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posted December 08, 2009 07:59 PM         

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Anyone has any experiences with this to share? Whether a romantic relationship, one-sided love, friendship or family relationship, how was the relationship (and what planets are in the 12th house)?

Actually, I have a relationship in which the composite Sun is in the 12th house, but I'm not sure how should I interpret this. I mean, I can intuitively understand the state of this relationship, but well, it's kinda confusing still.. >_< So anyone's experiences would be appreciated!

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posted December 08, 2009 08:07 PM         

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I really don't think the 12th house has to be a bad thing, but I am a pisces after all. I had a comp with mars in the 12th and while it did indicate deception, I think now it was more a fear of disappointing each other that led to the deception. It is the most sensitive house. I think it takes a great deal of maturity to make it work. Neptune, like everything else, has two sides.

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posted December 08, 2009 11:05 PM         

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I have this with my Aqua boyfriend. We have composite Moon in the 12th house! I rarely read good things about that aspect, other than it being a past life indicator. It makes us both withhold our feelings more than usual. However, when those feelings are expressed they are done so with great sensitivity and sharing on a deep level. We can also be slightly obsessive with each other in a weird way. I can't really explain it...our emotions aren't very straight-forward so we're always wondering what the other person is thinking, if that makes sense. On the other hand, we are able to talk to each other about things that we don't ever talk to about with others. So communication is both our greatest strength and weakness. Luckily we recognize this and work hard at it.

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posted December 09, 2009 12:16 PM         

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I have this with an "ex" of mine (I guess you could say ex...). We have Sun conjunct Mars and Venus in the 12th, and Mercury in the 12th as well. We were never really together although there were romantic feelings exchanged, and it was very clandestine. We'd profess our love to each other when we were drunk but when sober we'd pretend to hate each other.

We're not talking right now because he's an immature child and is mad at me yet won't tell me why.

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posted December 10, 2009 10:07 AM         

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Thank you for your responses. ^_^ Actually, this relationship sometimes feels real, but sometimes feels as if it doesn't really exist at all. It also seems that due to outer circumstances, we are distant from each other even if we intend the opposite. But well, aside of certain things being unclear/confuse, I feel that there's some intuitive understanding and compassion/care between us too (Sun is also trine Neptune).

But well, Neptune does feel like having two sides lol.

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Sboth our greatest strength and weakness.

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I've read this expression in some description of the 12th house, saying that whatever planets in there becomes the greatest strength and weakness.

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