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Topic: Pls help a matter of understanding a stranger
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confused gemini
Knowflake Posts: 30
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 11, 2009 08:55 PM
 
Hello everybody, i would like to request someone to please help me understand this person better.
I have been cheated by my fiance in the past and now i am having an extremely hard time trusting men (sorry guys) its just that now i can not make up my mind on getting myself into another relationship without thinking about the pain i went through because of the dishonesty and unfaithfulness i faced. My only concern with this new guy ,that seems to be wanting a relationship with me is .... do his placements show any aspect of him being a future cheat like my ex was?
sorry guys i know i sound a bit stupid with my question here but i will really appreciate help on this before i say yes to him and end up with another wounded heart in future.Thank You.Planetary positionsplanet sign degree motion
Sun Leo 22°54'09 in house 6 direct
Moon Aries 6°11'05 in house 1 direct
Mercury Virgo 13°22'00 in house 7 stationary (R)
Venus Virgo 9°33'05 in house 7 direct
Mars Scorpio 28°49'41 in house 9 direct
Jupiter Capricorn 3°27'05 in house 11 retrograde
Saturn Scorpio 10°35'26 in house 8 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 9°32'08 end of house 9 stationary (D)
Neptune Sagittarius 28°49'23 in house 10 retrograde
Pluto Libra 29°42'11 in house 8 direct
True Node Gemini 2°43'58 in house 3 retrograde
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. House positions (Placidus)Ascendant Aquarius 28°54'15
2nd House Aries 11°10'37
3rd House Taurus 14°20'12
Imum Coeli Gemini 10°05'27
5th House Cancer 3°02'24
6th House Cancer 27°26'49
Descendant Leo 28°54'15
8th House Libra 11°10'37
9th House Scorpio 14°20'12
Medium Coeli Sagittarius 10°05'27
11th House Capricorn 3°02'24
12th House Capricorn 27°26'49 Major aspectsSun Square Mars 5°56
Sun Trine Neptune 5°55
Sun Sextile Pluto 6°48
Sun Opposition Ascendant 6°00
Moon Trine Mars 7°21
Moon Square Jupiter 2°44
Moon Trine Uranus 3°21
Moon Square Neptune 7°22
Mercury Conjunction Venus 3°49
Mercury Sextile Saturn 2°47
Mercury Square Uranus 3°50
Venus Sextile Saturn 1°02
Venus Square Uranus 0°01
Mars Square Ascendant 0°05
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 4°38
Jupiter Sextile Pluto 3°45
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant 4°33
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°53
Neptune Sextile Ascendant 0°05
Pluto Trine Ascendant 0°48
Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle). IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
Knowflake Posts: 98
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 11, 2009 10:03 PM
Are we talking: 1 - a one night stand w. a perfect stranger he never sees again, after 5 years of marriage? Or 2 - an ongoing full blown affair with his secretary after 3 months of engagement? IP: Logged |
Nine
Knowflake Posts: 282
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Registered: May 2009
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posted December 11, 2009 10:09 PM
Did you fall for him the same way you fell for your ex, if yes the pattern will continue.Is he different than all the other guys you've been attracted to, if yes, he may be different. IP: Logged |
iQ
Knowflake Posts: 861
From: Chennai, India
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 12, 2009 11:44 AM
80% probability that he will not cheat on you but will still end up breaking your heart by dumping you the moment he finds someone he thinks is better than you.If you told him that you had been cheated by your fiance, then I would say 99% probability that he will dump you. Leo Sun, Aries Moon, Mars in Scorpio, Aqua Ascendant... there is no way he will hang on long term to any girl with even traces of self pity. You have to be a total winner to keep such men interested. ------------------
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confused gemini
Knowflake Posts: 30
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 12, 2009 03:49 PM
so you guys think i shouldnt get into this one .
well yes he knows what happened with my past relationship and he liked me being honest about the whole thing, and the same happened to him as well. we are friends at the moment , the attraction is strong but i can resist it at this stage because i am looking for something more stable so if you think history will repeat its self , then probably i shouldnt get into this.
