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scrappydog
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posted November 29, 2009 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message
I met a guy I like and my venus in my 5th squares his venus uranus conj in my 8th 0 deg. I'm sure that he likes me too, but he is shy and not easy to get close to. Something about the attraction feels slightly off or strange. I am older than him and he is not my normal type. There was an instant attraction though. My sun pluto conj also squares his sun exact. But we also have softer aspects like venus conj neptune in his 7th and my 8th and his moon conj my asc. I remember with my x husband I had the strongest attraction to him than anyone ever and my uranus opposed his venus exact. Does anyone have any input on this aspect in synastry?

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posted November 29, 2009 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for popcorn     Edit/Delete Message
I meet a casanova man once a time. His venus/uranus conj my venus/N.N /mars. His venus/uranus suare his owns mars. He lie about his age. He was 18 years older than me.. I fall for him suddenly.

My DC ruler are uranus. My venus/N.N/mars and moon are all in house 11. For me are uranus importent in synastry. In every relationship I been in I have an uranus connection. Always.

You must check out the other aspect between your chart. Not only venus square uranus. Venus uranus aspect= exciting. Wow.

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posted November 29, 2009 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ursa     Edit/Delete Message
I don't have any expertise but I can share this: my best friend and her husband of 8 years share a dw of uranus sq. venus. Pretty happy marriage too. Natally, one has the trine and the other has the square.

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posted December 07, 2009 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckycharmgirl     Edit/Delete Message
I have Uranus square synastry with someone who I have an attraction for. He is not my normal type and the mutual interest hit us both suddenly. We are both married so we have been unable to translate the attraction into a relationship.

I find with this aspect in synastry it can be tricky. However, there are no clear cut rules and for others this may be a great aspect but from my experience I find that we both go through hot and cold periods where we are interested. There is a strong theme of separation which Uranus is known for, and we basically never see each other due to our circumstances. Yet, the attraction itself is electrical and very strong.

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luckycharmgirl
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posted December 07, 2009 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for luckycharmgirl     Edit/Delete Message
Oops I meant to say Uranus square venus in synastry..

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posted December 08, 2009 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pire     Edit/Delete Message
sorry i got it wrong

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slowpoke
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posted December 10, 2009 05:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message
Hi scrappydog,

In Synastry Astrology

There are aspects that suggest healthy attractions and unhealthy attractions. The healthy versions are those attraction influences which do well as a stand alone influence or one that does well with a supporting cast of aspects around it. The unhealthy versions are those influences that are unyielding and uncompromising in their influence, regardless of what is around it. Like a MR 180 P influence will draw your attention to each other, if you get together the influence may try and rip your hearts out. MR 180 Asc influence may also try and burn a hole in you. Yet VE 180 VE, VE 180 UR and MR 180 M are doable under the right supporting cast of aspect influences. The true trick to understanding attractions is to understand the dynamics of the influences interacting with each other. Point in case, S 0 VE is an attraction but not of the category of knocking peoples' socks off, yet again S 0 M fills you with energy and your soul with how wonderful the World is when you are around each other.

VE 90 UR - unhealthy
VE 180 UR - healthy

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Synastry Aspect Categories:

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Aspects representing the influences that affect you as a unit.
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01.) Ambition --> requires DOB, timeing + location for MC of at least one person.

02.) Growth (advancements) --> JP & or P aspects

03.) Love --> VE & or M aspects (these work as substitues for each other, if VE is missing we look to the M and visa versa.)

04.) Emotions --> M & or VE & or NP (these work as substitues for each other, if VE is missing we look to the M and or NP and visa versa.)

05.) Sex --> MR, VE, UR, M & or P combos between themselves.

06.) Aggression --> S, MR & or P combos

07.) Physical Activities --> S, MR, UR, P & or MC

08.) Mental (friendships) --> MY, JP, SA & or, UR, (M 60/120 SA) combos

09.) Trust --> M, JP, SA, UR, P & or, Asc aspects combos between themselves.

10.) Money --> primiarily VE, JP, SA & or, P

11.) Attractions --> (S/ M, JP), (M/ MR, JP), (VE/ VE, MR, UR, P, Asc), (MR/ Asc)

12.) Luck (good timing) --> (UR/ VE & or JP), (S 60 JP), (M 120 Asc)

14.) Physical Fights (Catalyst Potentials) -->
(S 90 S), (S 180 MR), (M 90 MR), (M 180 P), (MY 90 P)
(MR 90/180 MR), (MR 180 SA), (MR 180 UR), (MR 180 P), (MR 180 MC), (MR 90/180 Asc)

15.) Major Support (helping each other) -->
(S 120 M), (S 0/120 JP), (S 120 P), (S 120 Asc)
(M 0/120 JP), (M 120 SA),(M 120 P)
(MY 0 VE), (MY 120 P), (MY 0 Asc)
(VE 120 VE), (VE 120 SA)
(MR 120 MR), (MR 120 SA)
(JP 0 JP), (JP 120 P), (JP 120 Asc)
(SA 0/120 UR), (SA 120 NP), (SA 120 P)
And all favorable aspect influences to MC.

