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Alvarella777
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posted November 08, 2009 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Hello out there,

below you see a Synastry- and a Composite-chart. It's between me and a very nice & gentle man. We met recently - and he has developed a crush on me instantly (maybe even more - he just wrote me an e-mail, telling about his feelings.)

He's the 2nd or 3rd man in a row who seems to "fall in love with me" (well kind of...) - while I don't sense a noticeable attraction to him. BUT: These guys that contacted me recently ... they all have some traits in common! They're a "different type" of man - not the kind of fellas I usually am interested in. (Lately, until 1 or 2 years ago, I tended to fall for more manipulative, selfish, egocentric and childish types ... and got hurt badly with the last one. Somehow I decided to go for "more mature" men now - and suddenly ... THESE MORE MATURE TYPES start approaching me...) AND NOW: I basically appreciate these "new guys" - I also like the one below! He is really a nice man, gentle, intelligent, very down to earth, reliable and all ... BASICALLY all he does and says is "right" - it is as if a new "category of men" is approaching me, over the last months ... more sincere, mature and all. I do like this!!! It's like ... a whole new perspective on my "love horizon".

But ... until now I don't manage to get my "attraction"-buttons pushed by these "more mature" guys. I like their minds & souls, I like the prospects that a relationship with such a "serious" man could bring. Still ... I don't "feel" it.

What's your take on the charts below?
WHY does HE feel so attracted?
WHY don't I manage to feel attraction for him?
WHAT is it, that basically convinces me that he is a "good guy", though?

As always, your input would be very welcome. ;-)


SYNASTRY (me inside, he outside)

COMPOSITE

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popcorn
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posted November 08, 2009 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message
His venus get more aspect from you (including mars/sun) than yours venus get from him.

Your saturn in positiv aspect to his pluto and venus also get it strong for him and increase his feeling for you..

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Lonake
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posted November 08, 2009 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
don't worry, it won't be lasting.

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hanakin
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posted November 08, 2009 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hanakin     Edit/Delete Message
lonake, your reply.... is this positive or negative?

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Alvarella777
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posted November 09, 2009 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alvarella777     Edit/Delete Message
Lonake, yeah. This is a bit cryptic...

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Nightingale
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posted November 11, 2009 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nightingale     Edit/Delete Message
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Lately, until 1 or 2 years ago, I tended to fall for more manipulative, selfish, egocentric and childish types ... and got hurt badly with the last one.

I truly cannot understand how anyone would be sexually attracted to this type of man as opposed to men you can respect.

However, now you've moved on, and maybe you will start raising your standards higher still, and this will attract more mature men, who you also find physically appealing, into your life.

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Peri
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posted November 12, 2009 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
http://www.llewellyn.com/journal/article/109


written by Richenda Reeves

If planets are in quindecile aspect within the synastry of two horoscopes, it indicates obsessive/compulsive inclinations within that relationship. When both persons have natal quindecile(s) and there are quindecile(s) through synastry of the two horoscopes, the relationship dynamics may be overwhelmingly obsessive/compulsive. This inclination will not be nearly as powerful if those involved do not have quindecile(s) within their own natal horoscopes. If person “A” has natal quindecile(s), and person “B” doesn’t, the obsession/compulsion within the relationship may be one-sided, with “A” focusing on “B”.

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