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Topic: one sided relationships - show in the synastry?
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letram
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posted October 17, 2009 07:03 AM
 
do you think a relationship that is more one sided, shows in a synastry chart, or vice versa, a synastry chart shows a relationship can be quite one sided?i mean in terms of the love/attraction, how 'mutual' it is. do you think this can be more evidence if certain personal planets from the man are aspecting certain ones with the woman's? IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted October 17, 2009 12:24 PM
Yes. I think the individual who get her/his venus in many and most aspect loves more.IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 17, 2009 12:26 PM
B0ll*ckz.IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 17, 2009 12:59 PM
Popcorn,even though theoretically you are right, there are many more things to consider than just Venus. I think it is one factor of many.
In my experience the ruler of the 5th house was far more telling in this regard though.
You could also look at the ruler of 7th house and 8th house for this. Usually it is quite balanced, but sometimes you will find synastries in which only one person has a high resonance to their 5th, 7th and 8th house ruler or Venus. Yet you have to consider the whole chart. What do they have natally?
If someone has ruler of 5th house in 11th house, this might be a clue.
Or if someone has Venus conjunct Neptune or Pluto, they might be attracted to people, with whom they have strong Neptune or Pluto-synastry. Letram, a really mature response.  IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 17, 2009 01:09 PM
thanks for detailed insight DD, i will go take a look!p.s. my reply was just my expression of disappointment!  no harm done really? im not exactly trying to win the 'most mature poster on the forum' award. obviously that shows, so don't worry about it!  IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 17, 2009 03:51 PM
Letram,everything`s okay. I misinterpreted your post as an expression of contempt towards Popcorn`s comment. So it was a misunderstanding.
No harm done, clear skies ahead. 
Let us know if you find out something.
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popcorn
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posted October 17, 2009 04:02 PM
I have checked out 100 chart and find out.... In the most of the chart the person who not had feelings had few aspect from the other persons planet/asteroid to there owns venus. I cant explain why. But of course I dont say it's the only thing which cause feelings.You can also check out differense between strong erosaspect
strong psyche
strong valentine
strong BML
venus/pluto
Siva/kaali
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scrappydog
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posted October 17, 2009 07:53 PM
The venus person always does more of the "loving" when touched by mars, saturn, uranus, or pluto.IP: Logged |
maira
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posted October 17, 2009 10:44 PM
In my experience, it's the north node on the other one's personal planet.If it's not a double whammy, the node person feels like "it written in the stars", and the other one feels... nothing. My two cents IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 18, 2009 05:27 AM
I definitely think Venus plays a huge role here, but it is not the only thing.
Even though admittedly I have done a check of many synastries in regard to Venus aspecting Sun, Moon, NN, ASC and MC (synastries which had become lasting relationships, usually longer than 15 years), and in 94% of the cases there was at least one Venusaspect; most of the times (in 71% of the cases) it was either a conjunction, square or opposition.
I also cannot agree on the NN-theory as being a sign of onesidedness; at least not as of now. Maybe if there is ONLY an aspect of Venus to the NN and nothing else, it may signify onesidedness.
But I actually have found in the long term synastries Venus-NN-aspects frequently, and no, it were no DW`s.
But of course it could be that a Sun-Venus or ASC-Venus or even MC_Venus (which happened surprisingly often), balanced the NN-aspect out. I will have to check if there were such synastries, which had oNLY a Venus-NN-aspect. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted October 18, 2009 11:51 AM
My exhusband, in 15 year. His venus trine my N.N. My jupiter also conj his SN but I think it not counts because its to wide.It was not onesided relationship. It was longterm. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted October 18, 2009 01:38 PM
YEs, I have seen several synastries where there even has been a Venus-conjunction to NN or SN, and it wasn`t onesided, so I think something else must contribute to the onesidedness or mutuality.IP: Logged |
letram
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posted October 19, 2009 09:55 AM
thanks for all the replies, i have looked into it on the chart i originally had the most interest in. unfortunately i think it would be very one sided based on that, what a shame =(. although on the note of the true node, with the original chart i was looking at, our true nodes were conjunct in aqua, 25/26 degree. my sun is 27 leo, this persons moon is 28 leo. is my sun opposing there true node, and there moon opposing mine something to make it feel like its quite 'written in the stars'? well, im now looking at this synastry chart with some one else for example, i think there is mutual attraction between us, but there is a lack of venus aspects on her behalf. does this look like it would be pretty one sided on the love sense, but not the attraction, or do you think it might be one sided all together? unfortunately i don't have a birth time for the inner chart/person Blue.  p.s. thanks DD, my bad for coming across the wrong way! IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted October 21, 2009 12:39 AM
Have the inside venus person any aspect from the outer person? If not I'm think its the answer.I'm only count tight orb.
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letram
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posted October 21, 2009 04:32 AM
the inner venus trines the outer mercury/valentine IP: Logged |
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