posted March 19, 2010 02:15 PM         

ask yourself, can i do this and still like and respect myself tomorrow, then you don't have to ask anyone one else right from wrong.

your decisions are just that, your decisions, so yes indeed, you can take advantage of any situation you want to. you have to live with your choices. we don't.

am i allowed to personally advance myself at the expense of others? of course. but you have to live with your choices. no one really cares if you screw everyone in hell and half of georgia. they don't. you look yourself in the mirror every morning, so you figure out right from wrong for yourself.

posted March 19, 2010 03:29 PM         

If there is a double agenda question like - "can I gang bang 3 women with my nephew?" then I agree with cpn.

Re your initial question - it depends a lot on the situation. Sometimes it's best to help when you are asked only. People don't always welcome intrusion into their lives. Alternatively you can ask the person if they need your help.. or let them know you are *there* in case they need help.

posted March 19, 2010 04:12 PM         

i mean, i know in my heart, i am called to be a giver. so i give. i know in my heart, i was not called to have an easy life as some, and i accept my part in that...and work hard and know that i have to do things the right way, even if joe shcmo does it wrong and comes out ahead in the short run...that doesnt matter to me.... i can't take short cuts and expect good results..... i know this for me. if you feel you are called to interact, then by all means interact as positivly as you can.
if you feel you have a purpose in being drawn into random peoples lives, then damn tootie you have a duty to conduct yourself with the highest of morals. that is IF you feel you have a reason to being drawn into peoples lives. do you think god or the universe would want you in certain peoples lives and situations to bring them harm or be used to your own selfish ends? come on, common sense tells you that is not the case. if you have a higher calling, you must, must take the responsibility that goes with it.

you already know this.

so once again, you have to look in the mirror at the end of the day. you know what to do. what seems the easy way, is not always the best way.

posted March 19, 2010 04:13 PM         

x o x o Ami

posted March 19, 2010 04:15 PM         

there are many times i see a shortcut to something i may want...but i know i have to do good and right. why? i don't know why, but i know it to be true.

your ex gf for instance, you said she would do anything you asked her to do, online. so if you said cut your arm, she would cut her arm. or is you said insert fruit into your...mouth...she would do that...i think when you have power over certain people like that it must be used wisely.

posted March 19, 2010 04:42 PM         

i don't really know.

some things are not really as they appear. inside that might be a hurt kitten type person that only knows love from hurt, becasue that is all she has been shown... and how would your spiritual side knowingly not help her heal versus hurting the kitten in her that is already hurt. we do have a responsibility to others, but it is an intersting question..now that i am fully grasping it.

posted March 19, 2010 05:00 PM         

Dogs run towards other people also..

Maybe the lack of earth in your chart - shows a predisposition to interpret mundane daily things as "odd" - or for you to be under the impression these things are only happening to you.

In my opinion, people only do what they already wanted to do. Even hypnosis only works if the person hypnotized allows it.

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There were three instances yesterday where people would just be in my path and start acting out strange dramas in front of me.

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Well this happens like 20 times per day.. in my day. I see people arguing on the train for example or in train stations (often).

There was a guy on the train just the other day walking around and screaming at random people.

I still think it may have something to do with the fact that you are not living in a large city. You would be very desensitized to things like this, if you were.

Just my opinion.

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I pulled off the side of the road and a woman came and knocked on my window and asked me If I needed me to meet her in the back.

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S - If I had sex with every guy who has ever bumped into me, honked his horn at me, asked me out, tried to touch me etc.. I mean... no one does that.
I don't *at all* see that as you neglecting your fate - for not going *there*.

If absolutely everything was fate and you'd have to try out every single option you are given in life - it would drive you insane.. It isn't even humanly possible.

What if my roommate came into my room now and asked me f I wanted a coffee?

Would that mean I was *meant* to have this particular coffee..??

Maybe I don't *feel* like coffee at all.. so maybe I will say "NO, Thanks".

And yes there is always a possibility that THIS particular time - was significant to my fate. There is a possibility I will choke on something and be dead within seconds.. and maybe that coffee (or a drink of water instead.. or anything) could've saved my life..

But there is NO way to KNOW that.

You have to make choices. We make choices daily.

Being offered a choice.. is NOT - equivalent to being told: "you must do this".

posted March 19, 2010 05:34 PM         

You also make very good points:

"Maybe the lack of earth in your chart - shows a predisposition to interpret mundane daily things as "odd" - or for you to be under the impression these things are only happening to you."

AND:

"I still think it may have something to do with the fact that you are not living in a large city. You would be very desensitized to things like this, if you were."

Seriously, yeah...I mean, living in San Francisco, I have had bums try to lick my hand on the subway. Should I even try to interpret this? I also see multitudes of 70 year-old drag queens who, for all their queening, never learned how to apply makeup. Am I maybe destined to enroll in cosmetics college so that I can do their makeup properly? Somehow I don't think they'd appreciate my 'help'