posted February 20, 2010 02:51 AM         

Your feeling for Gem 23 is basically the same with me, and it is very brilliant of you to look at Sag 23.

The couple I mentioned above have composite moon at Gem 23. They were also facing tradition problem, and they rewrited the tradition in the end with a FOREIGN one. They're determined while you're not so sure, and this might be the vulnerability of the relationship (chiron at Gem 23).

posted February 21, 2010 04:42 AM         

1. Ascendants are in Signs ruled by Libra. Quite positive, and this enhances the position of Venus in the analysis.

2. Guy's APHRODITE conjuncts Raspberi's Ascendant exact. In most cases, this is "love at first sight", and certainly love at first interaction, first giggle, first dimple or first notice of a personality trait. He cannot forget you. If the relationship does not work out, lifelong he will reminisce of you as the "One that got away..."

3. Raspberri's APHRODITE conjunct his Taurus Moon exact. This is very strong emotional attraction. I can feel the magnetism myself from thousands of miles away... imagine what you two felt.

4. Saturn exactly Opposed his Moon and your APHRDOITE conj Jupiter. Open and Shut case of Family/Orthodoxy/Cultural problems for emotional growth of this "attractive" pair in a relationship.

5. This is not a synastry point, but have to mention that his chart has AMOR conjunct Saturn. His ability to love unconditionally is hence afflicted. I said Venus will be important, and having your Venus conj his Chiron does not help heal the wound with love because of Saturn opp AMOR.

6. Raspberri's Moon trine's his North Node. A positive fate aspect. But your Moon is also square his Sun, plus his Sun is in your 12th House. Maybe if it were in your first house, there could have been some more guts and some more proactive efforts from him?

7. Your Sun conj VALENTINE [A Soul that loves long term relationship Love] is almost conjunct his TYCHE. 4 degrees away. Maybe if this were exact, he would have directly felt the good fortune from having you forever in his life.

8. His Pluto-PSYCHE conjunct your UNION: A full fledged relationship with him would have assisted his transformation, his discovery of the divine feminine within him.

9. His Mars conj Venus in Virgo conjunct your NEMESIS and KARMA in Virgo. This can be a past life conflict, where his sexuality and his passions were thwarted by you.

10. Major weakness: His VALENTINE does not have a proper aspect to your chart.

11. Your Uranus-Saturn conj his Neptune and your TYCHE conj his KARMA in 20 Sag. Clear evidence of a past life connection. You both were involved in a big project together. And he was a bit lucky for you.

12. Last but not the least: His Virgo EROS makes a grand trine with your AMOR in Capricorn and APHRODITE-Jupiter in Taurus. This is a grand trine of Earth Elements.
Strong and stable foundations of true relationship love exist, and it takes another Earth ruled planet like Saturn conjunct his AMOR to avoid implementing this foundation into palace of love.
Your own Saturn is in his 8th House. With so much fatedness to meet and attempt the relationship, and with so many attractive factors, it is not at all impossible that he will again try for you in the future. A few years after his Saturn return perhaps.
You are the girl who has seeded love in his heart, thanks to the APHRODITE connection.

I will conclude by reiterating this: He can never ever forget you.

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posted February 21, 2010 07:30 AM         

im so sorry...i hope all works best for both of you.

i believe that in the end.love always wins.

have you ever heard about Law of attraction of Oponopono?

if i were you i would experiment to work on that relationship throught forgiveness and love torwards the family of the guy.

it has to be sincere and coming from the heart...i ve seen on other´s people experiences that oponopono is a working tool.it fascinated me to see all the stories.

If you want to look a bit more:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ho%27oponopono

http://www.hooponoponohelp.com/