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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 567
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posted March 12, 2010 10:19 PM
 
Ok, I'm mixed up at the moment because I suddenly started becoming involved with my friend. I'm not sure what to make of our synastry and composite, they don't look too bad to me but the composite just yells irrational to me.
Synastry (I'm inside, he is outside):
 And here is the spectacle: Composite:  Both the NN and Pallas are conjunct the Pisces ASC. along with the Moon being conjunct, stellium in the 4th house, Venus conjunct Eros, Pluto conjunct Vesta the 8th and the list goes on for eye openers in this composite. Please give me objective feedback and criticism, I won't get offended!
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 567
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posted March 12, 2010 10:35 PM
And yes opposites do attract or least Ascendant wise. My Sag Asc. is definitely digging the fact that he is foreign, I studied Spanish and finally found a Peruvian who is tri-lingual! IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
Knowflake Posts: 1859
From: Bay Area, CA
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 13, 2010 01:10 AM
What's irrational? I see a lovely composite with grand trine, so what are you talking about ??? Venus is peregrine in the composite, and to me this says Venus-like stuff will get extra importance. Ruler of the 10th is Jupiter and that's in the 3rd, so you love talking to each other. Also the ruler of the 7th (Mercury) is in the 4th. Sweet.
I don't get your suspicion. No chart will ever be perfect - rarely anyway - because no two people are perfect.
Where the relationship goes between both of you needs to be determined first before judging anyway.
But to me, it looks great. IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted March 13, 2010 03:28 AM
I say as MVM. No one is perfect so just go for it. A grand trine sun-pluto-moon looks like so nice. I also like the strong saturn connection to sun. I think it bring the relationship the certainty and the security you need..IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 567
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posted March 13, 2010 09:13 PM
I guess I just wanted someone to tell me if they saw any red flags. There is something very compatible yet very incompatible about us. But I feel so comfortable with him which I can only guess has to do with the composite 4th house stellium and our natal Venus' are both conjunct in Gemini and we have the same Moon sign... IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 567
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posted March 14, 2010 05:24 PM
But I need more advice from you fellow astrologers! IP: Logged |
dinobleue
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: Sedona, AZ, USA
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 14, 2010 05:37 PM
Follow your heart! Love is never easy...and great love seems to be the most complicated of all! Relationships and risks are ALWAYS worth it, because no matter what, you come out on the other side wiser and more experienced at the VERY least. Good luck!IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 567
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posted March 15, 2010 12:11 AM
Oh wow, that is very true, dinobleue! And the worst thing that can happen is losing my friendship with this person, but hopefully that won't happen. IP: Logged |
SpooL
Knowflake Posts: 105
From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 15, 2010 01:55 AM
Well, I got a an astrolger to look at your chart here is her thoughts...... They can be together many years.
They will be in love but the Gem spends money without communicating and the Leo will just
get frustrated feeling there is lack of communication. The Gem is a people person but at the spur of the moment - the moment takes them
where the Leo likes relationships and friendships defined and will want to be alone
with their Gem and not always share the Gem with people yet the gem can spring on
the Leo that they are having an unexpected social party where it is a total surprise
to the Leo this does not go well the following day or week when the Leo sulks and pouts
The leo likes to be appreciated and the Gem can forget when to honour and kiss the Leos
feet then they are in royal dodo. hmmmm The Gem will not buy presents as the leo expects and there can be some distance there. The Leo likes sudo intellectual things and the Gem likes all people where the Leo is a little more choosy. There are many good points with this couple especially when they plan things together and realized that life is not so
serious as the Leo likes to make it. The leo will expect loyalty and the gem is a people person. They both love children - the leo is a natural the gem on the other hand looks at his check book first.
They will like the same sports and excell in this.
They will like to cook but very different tastes.
They both love dancing and being social yet the Leo will not always like going out they can at times prove to be
homebodies where the gem is not. Does that sound right. ------------------------
Capircorn Rising
Gemini Sun
Aries Moon
Mercury in Gemini
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 567
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posted March 15, 2010 05:20 PM
Thanks, Spool, but unfortunately this relationship ended today.The part about the Gemini being the one who is distracted by other social obligations is not true in this case. My views on dating and relationships in general is very untradional and my Gem friend has a very fixed idea of what he wants. He is delusional, he wants to be swept off his feet by someone and get married. And he believes in sex before marriage. But he went against his belief this weekend because, well, we had really awkward sex, and now he doesn't even want to be friends with me. I'm really annoyed because I knew that I was playing with fire the whole time we were together. He told me about his beliefs about sex before marriage and then he came onto me? This is why I think religion just furthers to confuse people. Especially people that have to much mutable in thier charts. It is just too bad that almost everything was there for a good relationship, but the differences about our approach to sex and marriage just ended it all. He told me he won't be looking for anyone anytime soon while I will probably find someone that I can have better sex with... IP: Logged |
SpooL
Knowflake Posts: 105
From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 15, 2010 08:54 PM
Its a shame it didn't work out, I kid you not on this forum there are dozens of stories of Gem' and Leo stories.It just didn't work out this time, Hope all the best to you. ------------------------
Capircorn Rising
Gemini Sun
Aries Moon
Mercury in Gemini
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