posted February 26, 2010 04:38 PM            

You have to feel the love in your heart, and that love has to be unconditional.

That's all you need to do to see if you were meant to be; look inside for the answer and God will show you.

posted February 26, 2010 08:54 PM            

With my last boyfriend in synastry I had his mars conjunct my north node. He was always there to lend a helping hand.(he drove me around town 2 years ago helping me gather job applications on his day off for example) I really felt he was every supportive in helping me get where I needed to go or be in life. But since pluto is also in the mix conjunct the north node in the synastry here I don't know how that will affect this aspect.

I noticed the moon is conjunct the descendent in synastry. It was my moon, and the guy I talked to for months I was always worried about him. I wanted to share/experience things with him. He would tell me about his trials/troubles in life, and I would always offer him advice and share my experiences or opinions on the matter. Deep emotional tie...

Also, in the composite sun is sextile the moon. Had that with the guy I described above. It is supposed to create a brother/sister dynamic within the relationship. Not in a grose way! But rather, the person feels like family and the sun/moon person in the relation take turns making choices rather that one person leading/dominating. That was true also for me as well.

posted February 26, 2010 11:18 PM            

Lara
thanks for that spectacular piece of wisdom

zanarkand112
any help is great...thanks
yeah it's funny I'm the same way with him....always being supportive and I think he admires my drive, cause I'm not afraid to go after/ or do what I want....except when it comes to him...but then again I don't want to ruin any friendship we have or impose myself into his life in any way....especially when you see a person going in a certain direction in life...a good direction
Yeah he felt soo familiar when we first layed on eachother...it was "a love at first sight" like you know this person is going to affect you in some way...like they will be an important/meaningful person in your life....and yes that is exactly what happened...we match mentally, I am very attracted to him physically and emotionally we click...but sometimes we get in detach and observe mode which can get awkward....but always seem to seek eachother out

posted February 27, 2010 02:38 AM              

Question is if its forever and nothing lasts forever so just enjoy your time together.

posted February 27, 2010 03:15 AM            

I don't doubt that you both feel a strong and deep connection. I know what it's like because I've been where you are now. In your heart you know that he loves you but your head says he doesn't because you're not seeing any concrete/tangible evidence. So you listen to your head and ignore all the unconscious signs and decide to move on. And a few years later, you will realize that you were not imagining things, that there really was love between the two of you.

posted February 27, 2010 08:12 AM              

If he was someone you were meant to be with, you wouldn't doubt it for a second... and you wouldn't be asking for VALIDATION.

posted February 27, 2010 02:01 PM              

you´re taking the title very seriously....

for me i think that it is a very nice title and Virgo only wanted to ask something like...does fate appears in our charts???

Which obviously..if you are in a romantic relationship....fate is always there,one way or the other.

we are the ones that attract whatever we think into our lives so....

Virgo
let me see the charts:

for instance my relationship is higly fated in a positive way andd we also had that familiarity that you talk about that is a bonus definatelly!!

can you add some asteroids please?it can give much more details...

karma 3811
valentine 447
amor 1221
tyche 258
union 1585

you know many times,when two persons are SM of a kind,it doenst matter if life says no in a moment,cause later it will give you chances.

it is often cause two people are SM that Life seems to be harder,cause it puts up challenges to make the heart grow fonder,to test the relationship you see..

it is never a waste of time if you do really love each other.Stay strong and true to your feelings,or else you can regret later in Life,when you see that you let such an opportunity go away...

to me seems t hat you have a really nice composit.
the square venus/Saturn is a bit wide so i wouldnt worry about that much...me and bf hacve a semisquare,and distance doenst make our love less stronger,to the contrary!

that aspect only says that "tests and trials are part of their relationship. Overcoming them can be a fulfilling experience in and of itself."

so it is up to you two and how you handle the energies.

posted February 27, 2010 02:03 PM            

In two months or so, it not right now, he will be going through some kind of transformation as his pMoon will catch up to his pSun @ 28 Pisces. This is called a Progressed New Moon and usually indicates a move away from home or a change in life direction.

The moon while very important in synastry is not strong enough to bring about a relationship. Minus other relationship indicators, the moon allows for smooth exchange of energies between two people. The moon/pMoon, imo, is the first planet to introduce itself.

