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Topic: Ascendant- Bossy ?
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swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 134 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 06:41 AM
Which Ascendant signs tend to be bossy ?Or have Leadership characteristics ? I know my sister who likes to take the lead sometimes and she has Libra ascendant.
My mum has Gemini ascendant and she tries to be bossy but it doesn't work. I have Cancer rising and I look like I'm bossy but I'm not. I don't think Pisces, Sagitarius or Aquarius could fit that description either. So how about,
Scorpio, Leo or Aries ?? Taurus or Capricorn ? IP: Logged |
Polo C Knowflake Posts: 407 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 06:47 AM
Definitely Leo. I have a Leo ascendant.IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 36 From: melbourne/victoria/australia Registered: May 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 06:59 AM
Definitely Aries asc..bossy boots that has to get their own way..plus my sun & moon signs are in cardinal water & air so I'm just the bossiest control freak aroundIP: Logged |
Amphitrite Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Australia Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 08:27 AM
I think definitely a leo ascendant. I have a leo ascendant and I very much like to take on leadership roles and enjoy being in charge and delegating tasks. I find it difficult to be second in charge. I don't think I am bossy as such... others may beg to differ though IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 157 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 09:59 AM
Hold on a minute there. Being bossy and being a leader are not the same thing. Leader = knows when to seek advice, considers everyone's opinions, is fair, remains calm under pressure, can make rapid decisions if necessary, knows how to delegate, is organized, responsible, and doesn't let others push them around Bossy= throws temper tantrums like a toddler when they don't get their way, suffers from low self esteem, pushes others around instead of considering their point of view, selfish, manipulative and spoiled. Also, leaders make people WANT to follow them whereas bossy people just make others feel resentful at best. Bossiness could be a result of a badly aspected Leo or Cancer ascendant. Of course, bossiness is partially due to the way in which the individual was raised. Astrology plays a very minor role. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force Knowflake Posts: 18 From: England Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 11:36 AM
haha I was about to say Leo, but it looks like enough people already have!Definitely Leo Ascendants can be bossy. Scorpio Ascendants could well be leaders but I wouldn't think by being bossy... more like they thrive when in control... give out a kind of 'I'm in control' vibe. Plus, some of them can be scary so and sos who you wouldn't really wanna cross. I know having a lot of Cappy influences and Ascendant can make you seem kind of know it all... but maybe not bossy. Would have thought Aries Ascendants are authoratative... but necessarily bossy?? More like they'll just expect everyone to agree without having to tell people and then are appalled when they don't IP: Logged |
changchiu Knowflake Posts: 34 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 12:30 PM
here is team leader about chem sector and saggy asc ..but also my moon aries is sooooo pushy...of course sun in scorpio..IP: Logged |
Scorp31 Knowflake Posts: 77 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 07:49 PM
I would have to go with Libra rising as far as being good leaders.IP: Logged |
Amphitrite Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Australia Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 08:11 PM
I'm not sure about libran rising as the best possible leaders. Sometimes people with libran influence can struggle to make the big decisions because they want to make everybody happy. This makes leadership and being in charge very difficult, they would rather work with people more than lead people. Unless of course they have a fair amount of fire influence. I am a libran sun and mercury, but have leo ascendant and mars, so I don't necessarily mind making the decisions that not everyone is going to be happy with. However I think this is something I grew into, because when I was younger I always struggled trying to keep everybody else happy.IP: Logged |
Lehia2 Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 09:32 PM
Most of the best bosses/leaders I've met, seem to have a strong water placement. The best boss I've ever had the pleasure to have, was a Sun/Merc in Cancer, and a Pisces Moon. The next one was Moon/Asc. in Cancer, Mars in Scorpio (Gem Sun) , and the other one (which is my boss nowadays) is a Sun/Moon in Pisces and Scorpio Ascendant. The first two I've mentioned have been quickly reconizged as great leaders and are on the way of climbing the coorporate ladder. The last one is pretty new but he's been doing a great job so far. I also should mention that all of them had a personal planet in Gemini.IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Orlando FL USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 09:36 PM
I have Libra and I am SCARED of being a leader! Someone could get mad at me! AmiIP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 2557 From: aspideronmars Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 09, 2010 09:36 PM
Leo IP: Logged |
changchiu Knowflake Posts: 34 From: Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 10, 2010 07:59 AM
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MsCandeh Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Australia Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 10, 2010 08:36 AM
I'm an Aqua ASC... good at telling people what to do (delegation!) but I do it in a nice and fair way ... but at the same time ... I hate telling people what to do .. so.. it's in me.. but I don't like to lead because I hate being 'above' people. People also don't like to be bossed around, I dislike it so I don't like to do it to others. (Libra moon?)I don't think Libra ASCs would be good at being bossy at all, unless other factors in their chart suggested that. First thing that came to my mind was Leo as well Sagittarius ASC.. not so much. Brother's SO has Gemini ASC and she is bossy (Cancer moon and Pisces Sun (1.16 deg Pisces, close to Aqua). But I think it's more that she chucks a wobbly when people don't listen to her. IP: Logged |