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Topic: Not impressive astrologically
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amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 703
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 02, 2009 06:34 PM
 
I'm in a new relationship and we feel very at ease with each other and I think this guy is pretty much PERFECT in every single way: he's a genuinely nice guy, treats me well, is never moody/manipulative/emotionally draining, the sex is GREAT, he's popular with my friends, does well in school, goes out and has fun, doesn't have drug problems, etc etcI'm really stoked on him, but astrologically, our charts are not that impressive:   Other guys that I've had so-called soulmate synastry with have either been HUGE pains in my a** or we were just two ships passing in the night, basically. I don't see why we should be so hung up on finding our "soulmate" or looking for "soulmate" aspects when it doesn't even really mean happiness, and often times it just means a buttload of HASSLE imo. Thoughts?
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MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 301
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 02, 2009 11:14 PM
When I glanced at the first chart I thought, what is she talking about? Look at all of those planets piled onto both DC's. Then I thought, and look at all the planets in her first house! Then I scrolled down and briefly peeked at the comp just enough to see a Taurus Sun and Libra moon. Beautiful.
But I'm not knowledgeable on the asteroids so maybe that is what you mean...
or maybe I've just been looking at synastries for so long that I can find something good in any of them. ;/
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Astra
Knowflake Posts: 125
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 03, 2009 02:21 AM
The charts look fine to me!Regardless of the synastry, if you like this guy, stick with him. I know some people have great synastry charts, but hate each other so much that they can't stay in the same room together. People are very unique and are shaped by their experiences. Charts just show the potential, but they don't always show how a person really is. For example, if you were to glance at my chart, you'd probably notice that Saturn and Pluto both in Scorpio were in my tenth house. Most people would think I'm cold, calculating, overly intense and demanding, etc. However, I treat people with a great deal of kindness and I'm very understanding of individual circumstances. I'm not the hard a** that my chart indicates because I've been shaped by my experiences growing up. Enjoy this guy; he seems great! Relax, have fun, and just let the relationship unfold naturally. IP: Logged |
iQ
Knowflake Posts: 827
From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 03, 2009 03:54 AM
"Soulmate" need not always mean happiness. You may have earlier attracted karmic soulmates, people to whom you owed karmic debts. You must have paid back extra so the Universe has sent you a wonderful psoitive soulmate as a gift. The charts may not show you "great" aspects but the mathematical probability of attracting a guy with the exact same Birth number, same Ascendant and a Pluto Conjunction is roughly 1/8000. He is very much a loving soulmate of the positive kind, having Jupiter conj your Ascendant, Karma trine your NN and Venus, Valentine-Juno midpoint exactly conjucting your Karma, his AMOR trining your Eros, his Eros opposing your Venus-JUNO. Choosing to be in denial of these facts is purely your decision based probably on a fear that "thinking he is my soulmate may ruin everything". Astra and MysticMelody have advised you very wisely.
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