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swirl-kitt
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posted January 09, 2010 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
Which Ascendant signs tend to be bossy ?

Or have Leadership characteristics ?


I know my sister who likes to take the lead sometimes and she has Libra ascendant.

My mum has Gemini ascendant and she tries to be bossy but it doesn't work.

I have Cancer rising and I look like I'm bossy but I'm not.

I don't think Pisces, Sagitarius or Aquarius could fit that description either.


So how about,

Scorpio, Leo or Aries ??

Taurus or Capricorn ?

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Polo C
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posted January 09, 2010 06:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Polo C     Edit/Delete Message
Definitely Leo. I have a Leo ascendant.

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Diablo
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posted January 09, 2010 06:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diablo     Edit/Delete Message
Definitely Aries asc..bossy boots that has to get their own way..plus my sun & moon signs are in cardinal water & air so I'm just the bossiest control freak around

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Amphitrite
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posted January 09, 2010 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message
I think definitely a leo ascendant. I have a leo ascendant and I very much like to take on leadership roles and enjoy being in charge and delegating tasks. I find it difficult to be second in charge. I don't think I am bossy as such... others may beg to differ though

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Astra
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posted January 09, 2010 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message
Hold on a minute there. Being bossy and being a leader are not the same thing.

Leader = knows when to seek advice, considers everyone's opinions, is fair, remains calm under pressure, can make rapid decisions if necessary, knows how to delegate, is organized, responsible, and doesn't let others push them around

Bossy= throws temper tantrums like a toddler when they don't get their way, suffers from low self esteem, pushes others around instead of considering their point of view, selfish, manipulative and spoiled.

Also, leaders make people WANT to follow them whereas bossy people just make others feel resentful at best.

Bossiness could be a result of a badly aspected Leo or Cancer ascendant. Of course, bossiness is partially due to the way in which the individual was raised. Astrology plays a very minor role.

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The Mutable Night Force
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posted January 09, 2010 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Mutable Night Force     Edit/Delete Message
haha I was about to say Leo, but it looks like enough people already have!

Definitely Leo Ascendants can be bossy.

Scorpio Ascendants could well be leaders but I wouldn't think by being bossy... more like they thrive when in control... give out a kind of 'I'm in control' vibe. Plus, some of them can be scary so and sos who you wouldn't really wanna cross.

I know having a lot of Cappy influences and Ascendant can make you seem kind of know it all... but maybe not bossy.

Would have thought Aries Ascendants are authoratative... but necessarily bossy?? More like they'll just expect everyone to agree without having to tell people and then are appalled when they don't

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posted January 09, 2010 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for changchiu     Edit/Delete Message
here is team leader about chem sector and saggy asc ..but also my moon aries is sooooo pushy...of course sun in scorpio..

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posted January 09, 2010 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorp31     Edit/Delete Message
I would have to go with Libra rising as far as being good leaders.

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Amphitrite
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posted January 09, 2010 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Amphitrite     Edit/Delete Message
I'm not sure about libran rising as the best possible leaders. Sometimes people with libran influence can struggle to make the big decisions because they want to make everybody happy. This makes leadership and being in charge very difficult, they would rather work with people more than lead people. Unless of course they have a fair amount of fire influence. I am a libran sun and mercury, but have leo ascendant and mars, so I don't necessarily mind making the decisions that not everyone is going to be happy with. However I think this is something I grew into, because when I was younger I always struggled trying to keep everybody else happy.

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Lehia2
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posted January 09, 2010 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lehia2     Edit/Delete Message
Most of the best bosses/leaders I've met, seem to have a strong water placement. The best boss I've ever had the pleasure to have, was a Sun/Merc in Cancer, and a Pisces Moon. The next one was Moon/Asc. in Cancer, Mars
in Scorpio (Gem Sun) , and the other one (which is my boss nowadays) is a Sun/Moon in Pisces and Scorpio Ascendant. The first two I've mentioned have been quickly reconizged as great leaders and are on the way of climbing the coorporate ladder. The last one is pretty new but he's been doing a great job so far. I also should mention that all of them had a personal planet in Gemini.

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Ami Ann
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posted January 09, 2010 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message
I have Libra and I am SCARED of being a leader!
Someone could get mad at me! Ami

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Lara
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posted January 09, 2010 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Leo

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changchiu
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posted January 10, 2010 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for changchiu     Edit/Delete Message
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MsCandeh
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posted January 10, 2010 08:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsCandeh     Edit/Delete Message
I'm an Aqua ASC... good at telling people what to do (delegation!) but I do it in a nice and fair way ... but at the same time ... I hate telling people what to do .. so.. it's in me.. but I don't like to lead because I hate being 'above' people. People also don't like to be bossed around, I dislike it so I don't like to do it to others. (Libra moon?)

I don't think Libra ASCs would be good at being bossy at all, unless other factors in their chart suggested that.

First thing that came to my mind was Leo as well

Sagittarius ASC.. not so much.

Brother's SO has Gemini ASC and she is bossy (Cancer moon and Pisces Sun (1.16 deg Pisces, close to Aqua). But I think it's more that she chucks a wobbly when people don't listen to her.

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