posted October 23, 2009 08:51 PM         

How they like being wooed and to woo.
What they are like as a lover.
What family and growing up means for him.
Fears or restrictions.
Desires and ambitions.
Etc. Etc. Etc.
Anything really.

Also, kindly tell me about Aries generally. I know no Aries person other than this person, so I have no point of reference.

I am in the middle of strategizing a plan of how to approach this person without freaking him out since he gets freaked out a lot. Being direct seems to be a problem with him.

Anyways, here's the chart:

posted October 23, 2009 09:11 PM         

I know aries men. They like a woman who is their equal. They like them feminine but not too feminine. A bit of a tomboy is a good thing with these men, but you always must look pretty. Always. You have to stand up to them but not be obnoxious, or worse yet, make them look bad in front of people doing so. Talk about ego! Total male.

They like the chase. But they also can't feel like you don't care. A fine line.

Good luck, haha.

posted October 23, 2009 09:25 PM         

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PS - His moon in cap and MC and venus in taurus will mean he'll like someone who looks good on paper, whatever his paper version is of looking good. He wants to be able to brag about you. Status. Most aries like women who are accomplished in their own right.

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Perfect!

posted October 23, 2009 09:32 PM         

OR...

posted October 24, 2009 03:33 AM         

Sun in a t-square with the Moon and Ascendant doesn't sound fun at all.

posted October 24, 2009 03:40 PM         

The Sun square Moon pits these dominating energies against one another, and causes a lot of stalls/inertia.

The t-square, even though one of the points isn't a planet, is or should be resolved by focusing on Libra in the 3rd, which might mean learning/communicating the balance that isn't present amongst the points of the t-square.

Saturn opposite Mars means that Saturn is discipling his actions.

Pluto opposite Mars/Mercury means to me that Pluto is forcing it's influence over both of these planets. Might make a person vengeful. Might make them powerful. Might work to keep both planets in a constant state of transformation.

posted October 24, 2009 04:07 PM         

Yeah, trusting your intuition gets you nowhere.

I'd say quite the opposite, considering his NN is in the 12th. Neptune conj his SN tells me he's got a tendency of falling into a rut of daydreaming probably.
Maybe because he doesn't always listen to his intuition.

EDIT: In Gemini - he should listen to his dreams, because it's in those that a lot of important details make themselves known.
His Neptune is Rx - it's internalized.
He may also have artistic talent which he doesn't feel completely confident expressing.

posted October 24, 2009 04:24 PM         

Here's a thread regarding Gemini NN: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/007992.html

It does confirm my interpretation. I just based it on the opposite of what the Sag NN interp is, which is to stop delaying making decisions based on not having enough information, and make that leap of faith.

Being in the 12th house does lend some confusion as to how to interpret it as the 12th would suggest using your intuition. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/008001.html

Now I'm looking at the other attributes of the signs involved. (This is why I don't enjoy elaborating. It's too time consuming to sit and ponder over every possibility.)

posted October 24, 2009 04:39 PM         

The one thing I've associated time and again with the 12th though is dreams.
But things in the 12th do seem like they disappear somehow. Maybe he needs to remember his dreams lol.

posted October 24, 2009 07:36 PM         

AG and MVM:

To NN in Gemini-

From what I know of him, I am inclined to say that he is probably a skeptic just because he is cynical, sarcastic, jaded and slightly annoyed by humans who he deems to be "closed-minded" sheeple who believe everything they are told even if it holds no weight. Maybe his cynicism is based on many instances where he had been gullible and got disappointed. I dunno. I would say that he definitely has a touch of self-righteousness about his beliefs or what he might know. I haven't found this to be harmful. He just really likes his choices, values and beliefs and these beliefs, values etc are quite ingrained in his personality - which makes me think that he might be rigid because a person who holds their beliefs in such high esteem - can be caught latching onto beliefs that may no longer serve the individual.

He is a daydreamer, and always complains about doing too much daydreaming and I suppose he complains because he should be living his dreams too, not just dreaming them... ??? I have never asked him to elaborate on why daydreaming is something worth mentioning because we all do it, but I suppose he must recognize it as some type of hindrance.

He is artistic. He doesn't express it fully. I can't say why. Maybe it is as MVM says, and he isn't confident about it, or he might be lacking inspiration to go at it full steam. But yes, he is artistic.

He is a know-it-all, but I enjoy the that type because I can be one myself, and another know-it-all just means that I have someone to let me know more than I knew before. I don't know if he feels the same, whether he has to be the knowledgeable one amongst the ignorant to feel empowered, or whether equality is more appealing.

I think that he might deem himself as a spiritual savior by "opening people's minds"... yes, definitely. He is not a preacher though. I've always given the impression that out beliefs and values are not the same, and he has never criticized, judged or preached to me. He let's each to his own, but has a desire to "set people free" by educating people of other perspectives, but many of us have similar desires.

I think that he thinks most people are deluded, but he won't say it out loud, whereas I would, most likely.

posted October 24, 2009 07:47 PM         

This is contradicted by Venus in Taurus.

posted October 26, 2009 04:32 PM         

I'd say his ideal woman is earthy. Maybe an older/emotionally mature woman. A person he sees as an asset to him. He may fall in love with a business partner. Someone who helps him make/manage his money.

Get-Rich-Quick schemes are probably a big turn on for him. What are his ideas?, maybe you can help out. Or, may have some ideas of your own and he can help connect the missing dots.

posted October 26, 2009 06:31 PM         

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I'd say his ideal woman is earthy. Maybe an older/emotionally mature woman. A person he sees as an asset to him. He may fall in love with a business partner. Someone who helps him make/manage his money.

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Earthy is good. I wish it could be a spiritual and emotional or even mental asset than a material one that he is after; but since it IS Venus we're talking about, Venus in a Venusian sign, in the 'wordly' 10th house... it might just be material asset that he is after.

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What are his ideas?, maybe you can help out. Or, may have some ideas of your own and he can help connect the missing dots.

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We are always talking about doing something together but we never take it seriously. So, maybe I can make it more of a serious venture.

LuvinU~

Thank you for the insight. Unfortunately, I can't confirm any of it for sure, because if he does hesitate a lot, he seldom shows it.

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He harbors a lot, it looks like

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I suspect that this might be very true. It is actually frightening.

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He likes to attach some sort of unusualness to his relationships so that they will be 'his' in his own way/in a way no one else could possibly have it.

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I like this. Being unusual myself, it means that this one can work for than against me.