posted November 20, 2009 06:32 PM         

no transit can make you end a relatioship if you dont really want that.

why did you ended?this is the main thing here...is it cause it was long-distance?cause Love disappeared,cause you felt lonely.?

did you felt relief when you did that?if so then it means that it was the best thing to do.

can you put natals with transits?

for example how did that Pluto on asc worked out?was there many power struggles?manipulational games or mind controlling?

on looking at the composite the Tr Venus on Uranus seems to show a probable sudden change in love matters.uranus rules the 7th hwile venus rules the 3rd and the 10th.was it seomthing about your surroundings or about siblings?

posted November 20, 2009 06:48 PM         

Chiron is also experiencing square from Mars.

posted November 20, 2009 06:55 PM         

I really liked this guy! Our personalities went well together, I loved talking to him over the phone and I'm sure I'm gonna miss that!

We broke up just yesterday. Pluto on my asc wasn't that bad. I'm used to mind games, I'm Scorpio.

posted November 20, 2009 07:00 PM         

His

posted November 20, 2009 07:06 PM         

but is it for good?at times the relationhip ends by one of the persons involved and after some time,realises that he or she really misses the other.

cancer asc - he is attatched to his family rigjt?is he one of those types who doesnt want to live the place where he was born?

he has stellium in virgo - very down to earth it might be hard for him to keep the long distance if he doenst feel secure enough.

but he has aqua moon - he could very well enjoy the liberty and space that a long distance gives him,right?

how long did you were together?Tr SATURN is also on 2nd H composite.were there any money problems, impeding on seeing each other so frequently?

posted November 20, 2009 07:11 PM         

We dated for 6 months.

Is it for good? I guess! Unless circumstances were to change and he or I could move to be closer...but of course it would be greedy on both to have each other wait when you don't know for sure.

He's a very independent guy, and I think you're right! The whole LD didn't give him the security enough to withhold it.

Physical interaction-he said, was very important to him, Cancer rising maybe?

posted November 20, 2009 07:21 PM         

i know cause i also live a long distance and my bf is a cancer asc with aqua moon but he has libra sun.relationships are really important for him,and helps to be an Aqua emotional being in a long distance.

yes i think it was the cancer part- they needd to feel VERY secure.Very cuddled and told how important they are for us.if you move away just a bit,or dont talk much on the phone---YEWWW - HE WILL stop right there asking : Do you still love me?

it is isnt it?unless that his aqua moon is stronger than his asc...

you know im a virgo sun and i can tell you this:if we know that this person is the One,we dont give up easily.i believe that if time passes and he realises that,about you,he will turn his Mind around.

see.he has pluto mars and merc in the house of imediate surroundings and siblings-this myst be an area of life where he feels disempowered maybe?manipulated?bu having sun and venus in the 2nd.his finantial security is very very important to him.and again his own self-confidence and self esteem appear here as being a focus in his life.

so..maybe his business is the way he has to feel he has the power to make his dreams come true?howeever i think that if he has family working with him this is a major problem...it is where the power/control might appear,relating directly with the 3rd house placements...?

cancers have a HUGE NECESSITY of self preservation.for them.money is their security.they hold on to it like if it is their rescueboat.ghe must be very afraid of giving up his business and take risks.might very well be this.and not the fact that you are long distance by itself.

posted November 20, 2009 07:32 PM         

Maybe Solar Arc

His SA saturn conj his N venus
His SA mars conj his N uranus

He want to be alone just now..

posted November 20, 2009 07:43 PM         

as porcorn showed these are hard transits for him,he might want to think about all his life.and then make decisions.

youre having satunr in asc-this must be hard fo you too...rules your IC.are you feeling you are forced to grow in terms of family matters?might also make you feel more growned up in your deepest Self..?

Pluto in your IC - definatelly transformational to you.pluto rules your 2nd so changes in your finances too?Node is aproaching your mars so you might also feel a need for action all of a sudden.

when will uranus hit your dsc?this generally means chaneg in your relationships too.few times is also about jobīs.

posted November 20, 2009 07:49 PM         

Yes, I feel like I'm forever changing and maturing in my thinking. I'm moving back with my mother before the year ends. I was living on my own, but she fell ill and needs my help.

posted November 20, 2009 07:57 PM         

we can see already that you are having to be responsible and hel your family.having to in a way,go back in order to go further.

you are passing the same transits i will pass within 2 years more or less.pluto on Ic.Saturn on AC,Uranus on Dsc.but i will have saturn return at the same time!

but see...uranus on dsc doenst always mean ends of relationhips or unpredictable ones.for example can very well be the begining of one,or the (re)union with someone -uranus rules aqua..and whose an Aqya Moon?

we never know do we? But one thing is for sure:whatver happens to us,in all moments,it is always for our own Good.

posted November 20, 2009 08:01 PM         

I feel better but still sad, which is normal...

I must log off now. I don't have internet at home...

posted November 20, 2009 08:04 PM         

pop

posted November 20, 2009 09:57 PM         

Your moon is experiencing square from confusing Neptune, so your emotions and your intuitions are not very grounded.

I think you should just write this off as a loss and try to move on. You might have better relationship luck when Jupiter moves into your 7th house of Pisces next year.

You and this person do share a lovely Chiron Venus trine, but you also have Chiron square Mars, and according to Magi astrology, it means no marriage.