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LakiSG03 Knowflake Posts: 12 From: United States Registered: Sep 2009	posted April 06, 2010 02:52 AM What synastry aspects would cause two people to always want to touch each other? There's a guy that I like and every time we see each other he has to hug me, or hold my hand, etc. I've never experienced that much touching with other guys that weren't my boyfriend yet. We have Sun conjunct Moon double whammy, Venus square Mars double whammy, and Moon conjunct Mars double whammy....along with Composite Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus conjuncting Mars among other things. What aspects have you guys come across that would cause it? IP: Logged
la_sexorcisto Knowflake Posts: 74 From: wat Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 06, 2010 03:55 AM my current boyfriend and i are like this. if we arent in bed cuddling or having sex, we're holding hands, touching elbows, scratching each other's back, massaging random body parts such as hands, arms, calves, scalp..we have a "joke" between us that we need to be touching to keep ourselves awake during the long road trip drives we take together not sure what in our synastry or composite would cause this..here are the charts: composite.. synastry.. I imagine ASC, Mars, and Sun have to do with it..not sure why, just a hunch. Or maybe Moon-Mars...my bf and I share a lot of Moon-Mars contacts IP: Logged
staborgi Knowflake Posts: 115 From: Registered: Aug 2009	posted April 06, 2010 04:46 AM I think you might be right about Moon/Mars contacts...the Moon is supposed to be represent the body and Mars drive. I'd imagine Venus (earthly love) to Mars also has that affect. la sex..I'd imagine something similar for Mars in aspect to angles which you guys have. Maybe Eros (desire to unite) to Venus (earthly love) and angles too, even if the orbs are a bit wide? For both it seems like a combo of these things. Signs might be good to look at too...Leo and Taurus I think are pretty physically affectionate IP: Logged
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 1037 From: US Registered: Dec 2009	posted April 06, 2010 06:16 AM I want to ask you a question, Sexorcisio How does it feel to have such a packed second house--if you could say? Thanks so much! Ami PS I ask cuz I am a newbie and trying to learn--if it seems strange. IP: Logged
la_sexorcisto Knowflake Posts: 74 From: wat Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 06, 2010 01:21 PM I agree with the Taurus thing, too..since Taurus is the sign that is all about sensuality. Ami Ann - I'm not sure how the packed 2nd house affects me because I am NOT materialistic and money hungry...I am the exact opposite. I have been trying to understand what that packed 2nd house means to me for a while! IP: Logged
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 1034 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 06, 2010 06:01 PM 2nd house is also personal values with sun conj neptune there it could be you highly value your spiritual nature and since its in capricorn youd like to put down a form/foundation of what it is you aspire toward. make something material out of the spiritual/creative. the sun's house and aspects is where we go to get our energy reserves fueled ~ IP: Logged
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 1037 From: US Registered: Dec 2009	posted April 06, 2010 06:15 PM Dear Sexorcisto I read in a Liz Green book that the second house could include self esteem . as well as possessions. It represents grounding on the earth which includes grounding within oneself i.e. self love and self value. Does this resonate but hey--it would with me and I don't HAVE anything in the second house Ami IP: Logged
la_sexorcisto Knowflake Posts: 74 From: wat Registered: Apr 2009	posted April 07, 2010 12:48 AM ah yes, my self esteem and personal traits have always been the biggest source of security or insecurity... IP: Logged
LakiSG03 Knowflake Posts: 12 From: United States Registered: Sep 2009	posted April 09, 2010 04:05 AM Has anyone had the Venus sq Mars double whammy or the Moon conjunct Mars double whammy with somebody? What was it like? IP: Logged
slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 173 From: Registered: Nov 2009	posted April 09, 2010 04:21 AM Hi LakiSG03, All of the aspects you mentioned outside of the Composite aspects are attraction and affection aspects in Synastry Aspects. Here is my train of thought on how to best weight your own relationships objectively. The most important thing to focus on are your aspects. So for now, disregard your charts. The Synastry aspects are the fuel that make the relationship work, without them you have no relationship. List all of your aspects and then color code them. Make all Oppositions � light blue Make all Conjunctions and Trines � yellow Make all Sextiles � light green Make all Squares � red Color the minor aspects any color you like with one of the colors above or don't color them at all. Color these aspects � black S (90, 180) MR Sun (90, 180) Pluto Moon (90, 180) Mars Moon (90) Saturn Moon (180) Pluto MY (90) MR VE (90, 180) SA Mars (90, 180) Mars, Saturn, Uranus, Pluto and Asc. MR (180) NP The blue aspects are good around good aspects and bad around bad aspects. If you like, you can include certain Conjunctions as blue or red instead. Count up the colors and see what you get. Then the yellow and green should be added together; and the red and blacks should be added together, count the blues and keep separated. The thing about astrology is that you can not change the planet positions and their aspects to each other. What you get, is what you get. Aspect influences do not cancel each other out, they coexist simultaneously. So, astrologically speaking, before one begins worrying about the particulars, it is wise to see if the relationship is worth worrying about. If the green and yellow out number the red and black by twice as much or more, the relationship shows the potential to be a good one. The frosting on the cake (so to speak) would be favorable aspects to Moon, Mercury, Venus and or, Jupiter. Aspects To Live For: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/202766.html Slowpoke IP: Logged

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