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fiona
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posted March 26, 2010 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiona     Edit/Delete Message
My partner's chart ruler is unaspected in synastry. Should i be concerned?

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amowls*
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posted March 26, 2010 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
I dont see why you should be. Clearly you are already in a relationship. Plus you have a lot of other binding factors such as asc conjunct mc.

My boyfriend's chart ruler is unaspected in our synastry.

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cherle
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posted March 26, 2010 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cherle     Edit/Delete Message
Do you mean Venus?

To be terribly honest, I WOULD be concerned if in synastry with one person's Venus is unaspected in general. From my experience, that indicates that person isn't getting the kind of emotional, and perhaps sexual, reciprocity he/she needs in the relationship. But you might want to also look at declinations and see if you have any tight parallels with his Venus before assuming it's completely unaspected.

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Lara
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posted March 26, 2010 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
hmmm
I'm on the fence with this one.

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fiona
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posted March 26, 2010 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiona     Edit/Delete Message
I'm concerned because someone did once said to me that it's not a good sign that his venus is unaspected. I don't doubt his feelings though, I just want to know what are the problems that usually arise from lack of venus aspects.

How do i see if we have tight parallels? By sign, my AC and his venus are both in cancer... will that make up for the lack of aspect?

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fiona
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posted March 26, 2010 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiona     Edit/Delete Message
I just looked at the PDF table on astro.com
Do you mean this?

His Venus in cancer:
Longitude: 16 degrees 48'0"
Latitude: 0 degrees 59'29" S
Declination: 21 degrees 24'28" N

My AC in cancer:
Declination: 21 degrees 8'29" N

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Lara
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posted March 26, 2010 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
I'd be more concerned about those two T-Squares

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fiona
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posted March 26, 2010 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiona     Edit/Delete Message
I'm used to squares myself since I have a grand cross in my chart.

edit: He has a t-square in his chart too

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DD
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posted March 26, 2010 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
His DESC-ruler is conjunct your Venus though! Neat.

The natural ruler of DESC is Venus, so his DESC ruler acts as some sort of "individual" Venus.

I would be only concerned if neither Venus nor DESC-ruler nor 5th house ruler were strongly aspected (and I have seen such synastry!).


Of course the T-squares will add to some tension, too.

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posted March 26, 2010 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
No, not really. If their Asc were Leo then you should.

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depth
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posted March 26, 2010 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for depth     Edit/Delete Message
i agree with cherle...

venus & moon in a guys' chart indicate what he finds attractive in a woman. so an unaspected venus is so not good.
but if u form enough aspects with his moon & deposit planets in his 7H,overall it's not that bad.

hve u checked his draco venus ?
my mom's merc opp dads' moon
& her mars kinkunx it.
but in draco,his moon conj her natal sun/merc
opposes her nMoon

i find draco synastry really useful.

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MyVirgoMask
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posted March 26, 2010 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
And if no one had told you about his un-aspected Venus in synastry, would you still be concerned? And now that you know, what are you going to do (besides worry about it, I mean lol)...are you going to stop enjoying your relationship ? Are you going to keep asking you partner if they're attracted to you, and then push them away when they don't react the way you like, until this becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy ?! I really hope not lol.

Look at the rulers of the angles and what they make. Venus by herself is nothing. She's a chart ruler, yeah, but you have 4 ANGLES in a chart.... WHY are you getting hung up on ONE?

PS - you guys have a fabulous synastry. Screw Venus.

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fiona
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posted March 27, 2010 03:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiona     Edit/Delete Message
To be honest, I didn't even notice the unaspected chart ruler until i posted our synastry on lindaland awhile ago and someone made a comment about it - something along the lines of because his venus is unaspected, he would eventually find that something is missing from our relationship. We haven't been together for that long (less than one year) but everything has been great so far. We're very emotionally in tune with each other and he says that he wants to marry me and start a family with me. With me he feels "safe" and "settled". I think this is due to our moons opposing each other. We make each other very happy and laugh alot together (mercury conj jupiter?).

Maybe i just need to stop listening to what other ppl say and trust my own feelings

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