posted December 20, 2009 12:20 PM         

I am currently separated and met this gentleman through a Scrabble tournament we were paired in (internet). This happened in June, and we have spent almost two hours an evening together since then, sharing informaiton about our families,, politics and careers..only missing a handful of days. Our bond has grown and blossomed but it is very intense. And always has been. We talk about everything and anything and have a very lovely conversational connection but we also have a very intense sexual attraction that seeems to haunt so much of the bond. It spills over alot and constantly. We have never met but we have spent many hours flirting and engaging in some fairly intense sexy discussion (no! webcam stuff but verbal...) What is the pull here. Neither of us is officially divorced, but I feel that he is possessive of me and I sometimes of him. I know if we ever met it would be extremely erotic and both of us have have steeered clear so far. Do you see a basis for a long term relationship down the road? Or is the sexual charge simply going to consume us...

Here are his chart and our synastry and comp. My birth info is May 21, 1960 DC, 9:15 pm. Gem Sun (zero degrees); Gem Mercury (6 degrees); and Venus Taurus at 21 degrees.

I would love some input here. And appreciate all who can assist in looking at the charts.

posted December 20, 2009 10:44 PM         

You may also meet and realize you are totally perfect for one another.

Either way, you need to meet.

Why haven't you two met yet?

Currently, t.uranus is sextiling your composite taurus planets from 6th to 8th.

Do your progressed personal planets conjunct anything in natal?

posted December 21, 2009 02:35 AM         

About the guy, I am not a fan of a 12th House Mars in Cancer when the Sun conj ALGOL squares Pluto exact and Ascendant conj Uranus squares Neptune exact. Hope age has mellowed him, had he been in his 30s he could have been quite a sexual pervert.
Saturn and Mercury are both retrograde and quincunx, this can lead to negative thinking.
If he is not financially stable, then it means he has wasted the Capricorn Moon trine Jupiter in Second house Virgo opportunity to work hard and get rich.

You must check hs NESSUS, DEJANIRA and KARMA.
If he has NESSUS sq DEJANIRA or Pluto sq KARMA or Saturn sq KARMA also in his chart,
then things may not work out.

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posted December 21, 2009 09:05 AM         

We have not met for a variety of reasons, namely I have high school children in my home (his are in college) and neither of us is divorced. We may meet in 2010.

Very interesting comments. He has scratched and worked very hard to become the owner of a successful company. He began at the bottom and is now at the top (very Capricorn Moon). He always says "I am not a rich guy ..but.."

I am impressed by how hard he works and how much he loves his family. My Taurus Venus with its link to my Capricorn Saturn can relate to this. With an aries moon in 4th house I am a hardcore family person. I put alot of energy there.

Very bizarre coincidence my son has 12th house Cancer Mars. It is a very intense placement. I think many hidden sexual fantasies and sometimes repressed anger.
We have discussed out sexual history and fantasies extensively. I was a near virgin when I married my husband..two lovers total in my life. This man has more experience but I think he has more unfulfilled sexual fantasies than actual wild man life history. His wildest seems to be two girls and him...not very wild and not too unusual I dont think... Part of him is shy. Not sure where that comes from. maybe even that Mars Cancer. He says he always loved girls but was not always noticed because though he played sports he was not very talkative. He says he used humor not typical romance to impress girls.

Though he says in his ordinary life,most people see him as quiet, we talk nonstop but I suspect it's my Gemini sun/mercury bumping his Gemini Venus. We chat everyday throughout the day with much good humor too. Much like all the Taurus SUN men I grew up with (one brother with 5 planet Taurus stellium)loves to talk about his day, just you know what he did and ate, his meetings, shoveling snow! lol,. And oddly I enjoy that kind of sharing. Weird.

The sexual tension makes me nervous. Have very little experience with that and assumed it would disappear but 6 months later, no chance. I say things to him that I have never said to anyone. Sometimes I think he has entered my life for awakening purposes. My husband and I have not had sex in 10 years. This man has the curious distinction of making me feel protected but unleashed at the same time. Opened but sheltered. Does that make sense?

I will try to figure out the progressed chart issue.

posted December 21, 2009 10:37 PM         

My progressed Moon is AQUA sitting in his 7th house
My progressed Mars is at Taurus 14 sitting between his Natal Taurus Sun and Mercury...conjunct his Mercury I guess.

His progressed Venus and Mars (10 and 11)are both in Leo and conjunct my natal URANUS Leo --but 7 degree orb.

His progressed Moon 27 and Saturn 8 are in Sag. My natal ascendant is Sag 13.