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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 725
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 11, 2010 02:42 AM
 
Ok so I just got out of a crappy 10 year relationship and i havent been seeing this guy for long and hes already talking about marriage.
Yeah yeah that all appealed to me before but that was because i thought i was with someone for a long time and that we had built up something after 10 years.I definitely am not liking his capricorn moon opposite my mars.. Will i irritate him? Make him angry?
I have a solar eclipe in my 5th house in a few days and he has it opposite his sun. Im hesitant to relax around him because im worried about getting into short term flings that just end in dissapointment. He has transit pluto about to trine his venus which makes me think WOW he might really enjoy something with me, also he has transit uranus trine his sun. Our composite chart has pluto trine venus and uranus trine sun, which to me shows maybe something will come out of it.. Hes a martial arts instructor and very romantic, his venus and mars is in my 12th could that be a problem? Im very unfamiliar with his astrological placements. But like always theres a problem.. hes my ex boyfriends friend 
What do you guys think ??
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Amphitrite
Knowflake Posts: 56
From: Australia
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 11, 2010 05:07 AM
The moon opposite mars aspect is supposed to potentially cause back and forth accusations of nagging rudeness and abruptness with an inability to calmly talk things over, so that aspect may be a problem, you could definitely irritate each other.You do have a few saturn contacts, which are described as making the relationship bonds difficult to break. Saturn conjunct venus can make the relationship binding and enduring, but saturn can become a bit possessive and heavy making venus feel restricted. There is also the saturn square sun aspect, which is a strong bond apparently associated with heavy karma from a past life. I have had this one in a previous relationship, where I was the sun. Saturn is like the teacher in charge of the mutually needed wisdom in this lifetime. It can be quite difficult sometimes, in any type of relationship. You also have a pluto square sun double whammy i think. That can mean power struggles galore, rather intense. There is the NN conjunct ascendant aspect which is nice. The NN person tends to want to stick like glue to the ascendant person. I have also read that a connection of these axis between two people signifies a relationship that occurs often when third party involvement is significant, as in this relationship grows out of a third party situation. Perhaps him being your ex's friend? There is also the NN conjunct anti-vertex, which I'm not exactly sure what it means, but I have read that it is quite significant and karmic. IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel
Moderator Posts: 3402
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posted January 11, 2010 05:45 AM
Your Vertex on his South Node is interesting. A feeling of familiarity?Quite honestly, astrology aside, you seem so happy in the last few weeks - you've been glowing/shining. I would say to you enjoy your singledom, after ten years and if "the one" comes along, you'll know it. Just let it be for as long as it's right - for one week or one lifetime. See how you feel in a few weeks, months. You're in the rush of the first stages of attraction - not the right phase to be making long-term plans - babies and marriage, etc. Just play it out without any expectations. Enjoy it.  IP: Logged |
Predominantlyfire
Knowflake Posts: 168
From: Isle of Wight, U.K
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 11, 2010 07:26 AM
Get off with him Belg. ------------------
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Quinnie
Knowflake Posts: 205
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posted January 11, 2010 09:08 AM
The Sun/Pluto double whammy will be a pain in the ass! I had this with an ex and although we were so into each other, the power struggle was way too intense. It was like competition.
Although natally I have sun conjunct Pluto maybe it effected the relationship more.
The asc conjunct nnode is like glue alright! I have this with the father of my children.... and yes there was a third party involved in our meeting!
His Moon in Capricorn, although opposing your Mars, is irresistably attracted to your Cancer planets/asteroids... His Ceres opposing this too shows how much he wants to look after you but also how much you fight against it. There is lots of glue!
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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 725
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 11, 2010 11:07 AM
Amphitrite,I was thinking that mars moon could potentially be annoying. His synastry like i said is very different to anyone else ive had it with. Hes very interested in talking to me. You would not believe how much this guy wants to talk to me all night on the phone. I love that. About north node on the ASC it seems as if the whole universe is bringing us together and they are supporting our union. Its weird. I mean my mum wants me to settle down with him. she doesnt even know him.
Saturn conjunct venus!!! ITS EXACT TOO.
