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posted December 23, 2009 07:20 PM         

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So for the past few days I've had 2 ex boyfriends contact me saying they miss me and want me back, and other guys that were interested in me in the past chatting me up.

Is it the Mars retrograde (which has been transiting my 3rd)? Or is it because it's Christmas.

How have you guys been this retrograde?

EDITED: sorry I meant my 3rd house not 7th

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posted December 23, 2009 07:24 PM         

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I was going to say christmas. People haye to be alone for the holidays, especially men, it seems.

Also, isn't merc rx soon? Is it stationing yet? That usually brings people back.

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posted December 23, 2009 07:30 PM         

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yeah, it goes rx on 12/26 in late cap.

It's been stationing since 12/09.

I've also had a few people come back.
http://www.astrologycom.com/mercret.html

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posted December 23, 2009 07:35 PM         

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Hmm Mercury will be transiting back through my 7th.

I don't know how alone these guys are, they're 22 and have families and other single friends to hang out with during break, and girls to make out with. They both recently broke up with their girlfriends and apparently thought about me the entire time (because I am just sooooooooo great).

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posted December 23, 2009 08:50 PM         

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I feel your pain on this one, but happy to read someone else experiences this phenomenon. Merc RX mens beware of the boomerang for me... I am hoping the person I broke up with this week will not be one - too painful to be without him already.

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posted December 23, 2009 10:28 PM         

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That's really funny cause, this past weekend, I drunkenly called my ex-fiance whom I haven't talked to in 2 years,lol.
That's the first time Ive EVER drunk dailed, so it was weird. Patiularly becuase I don't have any wish to speak to him at all so I have no idea why I would've decided to call him when I am still getting over my recent ex-boyfriend who I broke up with 3 weeks ago ...?

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posted December 23, 2009 11:25 PM         

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I contacted 2 exes from the distant past i heard back from one

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posted December 23, 2009 11:59 PM         

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recently?

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posted December 24, 2009 12:00 AM         

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Maybe it's just cause I'm old, or Saturn hates me, but this has been happening to me for over a YEAR!

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posted December 24, 2009 12:31 AM         

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yesterday

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posted December 24, 2009 01:38 AM         

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LadyPisces, in your thread I told you that my ex has the same placements as you (rising, sun and moon) and it's interesting because he also broke up with his girlfriend recently too (not sure if it was last week or the week before). Even more interesting!

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posted December 24, 2009 04:19 AM         

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<<That's really funny cause, this past weekend, I drunkenly called my ex-fiance whom I haven't talked to in 2 years,lol.
That's the first time Ive EVER drunk dailed, so it was weird. Patiularly becuase I don't have any wish to speak to him at all so I have no idea why I would've decided to call him >>

So funny. I did the exact same thing - but drunk facebooking. An ex-boyfriend from 10 years ago. First time for me too. Even invited him to come visit me :-0!

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posted December 24, 2009 09:49 AM         

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I always have old ex's calling me or whatever..But I have Mercury RX natally so that may have something to do with it..But its extremely high right now bc of that and this eclipse coming up in Cancer is digging deep into ppl and feelings are coming to surface here..

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posted December 24, 2009 01:14 PM         

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An ex-crush just added me as a friend on FB. I was the crushor.

This year her pMercury goes direct (I meet a lot of people at this stage). And my pSun is conjunct her nSun.

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posted December 24, 2009 01:43 PM         

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Got to love Mercury RX

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posted December 24, 2009 10:18 PM         

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amowls* - LOL! That's interesting! It's funny cause it was 3 weeks ago but it feels like months ago already ... don't know if that's good or bad, lol.

Yeah - I'm not one to EVER contact exs ... it was so unlike me! Felt SO weird the next day, haha.

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posted December 25, 2009 01:53 AM         

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my ex tries to contact me at least twice a week. But i changed my number so luckily he cant annoy me on my phone. I hope he gets over it soon because some times i want to reply to his emails and it makes it difficult.

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posted December 26, 2009 01:09 AM         

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yes yes I have had exes and ex-friends (drifted apart) come out of the woodwork too recently. People from my past (10 years +) are wanting to catch up. what the? lol good ol facebook
Even a guy who was my best male friend 10 years ago and I was thinking about contacting him and couldn't find him (I don't know anyone who would know him now) and a few weeks ago he added me to facebook... we stopped being friends because he fell in love and I didn't reciprocate so he stopped talking to me. I was heartbroken. So glad that he found me after 10 years

Edited to add: Mars is retro in my 6th going away from my DC (its a few degrees away)

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posted December 26, 2009 01:57 PM         

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Post up your natal anowls. Be easy to see anything transiting hitting that..

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posted December 26, 2009 02:49 PM         

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Oh my...I did that contact-X-drunk on christmas eve too - I texted him.
I haven´t spoken to him since march, where HE called ME very drunk fishing for what y feelings were, just to back-off the next day telling me not to contact him anymore!!??

He hasn´t answered yet, I wonder if he will??
O´ boy, I so regretted it in the morning...

T. Mars is retro in my 7.th, but haven´t had any x-lovers returning to me..yet

I´ll never drink again, as long as I have a mobilephone and a internet connection :-D

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posted December 28, 2009 12:26 AM         

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Two have contacted me within the last week.
One called today and it was nice to catchup with him.

Being a Taurus with Cancer Rising and Venus (Venus just makes me too nice, I think), I find that my ex-boyfriends contact me either when every thing's perfect to thank me for my support or when they are not going so well to receive some earthy/grounded, practical and warm, empathetic/water support.

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posted December 28, 2009 02:22 AM         

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I know how that is Running Bull. My heart breaks because I have too much empathy and I can FEEL their pain because of my Pisces Venus (maybe also because Chiron squares it) and then a Libra Moon makes it difficult to have confrontations with people. So I'm a total push over that I literally have to ignore them because if I talk to them, I'll give in =/

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