posted April 04, 2010 12:55 AM         

And its extremely accurate. However, I would like to ask the knowflakes what is their interpretation of this placement. What are your experiences?

posted April 04, 2010 03:18 PM         

Please guys, put words to it. I am curious to know what I missed out on.

posted April 04, 2010 06:59 PM         

Ami

posted April 04, 2010 10:36 PM         

quote:

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When your relationship partner’s Venus is in your twelfth house, you will feel intrigued and fascinated by your partner, but at the same time insecure with your position.

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This is true for me.

He also felt intrigued by me.

posted April 05, 2010 05:18 AM         

Having someone's Venus & Mars in my 12th has been the most intense experience of my life..

the only one that compares is my longest relationship cos his sun was fell into 12th house and that was definitely a r/ship of 12th house issues, cos my 12th house is ruled by pisces..and our r/ship revolved around drugs and being together was our own undoing. He hasn't recovered mentally since.
Its been 4 yrs since we've split and its honestly like divorce. He's still being abusive and at the end of this week I'm going to court to get a restraining order against him..

Funny, our relationship still revolves around 12th house issues of loss of freedom, secret enemies, self undoing, institutions (of the legal and mental kind), i was diagnosed with Major Depression when we were together (haven't had an episode or relapse since ).
Even stranger, our r/ship and break up and the events after lead to my actual t/f, who's Venus & Mars falls in my 12th.

But that's in the past, thank God.
Now with this one's Venus & Mars falling in there, well it's been a different experience and intense in a completely different way. The coincidences between us are astounding and there's too many of them.
We're psychically linked, like Ami said about the unconscious being about your most deepest, primal feelings..with him i have never in my life felt emotions for someone that penetrate to the core.
I have lost him a couple of times and each time i did grieve like he had died, i have thought about him every single day since the day I met him.

I agree with Diana with the element of fascination and fear. The whole time its been a fear of each other, of getting attached, of facing our biggest fears about commitment and questioning ourselves and our belief system, cos our r/ship is just undefinable.

And there's also that element of the fear of losing that person, like Ami said. I can never replace this person, every time i've tried that substitute has just paled in comparison. If there has been a connection, it still not strong enough to fade his memory.

It also helps his moon is in my 1st house, his pluto in my 7th, his Saturn & Psyche in my 8th and what i think is the most interesting...

There's an asteroid that is the same first name as him, for fun (as i'm not into asteroids, really), i had a look to see where it falls in my chart, and it falls in my 4th house. Within a few months of meeting him he declared that we were gonna get married one day and have kids and he's the ONLY guy i have ever met that i wanted to have kids with.

posted April 05, 2010 05:50 AM         

Omg Ami, I didn't know your a mother but thank you for sharing that. I can imagine you would be one of the finest mothers around who would love their children mind, body and soul.
Having kids to the wrong person has always been a massive phobia for me (more than planes, heights & snakes, lol) cos i always said,
"I haven't met anyone I want to be reminded of everyday yet"..i think to the past if i did have a kid to my abusive ex and what life it would have with a piece of sh*t scumbag father like him (this is just my ex i'm talking about, he really is one of Satan's turds..i hope your babydaddy is nothing like him and I wasn't including him in my assessment of my ex xo)

But this one, yeah i do. I do think we were meant to bring some pretty awesome little people into this world. We both had f*cked up lives and just nothing but a normal, stable one and both know the only way to have that is with each other.

posted April 05, 2010 10:43 AM         

Therefore, in the 12th house this person is triggering your deep-rooted issues. Maybe they are making you face feelings that you've tried to forget, or didn't know you even had. It's like kissing Pluto on the lips. It's a jarring experience for the house person, whereas the planet person may not even be aware that he or she is causing the house person to feel this way.

posted April 05, 2010 05:40 PM         

Can you share your experiences a little with me please..

His Sun,Mercury and Mars,Juno, Ceres, and IC are in ALL my 12th

My ASc and Neptune are in his 12th...

OMG the emotions are EXTREME.... Sometimes. Im not even sure who I am, or how to even deal/handle the level of emotions I have. Im not sure if its because of 12th house are not though.