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la_sexorcisto
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posted November 04, 2009 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for la_sexorcisto     Edit/Delete Message
I generally like something about everyone and try to understand where they are "coming from"..but I recently met a girl whose attitude and whole disposition just disgusts me. I thought she was very cool at first, but her true colors are starting to show.

Read on if you want to learn what this girl is like. I will post her chart so I can get some ideas on why she is like this (and I am not the only one who thinks this of her).

She is incredibly self-centered. She will interrupt you talking about something important to blurt out a story about herself or someone she knows that's loosely (or not even) related to your story. Then she will continue talking and ignore the fact that you were just talking.

She criticizes every single thing that is not hers. If it's not her opinion, she doesn't want to hear it. If it's not something she's familiar with, she hates it and whatever she likes is always bigger, better, and more interesting.

She has straight up said to me that "It really is all about me. I don't care about what's going on around me." Her words. But she also tells me she is very insecure. She went to a rap concert with me and two friends and did not enjoy herself. Turns out she hates rap and hates dancing. She told us to SIT DOWN and SETTLE THE F*CK DOWN when we were dancing and having fun. She said she won't dance because she's insecure. She also makes fun of "fat girls" dressed in clubbing clothes..yet tells me she is too insecure to dress in cute clothes (even though she has a great figure). Her only reason for disliking one of my friends is because she is "soo fat". Disgusting.

She makes up stories and lies about random things. She told me and a friend, "I speak fluent French." I was shocked because she hadn't told me that before, so I asked her to say something in French. I told her to say "I'm listening to music" in French, and she paused and awkwardly said "Listening is a verb I don't know..." Why would she lie about something so stupid???

I don't know..she just really bothers me. The way she treats people and expects the entire world to pay attention to her. There is more I could say but that is the gist of it.

She won't leave me alone! She is constantly bothering me to hang out with her because she thinks we're the best of friends..I don't know how to break it to her I don't want to be her friend anymore..she brings me down and annoys the crap out of me.

She is also VERY possessive of her many boy-toys and can get all stalker-ish on them.

Here is her chart...I do NOT have her birth time.

*edited*

She has a lot of Scorpio and watery energy in her chart...so do I, which is maybe why we got along initially and she is drawn to me as a friend (I am Scorp ASC, Venus, and Pluto, Pisces Mars and Jupiter)....what do you think about this/her?

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hanakin
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posted November 04, 2009 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hanakin     Edit/Delete Message
I don't understand why do you waste your time with someone like that?
Seriously... life is too short to be bothered by idiots.

You are not a shrink not a family member of hers.


Otherwise sun in scorpio, ascendant in leo and most of all.. moon in cancer.
Saturn in five for the whole controlling and image obsessive.... the whole badly aspected to her moon.
She will not change, especially since jupiter comes into the picture to EXPAND those dispositions already stated in her chart.

I say dump the person and move on.

Never let negative energy get the most of you.

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la_sexorcisto
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posted November 04, 2009 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for la_sexorcisto     Edit/Delete Message
I am "dumping" her. I am avoiding her right now, and if she asks me why I will tell her exactly what I posted above. I just wonder why she is so ..ugh.

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DepTaurus
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posted November 04, 2009 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DepTaurus     Edit/Delete Message
ive noticed alot of people with jupiter square pluto to be a mence and can be overbearing i should now with experince.

i know my ex best friend had this my cousin and his friends mostly people born during the end of 1990-1991 have this and mostly people i went to highchool with and they can be alot to take all at once.

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Lonake
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posted November 04, 2009 10:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
negative scorpio is just that - all about the ego. sun conj venus for vanity and then conj pluto, it would amp up any negative scorpio then the jupiter square could send it over the top. i believe everything you wrote about this case.

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blue moon
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posted November 05, 2009 02:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Did she give you permission to post her chart on a public forum with her name on it?

She's told the reason for her behaviour: insecurity. Thought it is hard when she acts a way you find unbearable maybe you could try being a bit more compassionate. Start off with one easy way by not asking strangers to help assassinate her character under the guise of astrological learning, it's really unnecessary.

I suggest you take down the chart with her name on it and maybe a moderator closes this thread.

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Diana
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posted November 05, 2009 02:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message
I don't like it either. I think you should NEVER post a chart with the person's name on it. It's not nice. It's another thing to post a chart with no name and birth details. A lot of people are born the same day and only people very in-the-know about astrology will know the day and year if it's not visible on the posted chart. They still will not be able to be certain it is that particular person without a name on the chart.

You should remove the name, DOB, and location of the chart, including coordinates.

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PeaceAngel
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posted November 05, 2009 02:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
I'm with bm and Diana on this one. You really shouldn't be posting someone's personal details without their permission. You're entitled to whatever opinions you have of them based on your perceptions and experience, but giving away someone's personal details is straight up wrong and just plain vindictive. Right now I'm wondering, what separates you from them?

If you feel it necessary to post their chart, please have the decency to delete their details. You can easily edit/erase that information.

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pire
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posted November 05, 2009 04:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pire     Edit/Delete Message
that's too bad, i need to know how to get rid of a scorpio without getting stung.

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mir
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posted November 05, 2009 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message
Mercury square the Ascendant is something to think about.
The verbal communication is out of step with the ascendant 'doorway' to the outside world.

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mir
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posted November 05, 2009 06:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message
Haven't SAID anything...(there's NO birth time)

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amowls*
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posted November 05, 2009 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
Honestly she sounds like every other insecure girl. I know SO many people like her, and it all stems from insecurity. I don't think deep down she's really like that.

I went through a phase where I acted like that when I was her age. Then I woke up and realized that it was immature, and no one thinks you're awesome just because you have the ability to call someone else ugly or fat.

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carl
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posted November 05, 2009 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for carl     Edit/Delete Message
People post charts all the time with names of people who aren't part of the forum. How is this instance any different?

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lalalinda
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posted November 05, 2009 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
We have privacy issues here la_sexorcisto,
it's a big no-no to post others personal details without their consent. Please refrain in the future.
Your post has been edited.

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taurusvirgoleolady1974
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posted November 05, 2009 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for taurusvirgoleolady1974     Edit/Delete Message
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Lonake
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posted November 05, 2009 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
i agree with carl. either change the rules or do some better policing.

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Diana
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posted November 05, 2009 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message
It doesn't matter if there was no birth time. Her name, DOB, and city were listed. Birth time is the one thing you can keep out of the things I mentioned.

It's different because she was bashing this person and they aren't here to defend themselves. Would you want it done to you?

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la_sexorcisto
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posted November 05, 2009 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for la_sexorcisto     Edit/Delete Message
Umm..her last name was not on the chart. Yank yank.

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Diana
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posted November 05, 2009 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diana     Edit/Delete Message
It doesn't matter if her last name wasn't on the chart. It's still her name, dob, and location. If I knew her, I'd have known it was her.

You sound just like her. Maybe that's why you hate her? Or maybe that's why she's such a B_tch to you. Just a thought.

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Coffee
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posted November 05, 2009 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Coffee     Edit/Delete Message
Missing the natal, so will treat as problem page question. Not bad looking too, if I can remember, which always helps.
Good looks always help cover up a nasty personality. Just look at Me

She said she is insecure, which is great, not many would admit to that. Maybe she uses insecurity as an excuse for her failings, rather than getting help and not having something to blame.

Best to be assertive and speak with "I" statements rather than her or "you did this/that/etc" statements.

Friends are house 11. End of friendship is house 10. End of = 12th from, 11th = 10th.
Aspect between houses 10 and 11 will indicate times of friends new and old, for good or bad.

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