well i have never been into one night stand kind of guys , what i am looking for is loyal faithful honest guy to have a future with, if he is not the type i will surly not waste any more precious time, friendship is fine with him. Thank You.IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
Knowflake Posts: 98
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posted December 12, 2009 04:44 PM
Hi!I think that any guy can be mentally/emotionally committed to the right woman, regardless of his chart (synastry/composite would be more significant)
On the other hand any guy could drift off and become uninterested after a while with the wrong woman. But apart from the mental/emotional connection, if we are talking about sex-only: A great majority of men would prefer to have a “"bunch" of sexual partners throughout their life, as opposed to remaining sexually faithful to one woman. The degree to which they desire this and would go out and actually do this is different on a case by case basis. Leo sun men, in my experience, will stay faithful for a long time, once they've made a commitment. But to ask that a Leo exclusively has sex with you his entire life is ... Yeah... Unlikely imo What I do believe is that, being a mutable sign yourself, this person who is very fixed would probably stay faithful to you long enough for you to be the one who splits first. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
Knowflake Posts: 98
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 12, 2009 04:47 PM
IQ - quote:
Leo Sun, Aries Moon, Mars in Scorpio, Aqua Ascendant... there is no way he will hang on long term to any girl with even traces of self pity.
I almost agree to this..
Except she is a masculine sun sign herself. I'm not sure 'self-pity' necessarily applies. Anyone could be hurt in a situation like that with the fiancee. The way in which one handles the hurt and moves on would say more about ones personality. When it comes to showing vulnerability in general - Leo/Aries/Aqua.. are all anti-vulnerability. However I find his Scorpio Mars interesting. If she is a Gemini with Cancerian placements, specially a Cancer Venus, he could find the vulnerability enticing. ConfusedGem – It would be good if you could post your own chart. IMO if you have Cancer placements, things would work out better.
If you have Taurean placements it could lead to friction.
Your desire for an unwavering and faithful man, makes me think Taurus... but I could be wrong. IP: Logged |
confused gemini
Knowflake Posts: 30
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 12, 2009 05:35 PM
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Gemini 26.02 Ascendant Virgo 14.54
Moon Sagittarius 22.29 II Libra 12.43
Mercury Cancer 3.08 R III Scorpio 13.11
Venus Cancer 14.44 IV Sagittarius 14.35
Mars Gemini 8.35 V Capricorn 15.41
Jupiter Libra 1.05 VI Aquarius 15.59
Saturn Libra 3.07 VII Pisces 14.54
Uranus Scorpio 26.57 R VIII Aries 12.43
Neptune Sagittarius 23.25 R IX Taurus 13.11
Pluto Libra 21.37 R Midheaven Gemini 14.35
Lilith Scorpio 18.54 XI Cancer 15.41
Asc node Leo 2.11 XII Leo 15.59
Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Opposition Moon 3.33 -230
Sun Conjunction Mercury 7.06 209
Sun Square Jupiter 5.03 -24
Sun Opposition Neptune 2.36 -170
Sun Trine Pluto 4.25 49
Moon Conjunction Neptune 0.56 399
Moon Sextile Pluto 0.52 157
Moon Opposition Midheaven 7.54 -22
Mercury Square Jupiter 2.03 -86
Mercury Square Saturn 0.00 -156
Venus Sextile Ascendant 0.10 134
Mars Trine Jupiter 7.31 7
Mars Trine Saturn 5.28 41
Mars Conjunction Midheaven 5.60 96
Jupiter Conjunction Saturn 2.03 372
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1.49 33
Neptune Opposition Midheaven 8.50 -1
Pluto Trine Midheaven 7.02 1
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confused gemini
Knowflake Posts: 30
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 12, 2009 05:46 PM
vapor-lash your reply is most appreciated as i am in a confusion,
he has said that for someone who has been cheated and just broken up recently i seem to be pretty strong headed to the point that he finds me emotionless towards my break up ,but if i am ever sad and share a very tiny bit of my emo self with him , he doesnt let me talk much and tells me to avoid getting my head back there and keep looking forward, which is exactly how i am.
