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vertiver
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posted February 18, 2010 03:29 AM
 
Why do I always have a sense of urgency when it comes to dating? If I don't hear from them I immediately question their interest in me and end up doing all the work, meaning I call them, arrange the dates, etc... Is there anything I'm missing that is totally obvious look at my natal?  IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted February 18, 2010 03:57 AM
I'd like to ask you a question and then comment.
My question is how do moon in Pisces and Venus in Aries feel-- operating together?
My comment is that I have a g/f with a strong Pisces chart who is the same way you describe.
I think the Pisces makes you get insecure second guessing yourself.
I would try to find a friend who is NOT like that and call that person when you are feeling insecure. Someone outside ourselves can help us see reality in a way that gets us outside our own mental processes.
I have moon in Cancer so I call people when I need reality checks to see if I am worrying too much over little things. Ami
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vapor-lash
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posted February 18, 2010 04:44 AM
Vertiver - The only thing I see there is impatience (Sag Asc + Aries Mars).Are you sure this is insecurity?
Maybe you just want things to move at a faster pace and aren't willing to wait around for the other person. But if it *is* insecurity.. YES, OK - Why not?
We can lay it on the Pisces Moon - I agree with Ami lol   IP: Logged |
vapor-lash
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posted February 18, 2010 04:46 AM
And the other thing about your fiery planets - You love excitement!! A guy would have to have tons of energy and a very entertaining personality to keep up with your romantic pace. Some people are just lazier or slower.. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted February 18, 2010 04:52 AM
venus opposed uranus -- impatience?
venus opposed saturn -- insecurity?IP: Logged |
DD
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posted February 18, 2010 08:39 AM
Vertiver,I`d say Venus-Uranus opposition on the relationship axis can be pretty impatient when it comes to dating. Venus-Saturn-opposition would relate to insecurities, especially with Venus ruling 5th house and Saturn ruling 2nd house.
Maybe you are insecure (Saturn) especially in regard to your selfvalue or even body (2nd house), when it comes to dating (5th house)?
Uranus also rules your 2nd house and opposes the ruler of 5th house, this would pronounce the tension between romance / affairs and selfvalue even more, and probably make you prone to sudden actions (Uranus in 1st house).
This Saturn-Uranus in 1st house looks like a real stop-and-go combination to me.
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vertiver
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posted February 18, 2010 11:40 AM
I don't think its because I'm insecure, if that were the case, I'd probably do nothing and just sulk about it. I used to be very passive when I was younger and had the tendency to never take risks. I'm definitely impatient and T. Uranus has been square natal Venus for the past year or so, which has really changed my whole approach to dating etc... And only further emphasizes the natal Venus-Uranus opposition. But thanks DD, for pointing out the house stuff, especially the 5th and 2nd house connection, I always neglect empty houses... quote:
And the other thing about your fiery planets - You love excitement!! A guy would have to have tons of energy and a very entertaining personality to keep up with your romantic pace.
Some people are just lazier or slower..
Good point, Vapor Lash. I think I'm finally over going for really fiery guys though. I love the energy but there is no balance when two firey people are together they just feed off each other and get even fierier. I'm interested in a Gemini at the moment and his Venus is conjunct my DSC. and my Mars is conjunct his Dsc. which is a first for me in synastry, I'll see how that goes...
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DD
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posted February 18, 2010 11:50 AM
Well, if his ARIES Mars is conjunct his DESC, I am not suprised, you are the active one. 
Also, insecurity is one possibility with Saturnian oppositions, but it doesn`t have to be always like this. Sometimes we are just very focused and concentrated in these areas, and sometimes we even overcompensate.
Often the underlying reason for that is an initial shyness or insecurity, that may lead us to "perfect" these areas of our lives.
For example my best friend has Saturn in 3rd house, she used to doubt her intelligence, communicative skills and all these things very much (whcih was also due to her parents planting this insecurity in her); this made her strive for absolute perfection in these areas and working hard and very focused on her education, and noone would ever think now that she once has been shy in this regard!
She doesn`t doubt her intelligence anylonger either, but this was a long process for her. Maybe you grew out of this kind of insecurity? Or did you never experience Saturn as a factor for shyness or insecurity in your life? IP: Logged |
amowls*
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posted February 18, 2010 12:26 PM
Im the same exact way... I have venus square my saturn uranus conjunction.IP: Logged |
jane
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posted February 18, 2010 12:34 PM
Yeah, I think it's your Venus oppositions too.Venus in 7th
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Saturn cnj Uranus in 1st It sounds like you identify with Saturn and Uranus - you're the worker (Saturn) and accelerator (Uranus). The other (7th house) is the prize (Venus). Maybe you could rework the way you think about love. Would you say that now, it seems like something outside yourself that you're trying to attain? That you're trying to build it? If you think of love as something inside you always, you may feel less of an urgency to push it into existence externally. BTW, we have pretty cool synastry.  Your ASC-DSC falls exactly on my Vertex, among other things. IP: Logged |
vertiver
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posted February 19, 2010 02:29 AM
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Maybe you grew out of this kind of insecurity? Or did you never experience Saturn as a factor for shyness or insecurity in your life?
DD, I don't think you can go through adolescence without experiencing insecurity. But I would say that I used to come across as rather reserved and went for the low hanging fruit in regards to friends and I seemed to just get labeled the quiet/shy girl, when in fact I was much more than that, I think the struggles I faced such as being raised by a young single mother and having weight issues when I was younger has really made me mature fast while emerging as a very independent person. Thanks to Saturn/ Uranus in the first I'll never be a conformist nor fit the labels of normal or abnormal just an ambiguity of both. Hey Jane, glad to know we have good synastry! IP: Logged |
DD
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posted February 19, 2010 06:44 AM
Vertiver,I agree. The time of adolescence is a time of insecurities, you`re right. Still, the way you described yourself very much fit Saturn in 1st house, too, donīt you think?
And it is a sign that we are not stuck with one expression of our natal planets, but that they can mature. Also, having both Saturn and Uranus in your 1st house, will make for an interesting ambiguity just as you said yourself.
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vertiver
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posted February 19, 2010 06:40 PM
DD, I guess maybe I've finally become intune with Saturn enough to manange responisbility without coming across as unapproachable. Does it make a difference that Saturn is RX?IP: Logged |
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