posted November 04, 2009 06:25 PM         

Read on if you want to learn what this girl is like. I will post her chart so I can get some ideas on why she is like this (and I am not the only one who thinks this of her).

She is incredibly self-centered. She will interrupt you talking about something important to blurt out a story about herself or someone she knows that's loosely (or not even) related to your story. Then she will continue talking and ignore the fact that you were just talking.

She criticizes every single thing that is not hers. If it's not her opinion, she doesn't want to hear it. If it's not something she's familiar with, she hates it and whatever she likes is always bigger, better, and more interesting.

She has straight up said to me that "It really is all about me. I don't care about what's going on around me." Her words. But she also tells me she is very insecure. She went to a rap concert with me and two friends and did not enjoy herself. Turns out she hates rap and hates dancing. She told us to SIT DOWN and SETTLE THE F*CK DOWN when we were dancing and having fun. She said she won't dance because she's insecure. She also makes fun of "fat girls" dressed in clubbing clothes..yet tells me she is too insecure to dress in cute clothes (even though she has a great figure). Her only reason for disliking one of my friends is because she is "soo fat". Disgusting.

She makes up stories and lies about random things. She told me and a friend, "I speak fluent French." I was shocked because she hadn't told me that before, so I asked her to say something in French. I told her to say "I'm listening to music" in French, and she paused and awkwardly said "Listening is a verb I don't know..." Why would she lie about something so stupid???

I don't know..she just really bothers me. The way she treats people and expects the entire world to pay attention to her. There is more I could say but that is the gist of it.

She won't leave me alone! She is constantly bothering me to hang out with her because she thinks we're the best of friends..I don't know how to break it to her I don't want to be her friend anymore..she brings me down and annoys the crap out of me.

She is also VERY possessive of her many boy-toys and can get all stalker-ish on them.

Here is her chart...I do NOT have her birth time.

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posted November 04, 2009 06:39 PM         

You are not a shrink not a family member of hers.

Otherwise sun in scorpio, ascendant in leo and most of all.. moon in cancer.
Saturn in five for the whole controlling and image obsessive.... the whole badly aspected to her moon.
She will not change, especially since jupiter comes into the picture to EXPAND those dispositions already stated in her chart.

I say dump the person and move on.

posted November 05, 2009 02:37 AM         

She's told the reason for her behaviour: insecurity. Thought it is hard when she acts a way you find unbearable maybe you could try being a bit more compassionate. Start off with one easy way by not asking strangers to help assassinate her character under the guise of astrological learning, it's really unnecessary.

posted November 05, 2009 06:25 PM         

She said she is insecure, which is great, not many would admit to that. Maybe she uses insecurity as an excuse for her failings, rather than getting help and not having something to blame.

Best to be assertive and speak with "I" statements rather than her or "you did this/that/etc" statements.

Friends are house 11. End of friendship is house 10. End of = 12th from, 11th = 10th.
Aspect between houses 10 and 11 will indicate times of friends new and old, for good or bad.