he says he finds the most appealing quality in me is my straight forwardness, honesty to the point of being blunt and yet he finds me girly ,caring and loving.
i ask this question about faithfulness because sometime back my friend faced alot of hardship with the guy she was with because of his play boy nature, someone saw her boyfriends chart and indicated to her that this guy is not a 1 womans man, he is a players for life , which is so true that even today after 5 years he is the same sex freak!
i do not know his placements but all i know is that he was an aries sun.
and when i had my and my fiances chart calculated i was warned that our relationship would have many clashes which was so true as all the years we been together it was a storm ..with few moments of heavenly sunshineIP: Logged |
vapor-lash
Knowflake Posts: 98
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 12, 2009 06:16 PM
I have a very GOOD feeling about this.What he says about you is exactly what I would imagine him to say judging by your charts. A Leo/Aries Moon/Aquarius Asc.. and a Gemini/Sagittarius Moon/Leo Asc - it looks great on paper! I'm sure he sees you as a determined and strong minded woman who knows what she wants. But I think he also spots this cute vulnerability in you (from the Cancer placements) which make him want to put his arms around you and never let go. His Scorpio Mars would just love your Cancerian traits. I think you are very compatible, personally. I'm not surprised your friend had that problem with the Aries guy. I actually wanted to say something in general about fire sun signs (I'm an Aries myself). All fire sun sign people care about their freedom. Freedom is extremely important to them. However Leo is fixed-fire. They are less likely to jump into something like cheating. The typical Leo male stands by his woman and his "pack" - once they've made things official. If he does slip up, it would likely happen years into the relationship and for sexual reasons. All fiery men tend to be "sex freaks" lol However Leo is highly self-controlled and with a Scorpio mars he would be even more self-controlled when he is in love. You seem like the kind of woman he could easily fall in love with. IP: Logged |
confused gemini
Knowflake Posts: 30
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 12, 2009 06:41 PM
vapor-lash I LOVE YOU! lol..
o btw i think u took me as leo asc, i am virgo asc  i had backed off when he first asked me, he wasnt direct in his approach because he is very reserved and less expressive and realising this i was very polite and diplomatic in saying no..but now i think i will not run away or rush in but just take it easy , at least now you gave me the confidence that he may truely find me attractive as i was in doubt (me and my trusting issues)
but one thing is for sure that i have to keep in mind but i am having a hard time accepting it is i guess no man can be sexualy involved in me alone (i wish it would happen) i have seen it happen to the best of couples, so i need to digest that hard fact first. My worry is I just dont want a man hor ..lol if you know what i mean
and at present i have only 4 friends and all 4 are aries, i get along extremely well but yes i have seen they cannot resist temptations,that is the only draw back otherwise me and aries are like a house on fire, totaly gel.
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vapor-lash
Knowflake Posts: 98
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posted December 12, 2009 08:55 PM
lol RIGHT BACK AT YOU!  Virgo Asc is great anyway, because his Venus is in Virgo, so he finds you beautiful. He probably stares a lot. I think it's worth a shot. Any relationship can have problems, but I really think you could have a good thing going with this guy. quote:
at present i have only 4 friends and all 4 are aries, i get along extremely well but yes i have seen they cannot resist temptations,that is the only draw back otherwise me and aries are like a house on fire, totaly gel.
I'm exactly the same with Geminis. I even made a thread about how much I love Gemini people 
(on my old account - this is a new nick) :edit: found it! here it is - http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/010190.html IP: Logged |
confused gemini
Knowflake Posts: 30
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posted December 14, 2009 10:06 PM
vapor-lash  that is a lovely thread ..i am a gem so i have to thank you for loving us IP: Logged |
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