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Topic: Please help me to understand this synastry
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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 23, 2010 10:51 AM
Hi, Guys Can you help me to understand this synastry (I am inside) Basically I met this guy some time ago, because of age difference (8 years) I brushed him off, but he was persistent and we started to date. The chemistry is amazing and I feel so connected to him but I still hang up on age. Honestly I am lost… should I continue? Should I stop? Can you help me to understand underlying energy of our relationship? Many thanks http://i868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/synastry_p_v.gif Please click on a image.
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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 23, 2010 01:07 PM
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angel100 Knowflake Posts: 16 From: Ireland Registered: Nov 2009
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posted February 23, 2010 03:55 PM
Well, I have noticed a couple of things about this synastry chart from a quick glance...the first thing i noticed was your eros is conjunct his psyche..this is thought to be a soulmate connection lol, sweet Are you familiar with Magi astrology? His venus is at a 150 degree angle to your chiron which is known as a cinderella romance linkage of true love so it is highly likely that you two could even get married some day..His sun is tightly conjunct your neptune and ascendant...the fact that his sun is conjunct your ascendant is HUGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is a MAJOR synastry aspect....great for general compatibility and as for his sun on your neptune... he's enamored with you...he has rose tinted specs on and see's only your good...if you notice his venus is conjunct your jupiter which is emphasizing the fact that he sees only the best in you....he must be very extravagant with you, buying you presents and taking you out all the time I bet..lucky you His pluto is opposite your moon so he may try to manipulate you from time to time subtly or control you or be a bit posessive? This could be very possible because he has venus in scorpio...I see too that his sun is square your north node and his moon is opposite it...hard aspects from one partners luminaries to the others nodes are a sign of a karmic connection...two souls that are meant to be together..IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 23, 2010 04:31 PM
Angel..... thanks I am really grateful for your input.... I tried to break from this rel 3 times and each time we would get back... and to think of it we started to date ONLY 2 months ago (drama drama drama). I do not know what is going on. I am usually very calm and collected (I am aqua after all) but with him... I feel very strange... very vulnerable and I am scared by my reaction to him. and 8 years age dif. does not help as well. as a matter of fact IT bothers me a lot! even though I look younger than he is I am not familiar with Magi astrology. Regarding taking me out he tries but he just finished his advance studies so he does not make a lot of money. But it really does not matter which is strange(in my previous rel. money aspect was very important for me). I also noticed his major planets falls in my 1st house. and my major planets falls in his 8th house.
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Lonake Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2010 11:01 PM
quote: his sun on your neptune... he's enamored with you...he has rose tinted specs on and see's only your good...if you notice his venus is conjunct your jupiter which is emphasizing the fact that he sees only the best in you..
I have this too with a man so sweet I think we were just smitten with each other from day one, a very generous friendship, complete open acceptance both ways from day 1. It's his Scorpio Venus conj my Jupiter, his Sagittarius Sun conj my Neptune, and a luminary on my AC but not the Sun it's his Moon (in Leo). I love being around that man IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 24, 2010 09:16 AM
Lonake, interesting.... we have lots of aspect in common What about My Eros Conjunct his Mars? What do you think about this aspect? Also... My Sun, Venus, Juno in his 8th house Does it mean only sexual staff? Hmm.. regarding Neptune.... It does give me some pause. in my previous rel. my partners did not know where they stand with me. Why? Beats me. Even though I tried to be very direct about my intentions and feelings ...all my good intentions were in vain. They did not believe it. I also starting to understand my reaction to him (I tried to break up with him 3 times in last 2 months). May be it is because his pluto? IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 24, 2010 04:39 PM
IQ and Others can you add anything? Thanks IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 868 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 24, 2010 05:24 PM
With your ACs in trine, your outlooks are generally compatible. His Sagittarius stellium is in your 1st house, so you can identify yourself with him. Your Jupiter is conjunct his Venus, so you feel happy and generous around him, while he likes your joyful side. Your Neptune is conjunct his Sun, so you might idealize him, and you are compassionate for him. Your Eros is conjunct his Mars/Psyche/Neptune, so you might have the desire to physically unite with him (erotic love feelings), while he might respond to this with a desire of soulful connection (guess that those who have experienced the Eros/Psyche conjunction can explain it better). He might also idealize your Eros' side too. Lastly, with your Sun/Venus/Juno in his 8th house, he might relate you to the matters of 8th house (intimate relationship, sex, deep issues, etc.).IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 24, 2010 05:42 PM
Oi vei.... I just looked at composite chart everything is sq Pluto sq Sun/Moon/Venus Posting composite http://i868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/composite_v_p.gif IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 10:14 AM
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iQ Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 10:38 AM
Very encouraging analysis from Angel100 and Comica. You must check Asteroid VALENTINE and KARMA as well in synastry.About the composite: Jupiter trine Pallas when NNode is in 3rd expands intellectual communication and growth of insightful wisdom as a couple. 5th House has Mars conj JUNO exact, one of the best aspects for expereincing ideal sexual joy as a couple. CERES adds joyful nurturing to the mix. This alone can take care of many tough challenges in life. Now the core challenge: Saturn opposition Sun-Mercury T-Square Pluto. This will be an after effect of the age difference. You and he have different characteristics, different approaches to finances, socio-cultural outlook. You both can transform by meeting half way in these issues. Moon is close to Saturn but not actively conjunct, its weak but will cause emotional depression during harsh transits. Had it been Moon exactly conjunct Saturn, things would have been extremely challenging. ------------------ http://tamsoft.co.in/articles.html Readings IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 10:53 AM
IQ Thank you Comic and Angel Lonake thank you.I just looked at composite chart and it scared me Sun Square Pluto Moon Square Pluto Mercury Square Pluto Venus Square Pluto Saturn Square Pluto I will post my synastry chart with Karma and other asteroids. thanks
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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 11:10 AM
http://i868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/synastry_karma.gif IQ I could not find Valentine in astro.com His Karma conj my DC, right?
This is ascepts http://s868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/?action=view¤t=aspects.gif
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iQ Knowflake Posts: 1344 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 11:17 AM
VALENTINE = Number 447IP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 11:23 AM
new synastry with Valentine and Karma http://i868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/synastry_karma_valentine.gif This Compasite with Karma and Valentine http://s868.photobucket.com/albums/ab245/Aquavic/?action=view¤t=composite_vp_karma_Val.gif
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DD Knowflake Posts: 3358 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 11:46 AM
The Valentine-Moon-trine in watersigns in the composite looks really sweet. Makes me think of a very loving emotional connection. Karma conjunct Chiron - maybe there is some old wounds from a past life?
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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 12:11 PM
DD, I was thinking the same, otherwise why would I have such a strong reaction to him? Old woundsSomething about him made my heart beat faster. and I do believe it is not ONLY sexual reaction. Even though it is MC2 However, he is cancer rising and if I am not mistaken he is looking for an emotional security. I am scorpio raising and mars is in aries so I have a temper and I can be intense. Therefore I ALWAYs check my emotion under control.
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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 25, 2010 01:43 PM
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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 26, 2010 09:32 AM
IQ I posted my composite and synastry with Karma and ValentineIP: Logged |
Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 17 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted February 27, 2010 09:55 AM
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