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Topic: astrology of intimacy
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DD
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posted February 07, 2010 12:50 PM
 
I have always liked this article.
http://www.asabovesobelow.com/creativeastrology/astrology_of_intimacy.htm IP: Logged |
changchiu
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posted February 07, 2010 01:29 PM
i have empty in 7 and 8 house(in planetary)houses IC Gemini,8 th house Cancer and True Node.. Is it expected to be passive in comomnication with people or in love relations as in-door??Ýt is complicated.. Thank you DD.Great article.. IP: Logged |
bonadea33
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From: In the valley bellow Austria
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted February 07, 2010 01:45 PM
DD,
Of course, love is not enough. There must be much, much more.
First of all, two people should be good friends. After that must be some kind of love (but not the great love - great love is not lasting for long time).
After that comes sex. When all three are there, in that case can be something very important and those people can stay togethere for a very long time.
Bobbie------------------
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bonadea33
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From: In the valley bellow Austria
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted February 07, 2010 01:48 PM
Something more:
One couple (together from High School): they have Saturn (in Synastry) in only good aspects. There is no square, no opposition, no conjunction, just trines and sextiles.
Saturn is the best planet to be together for very long time.
Bobbie
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DD
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posted February 07, 2010 02:05 PM
Changchiu,
look what the rulers of house 7 and house 8 are doing.
In my case:
7th house has no planets; ruler is Mercury (Gemini-DESC) in 1st house exactly conjunct Sun (on the GC).
8th house has Saturn in it, and Vertex and Eros. Ruler is Moon, which falls into Aquarius in 2nd house.
As you can see the 8th house is much more complicated than the 7th house (yet I am glad it is what it is).
I am open to communicating with anyone, and will at least try to have a positive attitude towards other people, always interested in sharing knowledge, insights and exchanging thoughts, hoping I can learn not only about other people but also about myself (I guess that is the DESC in Gemini, and Mercury in 1st house). But when you get to the step of the 8th house it gets much more complicated. Not many people make it to there. It is like I have a nice and friendly and light-flooded entrance hall (7th house) and maybe even living room, but you probably will never see my private chambers and sleeping room (8th house). AS a matter of fact this is true, I have my sleepingroom usually locked, if I have visitors. It`s a weird tick of mine. It is like behind this lightflooded entrancehall with a big library, there is a high wall, or a thick curtain keeping the back of my appartment or personality hidden.
The reason is that once I have invited someone in there, I cannot un-do this invitation. I am simply unable to break a promise or vow. If I have sworn to love someone and meant it, I will love him forever. Even if I don`t want to anymore. I can`t unlove or unfriend someone I have let in that deep. That is the reason, only very few people see all of my backrooms. I am very careful and suspicious in there (SAturn), but also much more vulnerable than it might seem in the entrance hall. It doesn`t take much to break my heart; but of course I would never let anyone see, well, at least not the one who did the breaking. IP: Logged |
DD
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posted February 07, 2010 02:06 PM
Bonadea,"Of course, love is not enough. There must be much, much more.
First of all, two people should be good friends. After that must be some kind of love (but not the great love - great love is not lasting for long time).
After that comes sex. When all three are there, in that case can be something very important and those people can stay togethere for a very long time."
Yes, that is my opinion, too. But probably we only agree in that, because our personalitie`s are similiar in this regard.
Yet I think other people may have other preferences. Also, I don`t think that a Great love will always die. It depends on what you define as Great love though. IP: Logged |
bonadea33
Knowflake Posts: 62
From: In the valley bellow Austria
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted February 07, 2010 03:20 PM
DD,Just a short comment: love doesn't die, but relationship dies. Soemthing more: rulers of my 7th and 8th are in sextile. B. IP: Logged | |
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