In 2006 I see his pMoon @ 9 Aquarius conjunct your nMoon @ 6 Aquarius. Simultaneously your pMoon @ 17 Capricorn is conj. his nMoon & Asc in Capricorn. All powerful connections that show two people who find it very easy to relate to each other.

Come 2009 that magic has been replaced with something very comfy, but not quite as intense as the pMoon/nMoon double whammy.

posted February 27, 2010 05:44 PM            

Yes the Aqua is one in the red.....I'm the the blue one in the chart

Deux*Antares
well there is some distance between us...and I put that distance there cause he has a girlfriend...In DEC 09, I found this out..but I had a gut feeling something was off ...that was why I didn't even try anything with him.. well my gut was right....but what I don't understand ...is why did he even bother to show me some of his feelings ...why even show interest..

When ever I was around him...I kept my cool...and did the emotional detachment thing...I didn't let him know what I was feeling but he kept on flirting with me...trying to get my attention, staring at me, giving me hints that he likes me...I ignored it and kept it at friendship level...but inside of me is a different story...they say "you can't help who you love" I usually don't get strong feelings for anyone ..so when I do..it's all or nothing...but you see all of this has been going on for three years now.

Lonake
I think that is what is happening....we both have fears....I know I do....I know he does...we both are not that emotionally open people..

Diana
We both are strong personalities.....that is a given LOL!! but I wouldn't want it any other way

posted February 27, 2010 06:32 PM            

this is why I'm trying to look for some answers....cause I know it's rare to find someone on the this level...but right now I'm at a point where I think I need to let go...but something is telling me....not to let go...you might regret it....so I'm torn not sure which way to go...if I should just move on with my life...but what if

but I'll put that chart up for you...thanks again DiandraReborn25

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Nine
We actually met on March 27, 2007 around 11:00am...sorry can't remember the exact time.... that was the first time we saw one another and the look on his face was one of confusion...like he knew me or something..as I left he was staring/following me...but I will never forget the look on his face...and I said to myself....."aww he is cute but that is too bad..we will be good friends"..but it was like love at first sight...instant recognition....at this point in my life due to prior heartache I decided to give up on love....so I wasn't looking for someone...but I took note of this date

posted February 27, 2010 07:02 PM              

you have some pretty powerful cj there:

- his mars/pluto cj your NN:so you might feel he pushes you forward in life,but also there might be some plutonian forces here...

-his Union cj your IC:he might feel that you are the right one for him.union stands for committed relationships and your deepest core represents that to him

- his karma cj lilith ..see he has some wounds here regarding some deep obscure energies working in his life...this cj you Pluto.so lilith and pluto are always deep,intense forces.so you might digg up that on him.

- your pallas cj his node allas stands for wisdom,but also awakening of pineal gland.the 3rd eye sort to speak.so probably you do that to him on an uncouncsious way?

- his vx is wide close your asc:fated encounter definatelly!

- his venus cj your vesta:his planet of love/romance conects with your planet of devotion and beliefs.also stands for sex as spiritual transformation NICE ONE!

- HIS ceres cj your PF:ceres is most about nurturing,giving confort,it also stands for children and making a family.i believe that you will do that in the future together.it is cj your lucky arabic part.

- your amor/lilith/jup wide cj his kiron:kiron stands for the wounded healer.it is retro in his chart.so yes he is a very wounded person.it is in the house of fun,games,romance..in taurus.so probably he is wounded in emotions,related to one of these matters:children,romance,fun,games,creatitity,sex...?

your lilith energies might pen the wounds,but with jup and amor of yours,it will be a positive thing.there is expansion,and unconditional love there,for him from your part.

- his pallas cj your tyche:tyche is the lucky fated events.so...i see here a high chance for you two to develop the tantric sex! and it is karmic.it will happen someday...

- his moon on your dsc:again you are his ideal woman.and you feel that he is your perfect partner.

-your karma/vertex cj his asc:definately this proofs your feeling of past lifes.

if you see the DRACONIC CHARTS it will show your spiritual bond from past encarnations.

posted February 28, 2010 02:20 PM            

DiandraReborn25
thanks for the looking at our charts with asteroids....that was great.....but I think we are reversed in your interpretation.....actually I'm the one with chiron in the 5th house....so I'm the wounded person....but I get it....thanks for saying at least I'm not crazy we have some sort of connection

posted March 01, 2010 02:10 AM              

Everyone seems to have issues with venus in Aries. Someone else was writing about a man with venus and mars in aries.