posted February 15, 2010 12:21 AM         

What did i do about it? I decided to get him back. Im not dealing with the fact that he played me for so many years. I put my brains to good use and deicded to use all my 'HARD TO GET' tricks and it worked. Hes back at my feet begging me but I'm still not satisfied and I haven't had enough nor have I seen enough to be happy that the tables have turned around and hes upset hes lost me.

He seems to have forgotten everything thats happened the last 3 months and even invited me over to his house while his parents were sleeping. After 10 txt msgs of insisting he will even pay for my cab I decided to go.

I went in a black dress showing cleavage of course but dressed it down with a small black cardigan and flat shoes. I had my hair out and only did mascara rather than wear too much make up. I didnt want to look like I was trying to impress him. After 10 minutes of sitting next to him with my head resting on my hand as I relexed on the lounge for the first time we hadn't been physical in the first few minutes of seeing each other. (Of couse I was dying) but thanks to transit saturn in my first I made myself believe it would help me control my emotions HE tried to make a move on me and I rejected him. I pushed him away and told him I only want to be friends and that I didnt come to do anything more than that. I quickly noticed he got nervous and started biting his nails scratching his head and becoming nervous. I knew I had control.

I didn't stay long at his house I spent 1 hour with him and called myself a cab and I decided to get up and leave before things got boring and too awkward. On my way home I knew he would txt me and notice a difference in the way I was behaving and that I was no longer going to come back to him despite him telling me he wasnt in love with me any longer.

In his text msg he said that we would be friends that dont keep in touch often and that it felt weird and i replied after waiting an hour "yeah you were a bit quiet, but nothing weird my end" at 4am that morning I got another text saying "I feel sick for trying to kiss you and wish I never did, dont contact me again"

After receiving that msg normally I would feel bad and go back to boost his ego but instead I waited till the next night to reply and I told him how much satisfaction I got out of him giving me an ego boost knowing that I came there and could be indifferent to him and not hook up with him as I always would. I said im independant and have a career and a life to attend to and I do things when I want with who I want and then wrote my favourite line that most men hate.. "Take care"

Within 5 minutes I got a txt off him saying "come over". Another txt and another... Demanding answers wanting explanations but I wasnt going to get into any serious topics or even give away any emotions or gestures that might make him think Im even somewhat interested in him. Its been 2 weeks hes chasing me like crazy. Doing anything for my time and even begged me to go out with him on Valentines Day. Instead I lied to him telling him I already had plans to go out for dinner with my grandmother.

Anyways after all of this it occurred to me that TRANSIT NEPTUNE is conjunct his MOON.

I am neptune here. I've tricked him into believing he is fascinated with me but Im just using all the classic men traps that make them all hot and get their heart racing.

I think this is a classic example of Neptune and pulling the wool over someones eyes. Maybe TRANSIT NEPTUNE trine my MOON right now is giving me that ability also. I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced ANY neptune to moon or venus transits and had a similiar situation..

posted February 15, 2010 02:19 AM         

He's just a jerk. The way he has behaved is not ok at all.. specially the abortion you ended up having and whole ordeal with his mother.. He needs to grow up and make his own decisions without his parents holding his hand!

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I've tricked him into believing he is fascinated with me but Im just using all the classic men traps that make them all hot and get their heart racing.

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posted February 15, 2010 02:22 AM         

It was exactly trine my ascendant and square my 5th house ruler saturn.

What effect could the eclipse have had? Maybe (5th house) and playing love games :P

posted February 15, 2010 02:33 AM         

Yeah I agree its best to leave it but I couldnt after I had noone else to occupy myself with and he stirred me up again with his msgs.

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specially the abortion you ended up having and whole ordeal with his mother..

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I didnt fall pregnant to him it was a joke that turned into a serious lie that eventually brang about the truth.

posted February 17, 2010 01:47 AM         

My ex and I weren't together that long and whenever I tell him I do not want to speak to him anymore, he waits a few weeks, can't take the pressure and contacts me.

Some relationships boomerang back into just when you least expect or want them to, or worse, just when you want them to. My opinion is do whatever you feel helps you get over the relationship, even if it means that you have to play the "I'm too busy, too happy, too fabulous for you" game.

posted February 17, 2010 02:18 AM         

Im not upset either i guess im just used to interacting with him. I will be out and doing things in 2 weeks when i get my licence back and im sure I will be very normal again...

posted February 17, 2010 03:44 AM         

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i found mysef alone and bored i started focusing on him again

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