posted December 04, 2009 03:49 AM            

is it doomed if its a double w?

if aspects like this exist in a synastry, is there any particular others that are likely to ballance out the negative potential? Venus/Moon aspect dw? or Sun/moon?

or would it have to be venus/mars/pluto/moon aspects or sun-mars??

just curious...

thanks.

posted December 04, 2009 04:01 AM            

1. Sun sextile or trine Jupiter
2. Mars sextile or trine Mars
3. Moon sextile or trine Moon
4. Ascendant conjunct, sextile or trine Asteroid VALENTINE
5. Jupiter trine Mercury

And there should be no harsh Pluto aspects, especially Pluto sq Mars or Pluto sq Moon.

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posted December 04, 2009 04:15 AM            

I feel it from the start of the relationship that not would be us to the end.

I was 15 and lived as I was 70 togheter with him. It was so boring in this young older. He don't want me to develop my own life. I just feel I must out of it. The relationship describes more in restriction and stop.. Hhuuu.

posted December 04, 2009 04:24 AM            

there is a tight Jupiter - Sun trine, the same sun tightly trines the other natives mars. (completeing a grand fire trine for the jupiter native)

there is a harsh pluto aspect, between Mercury & Pluto?

there is none of those other aspects mentioned iQ,

there is a Venus-Venus opposition, and a tight Moon Conj. Venus, and Moon Trine Venus.

posted December 04, 2009 04:25 AM            

you think older couples are made for these aspects?

or very mature people lol..

posted December 04, 2009 04:25 AM            

you think older couples are made for these aspects?

or very mature people lol..

posted December 04, 2009 12:12 PM            

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posted December 04, 2009 04:57 PM            

unfortunately page 163 is missing and that is the page that gets to the beautiful crux and potential of this combination.

posted December 04, 2009 07:32 PM            

Venus quincunx Saturn:
What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is quincunx your partner’s Saturn? You are finding obligations and responsibilities which inhibit or restrict your ability to spend time with your romantic partner. Your partner may be reacting to your inability to express your feelings by distancing him/her self from you. If your romantic partner’s Venus is quincunx your Saturn, reasons to have to delay gratification and about the seriousness of duties are likely to make up an increasing part of your not so romantic dialogue. You may feel inhibited by his/her fear of intimacy, giving you caution about disappointing or being disappointed.

Venus opposition Saturn:
What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is in opposition to your partner’s Saturn? Your obligations are standing in the way of your relationship potentials. There is emotional distance as well as physical distance. If your romantic partner’s Venus is in opposition to your Saturn, it may be very difficult for you to get together because of his/her other obligations.

posted June 02, 2015 04:22 PM            

Venus square Saturn in synastry would be something familiar and at-home for someone who has it in their birth chart. Not really a matter of better/worse. Good synastry has to do with the entire count of aspects positive vs negative, in both longitude and declination (parallels, contra-parallels).

posted June 02, 2015 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Lethargic-:
Do you have a dw Aquacheeka?
How does it play it out in your experience?

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posted June 02, 2015 09:47 PM            

I have come across this aspect several times in my connections with others and usually, I'm the Venus........the saturn sees me like a life threatening disease and the moment upon meeting, there is no warmth openness or greeting. Just a brief look and they walk away.

posted June 02, 2015 11:33 PM            

Sun trine Sun
Sun trine Mars
Moon trine Venus
Venus trine Mercury
Mars trine Mercury
Mars trine Pluto
Jupiter trine Sun
Uranus trine Venus
Neptune trine Moon
Chiron conjunct Neptune

posted June 03, 2015 06:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Lethargic-:
Interesting how people see it as either very positive or very negative. I agree with Peony, however; perhaps having an abundance of easy aspects would overcome the coldness of Venus-Saturn aspect. Though I'm interested how a double whammy would play out. I believe Kannon made a good point.

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posted June 03, 2015 11:46 AM            

I have saturn square venus (I am saturn) in my relationship, but it's 5 degrees wide. Still - it counts.
We have a lot of jupiter aspects too (jupiter square venus, jupiter sextile mercury and jupiter square sun).

posted June 03, 2015 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
As long as you have an equally strong amount of uranus/jupiter in your synastry, it will not be impossible (but saturn squares always brings a lot of work and require some self-realisation)

I have saturn square venus (I am saturn) in my relationship, but it's 5 degrees wide. Still - it counts.
We have a lot of jupiter aspects too (jupiter square venus, jupiter sextile mercury and jupiter square sun).

Only with jupiter you can be able to put your coldness aside and laugh about it and shake that coldness of your shoulders. Jupiter is expansion, funny times and being able to enjoy yourselves.
It's also really good to have some connections to your moon, and make sure that your moon signs are compatible as well. (Moon-venus, moon-sun)
You don't need to have the easy aspects, but just having the connections between the right planets is enough I would say, it dosnt matter if its conjunctions, squares or oppostions...

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posted June 03, 2015 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Hmmm... my SO and I have a Jupiter-Mercury aspect and our moon/moon sextile is actually our closest aspect. And we have moon-Uranus as I mentioned... so maybe the mitigating aspects are why we are so not cold towards one another. But I would much rather have a Venus/Saturn square than no Saturn aspect in our synastry. The only relationships I've seen with no Saturn survive are those that have a Venus/Sun conjunction.

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