's libra moon, thats big for me. I ALWAYS feel comfortable in the midst of other libra mooners. Natally, I have Moon conjunct Pluto in Libra less than a degree. I also do very well with moon triners too. There is a woman I have known pretty much most of my life, we have a double whammy moon conjunct pluto in Libra and I feel surprisingly at ease around her. IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 15, 2009 04:57 PM
do you think moon-sun hard aspects can be worse?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 15, 2009 07:05 PM
with the sun/moon hard aspects there still tends to be a big draw, and then later the differences start to arise. but in the beginning its not very apparent. sun opp moon being the more stable of the 2 usually. the squares between the big 3 are.. well they add spice.IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 15, 2009 07:10 PM
thanks L.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted October 15, 2009 07:40 PM
overall just isolating those 2 yes definitely looks very comfortable and very sexy in a romantic relationship.IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted October 16, 2009 03:04 AM
downtomars.I have a late degree libra moon. people have always confided in me. i dont think any of them were pluto or uranus in libras though. Im just easy going and can listen well and give very worldy sound advice also. but thats an interesting point I want to meet people with the pluto and uranus and saturn in libra but naturally I think we moons feel it more.. and they have control and power and whatnot. idk IP: Logged |
iQ
Knowflake Posts: 546
From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 16, 2009 05:20 AM
Positive Moon = Comfortable family feeling
Positive Saturn = Positive Karmic TiesSo Positive Moon + Saturn = Past Life Family or good buddy. Hence the genuine feeling of ease and comfort.
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