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Topic: sag vs. cap
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deflowerthis
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: florida united states
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 21, 2010 01:37 AM
 
i've been going through a friendship with a certain capricorn for like 3yrs..our relationship is like a couples' relationship, and it's very odd. I just recently went through a huge problem with her and it wasn't even my fault. I was determined to stick to my ground but a conversation with a friend left me apologizing for the situation that wasn't even my fault and i felt like i was giving up my dignity; i just wanted her to back the **** out of my grill. So after apologizing, she's like well i want to still talk to you but i don't want to be close. okay wtf does that mean? i'm only gunna be a go to friend, when you need me? So now i have to read from her internet posts that she is glad she only have one "best-friend" and that's all she needs. I'm just really ****** off that she is acting like this is my fault, even after I "apologized". I have tons of capricorn friends but it seems i have a severe trust issue with them and that goes along the same lines with aries, it just seems that they like to gossip the most.. I donno what it is.. Anyone got any advice?.. I've been trying to just let it go and go but i'm about to fly off the handle...IP: Logged |
jupitersgirl
Knowflake Posts: 39
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Registered: Oct 2009
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posted January 21, 2010 06:04 AM
I've read your post three times and I would like to help but I think you should give more detail about the issue between you two. If you post your synastry chart, that would also help.IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
Knowflake Posts: 103
From: Orlando FL USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 21, 2010 07:09 AM
Yes, I would like more info and also could this be a FOO(family of origin) pattern that is repeating.
IOW, did you have a hard relationship with other females in your life such as your M?
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deflowerthis
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: florida united states
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted January 21, 2010 01:53 PM
here is my chart
 and here is my friends chart
 i've always had trouble with my mother yes. my mom,grandma, and uncle,(all virgo's) have lived in the same house, along with my sag sister and aries brother. I've been pretty good at communicating with people in general and not to "stigmatize" certain signs, but i've always had difficulty relating/trusting aries or capricorn women. they seem to all act/think/betray at some point, whether they realize it or not. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
Knowflake Posts: 628
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted January 21, 2010 03:35 PM
Deflower this - you are highly Sagittarian with several planets in Sag. If you met an Aries person who is highly Aries.. you'd probably like them - considering your Moon is in Aries also. :edit: You might also get along well with an Aries who has Taurus planets in their chart (and no Pisces) - since your Asc is Taurus. However several Aries people (including myself) might have Pisces placements, such as Mercury and Venus - they're the common ones because Aries borders Pisces.. but also others Moon/Mars (it happens occasionally) I noticed the Capricorn girl above has Mars and Jupiter in Pisces. I'm curious as to how many of these Aries & Cap women have Pisces represented in their personal planets – Moon/Mercury/Venus/Mars/Jupiter It might just be the contrast between your very honest - open and *out there* Sagittarius planets and their more changeable watery Piscean nature. You said "they betray - whether they realize it or not"... This also hints at Pisces. With squared signs people often get on each others nerves with no intention to do so. Pisces is ruled by Neptune - the planet of deceit, lies, emotional blackmail.. These are all *possible* negative manifestations. Ultimately it always depends on the person and how they choose to act. There many other possible manifestations of Pisces in a chart.. but I think this is what you are getting - at the moment - with these women. IMO - don't bite into it. You don't need friends like that. I think she is victimizing herself to make you look like the bad guy. Regardless of what you did there are more mature ways to go about it.. and she sounds manipulative. I'd ignore her - personally. Block her wherever (facebook or wherever she's saying these things - so you don't have to see it).. and ignore. IP: Logged |
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