16.) Reaching Out (teaching others) --> (M 120 JP), (MR 120 JP), (SA 120 UR), (SA 120 NP)

17.) Power Players (Forging in roads to the max - going too far can mean self-destruction) -->
(S 0 MR), (S 0 P), (S 0 MC), (S 0 Asc)
(M 0 MR), (M 0 P),
(MY 0 MR), (MY 0 P)
(VE 0 P)
(MR 0 MR)
(JP 0 P), (JP 0 MC)
(SA 0 P), (SA 0 MC)
(UR 0 P)

S = Sun
M = Moon
NN = North Nord
MY = Mercury
VE = Venus
MR = Mars
JP = Jupiter
SA = Saturn
UR = Uranus
NP = Neptune
P = Pluto
MC = your Midheaven
Asc = your Ascendant


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DD
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posted December 10, 2009 08:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Slowpoke,

that`s an interesting list (it reminds me of a classification I read somewhere on the net, too).
As far as I have read it all through, I agree with most part of it.

I am a bit puzzled about the choice of some of the aspects, though.
For example you wrote, that a Mars-opposition-Pluto would be challenging and even indicate a risk of physical fights. I agree with that, but I wonder why did you leave out the square between Mars and Pluto? Wouldn`t it fall into the same category as the opposition?

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posted December 10, 2009 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Scrappy;

I have the Venus trine uranus with someone. He too is older than me, not that much. And he too is not my "type" per se. We met over twenty years ago, and fell in love at first sight. It was a very turbulant relationship. Not necessarily because of our feelings for one another, but because of things that he was into, which he kept secret from me. The end of the relationship was painful and dramatic. I won't go into details, but, it was something I never forgot, or completely got over. Anyway, he is back again. We have some other aspects that indicated a long term fated relationship, so I'm not completely surprised. Anyway, I was just reading about this last night in Linda's 'Relationship Signs' and the book is still on the page, so maybe this will help you...

Venus Opposed or Square Uranus

"There's no shortage of stimulation between you, but most of it initiates from Uranus stimulating or seducing Venus into thinking patterns, activities, and behavior not natural to the more placid and passive Venus. Periodic bursts of eccentric behavior can occur, and minor or major disappointments in each other can cause sudden and unexpected temporary separations. When this aspect is vitalized and manifested by the transiting planets, Uranus will seem undependable, unpredictable, and just plain old fashioned crazy to Venus-but never boring. Venus can, on occasion, make Uranus feel compelled to win a race with a hundred-pound weight attached to his ankeles. It's a lively vibration, full of surprises, like the passing vaudeville show of life itself."

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slowpoke
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posted December 10, 2009 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message
Hi DD,

The aspect category list is an incomplete list, left that way on purpose.

If there is an aspect, it should be placed in the list. And many squares and oppositions do in deed need to be ear mark in accordance to their weight. But lets look at the situations from a different standpoint.

If you had and opportunity to select which aspects to have, which would you prefer when it comes to the physical fighting aspects. MR 180 P or MR 90 P. Both are bad, which is better? If they both sit in the same category, it would make no difference.

I am in a position, where selection becomes the issue rather than reading what someone has.

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DD
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posted December 11, 2009 06:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Slowpoke,

"If you had and opportunity to select which aspects to have, which would you prefer when it comes to the physical fighting aspects. MR 180 P or MR 90 P. Both are bad, which is better?"
I don`t t hink it can be seen from just this one aspect alone.

But speaking theoretically I would prefer the opposition. A square can easily be nastier than any opposition.


"I am in a position, where selection becomes the issue rather than reading what someone has"
What do you mean by that?

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amowls*
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posted December 11, 2009 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
I have this aspect exact natally so I pretty much have it with everyone my age. I only date people my age, so it's popped up in every relationship I've had in my young adult life. Mind you, I also have Venus square Saturn so what happens is, I fall quickly for the other person and we stay together for a year at least, I get bored and I move on.

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slowpoke
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posted December 11, 2009 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message
Hey DD,

The idea concerning MR & P is that if a selection had to be made, could it be done. I made a selection and you made one. We are not wrong in our selections, because the selection was made based on our individual needs and beliefs. Now, I would like to apply this thought to your question.

“I am in a position, where selection becomes the issue rather than reading what someone has” Q. What did I mean by that?

We know that when a person is born, the Natal
chart to that person will show a given set of aspects that will accompany this person for life. This is a constant, a given.

