posted December 12, 2009 08:55 PM         

Most recently one of things that has annoyed me the most is that he asked me to go to an event on new years with him out of the city. I have really wanted to go to this event for ages, so I said that I would love to go. He said that had already purchased the tickets online (which were really hard to get, because its an extremely popular event). Anyway, as it has gotten closer to new years and I've asked him if he has been sent the tickets yet etc, he keeps telling me that he hasn't got the tickets but his credit card has been charged and he should have received them by now and he has rung the ticket company and they are telling him that they don't know what's going on and that maybe they can give him tickets to next years event instead. Anyhow, it all sounds alot to me like BS, especially given his track record, and he has changed his mind about going. It really quite upsets me that he has done this, especially for NYE, given that I would have gone back to my home state for NYE otherwise to spend time with my friends. Now it seems I will be all by myself instead. I think this is really unfair of him, and quite cowardly that he can’t come out with the truth.

Anyway, he has sun opposite Jupiter in his chart. From what I can gather with this aspect it has a bit to do with promising more than you can deliver. I was wondering if anybody has had any experiences with this particular natal aspect that perhaps they could share with me.

This person has sun in leo (12th), moon in cancer (11th), virgo rising, venus virgo (conjunct AC), mercury cancer (11th), mars in aries (9th).

posted December 13, 2009 10:55 PM         

I am so frustrated, I really don't know how best to handle this relationship.

At the moment this person isn't really even wanting to talk to me, and I have no idea if its something I've done or what...

posted December 14, 2009 04:07 AM         

This aspect creates a lack of confidence. It has nothing to do with Moon opposed to Jupiter. Virgo Rising may create a need for perfection in approach. When the slightest doubt arises, the 12th House Leo Sun lacks the confidence to make things click, and hence walks out of the plan.

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posted December 14, 2009 04:39 AM         

I always attributed him not wanting to share much of his personal life to his 12th house sun, and also his virgo rising. I guess I didn't really think about how this placement would affect his confidence and ability to carry out his plans, and they are his plans, because most of the time he is the one suggesting stuff. Which I guess is why I found it so strange that he would come up with all these things to do and places to go and then back out.

I thought for a while that perhaps he was just playing games with me or something, and wasn't really taking me seriously.

posted June 19, 2010 08:40 PM         

Sun 27 Lib in 6th OPP
Jup 24 Ari(rx) in 12th.

A more unconventional analysis of this situation is that Jupiter was very close to the earth and bright in the sky at the time of my birth. Rising in the east just an hour after sunset.

I've read that Jupiter in the 12th is a somewhat...strange aspect..giving me some kind of spiritual luck and guidance. I definitely identify with this. It says I should choose a healing profession or work in mental homes; I am studying medicine and hope to become a Mental Health practitioner. Sun in 6th trine Chiron also seems to be working here.

Nevertheless Jupiter in Aries retrograde combined with the 12th house and opposing the Sun... my ego tends to inflate and deflate a lot...and while enthusiastic I tend to bite off more than I can chew..

posted June 19, 2010 08:40 PM         

Sun 27 Lib in 6th OPP
Jup 24 Ari(rx) in 12th.

A more unconventional analysis of this situation is that Jupiter was very close to the earth and bright in the sky at the time of my birth. Rising in the east just an hour after sunset.

I've read that Jupiter in the 12th is a somewhat...strange aspect..giving me some kind of spiritual luck and guidance. I definitely identify with this. It says I should choose a healing profession or work in mental homes; I am studying medicine and hope to become a Mental Health practitioner. Sun in 6th trine Chiron also seems to be working here.

Nevertheless Jupiter in Aries retrograde combined with the 12th house and opposing the Sun... my ego tends to inflate and deflate a lot...and while enthusiastic I tend to bite off more than I can chew..

posted June 22, 2010 09:05 AM         

Its funny that you attribute this aspect to him making plans with you all the time which he flakes on, because I find this always happens to me... so much so... throughout my teens years and such is that I developed a bit of a complex about initiating outing and events that I'm only now getting over (I'm 31). I never attributed this to anything in my chart thought, let alone this aspect in particular.

I always felt let down by friends, and specifically, I always felt like I had friends who wouldn't want to do the same things I wanted to do. Or they would say we would do something and i'd be super excited about it and then... they'd flake for various reasons.