PeaceAngel, You are very right. I have been happy and this is confusing me. I dont understand where this relationship stuff come out of straight away. Its happening very fast and everything i hated in my ex bf, this guy is the opposite. He has all the qualities i like BUT... I am not attracted to him yet or i need to feel more than attraction. I need to feel familiar and confortable and then i need to have feelings and they dont happen over night. Tonight i told him we shouldnt talk so much and i didnt hear from him till 10pm and i actually missed talking to him. We spoke till 2am. I am going to distance myself because i love to rush things but im scared of men for the first time. I feel hurt still because i feel like i lost a family member when me and my ex broke up. I still have hate for him and that needs to pass before i can think about another relationship. XXX PDF,
LOL!! I doubt hed be worth sleeping with. Our synastry isnt sexually exciting. Theres only a boring sextile and im the mars person. Doubt there would be fire works in that department baby.
Quinnie,
what do you guys mean by a third party meeting? As in i come into the relationship as the 3rd person?
North node on ASC is glue. I think having any planet in cancer is glue too lol. JAJAAJAJA!! I would love to trade in my cancer planets for libra or sag.  ------------------
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Quinnie
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 11, 2010 12:14 PM
Well yeah could be a love triangle or just that you met him through a friend.In my case it was a bit of both. I met his friend first and he initiated us all meeting up... They were best friends and I got with his best friend first but it was only for a little while. A few months later I got with my fella and we stayed together for years... and two children later. IP: Logged |
Quinnie
Knowflake Posts: 205
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posted January 11, 2010 12:24 PM
Awww Libra and Sag! I have mars in Sagittarius, it gets on very well with my Libran sun and ascendant.People think I'm demure until they realise I'm up to something lol I love Cancer placements! It's your Gemini Moon that's causing you discord! lol Another Moon sign of mischief! IP: Logged |
MsCandeh
Knowflake Posts: 416
From: Australia
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 11, 2010 10:26 PM
Saturn conjunct Venus - Glue! I hope that it's easier to handle than the Venus square Saturn energy I'm used to in my relationsihps! Just try to find the balance between him being a bit 'harder' on you (you being the Venus) and him (subconciously) trying to dampen your enthusiasm/love/affection. Try to remember it's subconcious.. and that he may see you as being 'irresponsible' even if he doesn't say those exact words. I am talking from the hard Venus square Saturn aspects I've experienced, and being on both sides of the coin there. But the fact it's conjunct would be more of a binding aspect than a separating one and is probably much easier to deal with than the square! Just remind yourself that Saturn does Care he just doesn't like to Show it in an Venusian way (more in a parental way). Ceres opposite may indicate that you need to pay attention to nurturing each other to get all the positive benefits from Venus conj Saturn.But I noticed Saturn square Jupiter, and a wide Saturn square Jupiter (Libra to Cancer).. these energies are naturall opposites and being in square I am not sure that that is the easiest of all aspects especially DW! Maybe there will be misunderstandings, or your timing will be off when one of you tries to be optimistic and the other is being more cautious and vice versa. His POF on your SN/IC and your Vertex on his SN ..
this does seem very fated - NN conj ASC as well! I don't think Venus in 12th is a huge problem .. you have this natally so the energy is familiar. I had this with someone and we weren't as affectionate in public as I am used to in relationships. Maybe that's what that signifiess... more of a private love life? IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 725
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 12, 2010 01:11 AM
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It's your Gemini Moon that's causing you discord! lol Another Moon sign of mischief!
LOL Im always up to mischief. My mind is restless and fickle. I cant keep up with myself.
MsCandeh,
Im not a very responsible person "sometimes"
Out of nowhere i can change moods. I can be so sweet and nice and then instantly CHANGE. I am too freedom loving and i guess i got along with my aqua moon bf because of that. He allowed me to go overseas whenever i wanted and i always did whatever i wanted. Even he complained later but i got away with it 10 years i guess.. He keeps saying he wants to get married. Its making me want to hyperventilate, why when i want to marry my boyfriend of 10 years he doesnt want it and then comes along a guy hes everything i asked for in my old bf and now i dont necessarily want it. IP: Logged |
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