When this person wants to add another person into his/her life, the dynamics of both lives have the potential to change. And Synastry Astrology becomes the tool to analysis their potential together. Our subject person can change people whenever he likes. And the Synastry analysis will show changes in aspect combinations accordingly. Our subject person is our constant element and newly added people become the variables in his life. (Things, of course, you already knew.)

I began to see that Synastry Astrology does much more that look at romantic possibilities for people, it is designed to look at variables for one person. Through the invention of the computer we can now look at any random number of individuals' data and pick and choose which individuals have the
potential of making good units with our subject person. My answer to your question is that (The selection is done by selecting the individuals who generate the best set of aspects with our subject person).

In today’s world, our mindset needs to be adjusted on how we can us Synastry Astrology to help improve on the quality of people surrounding a person's life. Presently, most astrologers use Synastry like they would for a Natal chart. They focus only on the individuals our subject person knows about. Their reaction would be something like "Ok, give me your DOB's with time and place born and (lets see what you have)." I can do one
better.

If I were given just our subject person's DOB with time and place of birth, I would say (lets see what I can find). And I would probably provide him with twenty potentially compatible prospects who were born in America. Only the old traditional set of planets are used in my computations.

DD, would you like a sample?
I can provide you with twenty potentially
compatible prospects who were born in America
for any given subject person’s DOB. If you are interested, just provide me with any DOB, time and, place born. And I will submit the results for your inspection.

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DD
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posted December 11, 2009 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, I am interested in a sample.

I will give you my own date:
18h december 1974
7:07 a.m.
Viersen / Germany

Even though I think I understand your theory now, it is always easier for me to see it against the backdrop of my own chart.


I agree with you that even though we have just a narrow set of "selection", there may be many more people who are suited just as well, if not better to us.
I think in some sense this may be the underlying reason why I am so fascinated with celebrity charts and my synastry with them. Cause even though I do not know any single one of them, it seems that synastry works nevertheless (from my point of view anyway; of course it is an one-way-street).
Usually actors i really admire and feel some resonance to will have strong synastric aspects with me.

There is just one thing I stumbled over in your explanation. And that is that you say you can pick the "best" candidates (synastry wise).
I still research, what these best aspects are, and if they are the same for everyone.
I am a bit on the fence about the answer to this question.
ON the one hand I am not really sure these "best" aspects aspects exist, or they may not be the same for every individual (it would depend on their natal chart, too).
On the other hand I believe that astrology is consistent, so applying the astrological symbolism there of course would be "better" aspects and others, which are not as good.

Of course it also depends what you define as "better". Do you want a harmonious balanced relationship? Are you seeking an allconsuming passionate union?

I think the aspects would differ depending on your choices. BUT astrology should reflect that.

Having said all that I would love to read this sample.

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posted December 11, 2009 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for savanna20     Edit/Delete Message
I had this aspect with the last person I dated. I read about it and mentioned it was an instant attraction *but*, the attraction could easily wear off as fast as it came. Like a sudden ending...

Of course, this is not the case with everyone...

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slowpoke
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posted December 11, 2009 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message
DD,

I will try and work on your data shortly.
In the mean time, I have one more question for you. The question pertains to our conversation.

If you could have any one aspect in your Synastry chart with some one, what aspect would that be???????????

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DD
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posted December 12, 2009 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Slowpoke,

thank you for your offer.

And that is one tricky, tough question.

I don`t think I really have a "wished most for" aspect.
But I noticed that whenever I feel attracted to someone there will be a close aspect of Venus to Pluto (or at least of ASC or Mars to Pluto); it must have to do with my natal Venus-Pluto-square.

But apart from that I`d say that I need to have my Venus aspected by the other one`s planets to feel attracted. Usually it would be by Sun, Mars or even Venus herself.

Interstingl Sun-Moon conjunctions don`t seem to do all that much to me. They are nice and comfortable and give a feeling of understanding, but on their own they don`t seem to be indicative of "being in love" in my case.

Another obervation that I made was that usually the guy`s Mercury will make many aspects to my chart, especially to my Stellium in Sag.


What is your favourite aspect?

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slowpoke
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posted December 12, 2009 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message
DD,

20 as requested.

1954
Jan. 07

1956
Mar. 01, 05

1960
Mar. 01*

1963
Jan. 11
Sept. 25
Dec. 06

1964
Mar. 13

1967
Mar. 04

1968
May 01
Dec. 20

1969
Jan. 13, 14

1970
Apr. 08

1979
Oct. 12

1983
Feb. 03, 07

1986
Nov. 20, 22

1988
Mar. 01*

I understand your concern about Pluto. Please accept my apology if I spoke too harshly about some aspects.


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DD
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posted December 12, 2009 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you.

I will inspect them and probably be back with more questions.


I don`t feel that you have been speaking too harshly about certain aspects. As I said I agree with most of your interpretations.

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