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Topic: my pluto square venus transit nightmare
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angel100
Knowflake Posts: 185
From: Ireland
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted March 08, 2010 07:16 AM
 
Im currently going through a pluto square my natal venus transit and its ruining everything....when me and my exboyfriend got together it was 1 degree off exact and now 7 months later it is exact....we try to communictate but we end up being nasty to each other, even manipulative, stalkerish and controlling.....what can I do to manage this transit better....its such a nightmare!!IP: Logged |
popcorn
Knowflake Posts: 1481
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 08, 2010 09:41 AM
The best you can do are to go away from your boyfriend and let both of you miss each other. I'm not mean leave for all time. Give both of you clean air to breath for a while.IP: Logged |
amowls*
Knowflake Posts: 1477
From: richmond va
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 08, 2010 01:19 PM
I went through this transit recently. Its best to not fight it. Dont cling to relationships that dont work. Pluto is trying to transform the way you view love and relationships and sometimes that involves cleaning house. You will be better off in the end as long as you cooperate. IP: Logged |
Diana
Knowflake Posts: 2049
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Registered: May 2009
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posted March 08, 2010 04:55 PM
Amowls is right.IP: Logged |
Cynnared
Knowflake Posts: 535
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 09, 2010 06:22 AM
It is a transforming phase in love....sure one may think they are going through a nightmarish relationship issue however one will find that they own sense of self value grows.I had this transit back in the mid to late 90s. Pluto not only was squaring my venus but was sitting on my Jupiter/Neptune Conjunction. I met this man back in March 1994 - a Libra - who chased after me for 2 years and finally caught me in May of 1996. It turned out to be an on again off again relationship and he was highly judgemental and wanted a perfect partner who made the big bucks and could afford him the luxuries he craved.....well that was not me. He cheated one me once or twice and then things got bitter and ugly. I dumped him and moved out of the city to put distance between him and I. He then kept in touch with my mother and would use her to get to me.....it was a very creepy time... That was my Pluto Square Natal Venus experience..... IP: Logged |
popcorn
Knowflake Posts: 1481
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 09, 2010 12:58 PM
When I got transit pluto in opp to my N venus my relationshop finally ended. Transit saturn in square to venus in the same time give it increased strenght to not go back to him. He not tried to come back and I've not think about him at all..IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974
Knowflake Posts: 328
From: a previous life
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 09, 2010 01:07 PM
i had venus square pluto a few years back. this man was in my system like voodoo potion! He was all i thought about; nothing else mattered. now i see him and he makes me want to vomit! LOLOL!
Now my sixteen year old is going through it. i cant wait until its over. but i completely understand.
There is nothing you can really do about the transit. just try to hang in there, and try to get out and meet new people and do new things. it will be over before you know it. Alot of times there is someone or something alot different for you at the end of it all. you will be glad you went through it. IP: Logged |
Lonake
Knowflake Posts: 1591
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 09, 2010 11:09 PM
angel100,
How's the sex? You have to channel the energy into something positive  or you will drown yourself in crazy thinking. This is an aspect that can get way out of hand.IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 432
From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2010 11:28 PM
I went through it and I have absolutely no advice for you other than this too shall pass. IP: Logged |
Quinnie
Knowflake Posts: 455
From:
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 13, 2010 05:22 AM
I met my current partner during this transit.Natally though I'm a libra sun conjunct Pluto and in synastry his Pluto conjuncts my Sun. Fine indication of a significant relationship from my experience... We are together 8 years, with two children, but it's always been intense... Crazy sex for the first few years too. IP: Logged |
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