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Topic: Cancer planets and the MOON
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belgz
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posted April 09, 2010 12:20 AM
 
Ok looking over several charts and my own it seems that cancer afflicted causes problems at the home or with the mother, this is also very true in the case where moon is on an angle in the chart.Often the case is the chart owner is very dependant on the mother but has not established a good relationship with her.
Has anyone else noticed any other cancerians or prominant moon placements to have this affect on people.
I have 3 planets in cancer and moon on an angle and I dont get along with my mother at all. I know a few others with moon on an angle that don't get along with their mothers too. IP: Logged |
Spanky Butler
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posted April 09, 2010 01:37 AM
I have Moon opposed Saturn 4th/Cancer.Saturn has moved from my 7th/Libra back into 6th/Virgo. I mention this due to mother dearest being a Virgo & she now wants to be friends on FB. Is there no place I can be without her? I never thought I'd say this but sometimes technology sucks. EDIT My only S/O & father of my only child is a Cancer. (Freaking pr1ck he is too) Grrrr IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted April 09, 2010 01:47 AM
LOL Your moon is on an angle right? On your MC?
I blocked and deleted my mum on facebook.
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Spanky Butler
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posted April 09, 2010 03:45 AM
My moon is conjunct MC though so I think that's in direct line as opposed to the angle that you speak of.
Good on you for putting up some boundaries. Peace & serenity won't be far behind. 
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Ami Ann
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posted April 09, 2010 05:47 AM
Spanky---LOL
I was just reading Liz Green .
She says if Pluto is in the 10th house,which I have, your mother will be an inextricable millstone around your neck.(Pluto is conjunct the MC, too, which I am not sure about )
It is a noose that hangs around my neck with an invisible cord 
To your topic, I have Cancer moon in the 8th house .
Belgz, I know HOW hard the mother issues are.
I know in my heart that other people have other issues which are as big but the mother ones just seem worse.
I don't know if they ARE. They just seems that way.
I know you get this!
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Unmoved
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posted April 09, 2010 05:52 AM
I'm a Cancer Moon conjunct my Midheaven. My mom and I are best of friends. Like friends, she annoys me a little at times, like when she asks me the same thing over and over, but She's my best friend. I love her more than life itself. She's the wind beneath my wings. Lol. I really can't think of a better human being than her.  ------------------
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Ami Ann
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posted April 09, 2010 07:00 AM
I cannot imagine what that would feel like, Unmoved.
I did have it with my grandmother so I can in that sense.
Do you have good self esteem cuz of the relationship with your mother?
x o x Ami
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Benedict Moon*
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posted April 09, 2010 01:34 PM
I have a Cancer Sun on the DSC, along with Cancer mercury, Juno, and Chiron in the 6th (first two opposite neptune, 2nd square saturn/uranus/mars).
I've generally had a normal relationship with my mother. Lots of love, but like with any other familial relationship we get on eachother's nerves sometimes. My father's a totally different story (and he's also a Cancer Sun).
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Cynnared
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posted April 10, 2010 12:44 AM
I have a Cancer Moon and my relationship with my mom is so-so. She used to spazz out too much on me growing up and well into my adulthood. I don't know how many times she has gone out of line on me and I have lost count of how many times I have told her to take a hike. She has a Moon In Aries right square to my Cancer moon and I have seen a lot of fireworks....(I have sun in Aries with a Tsquare to Mars and Uranus......)IP: Logged |
belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
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posted April 10, 2010 03:16 AM
Cynarred,
My mum has an aries moon too square my sun, mercury and mars.
We dont get along.. Or we could if she wasnt evil IP: Logged |
Spanky Butler
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posted April 10, 2010 04:31 AM
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We dont get along.. Or we could if she wasnt evil
Amen sister! Amen. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted April 10, 2010 07:01 AM
I am gonna check my mother's synastry with me and get back.
Her Pluto is all over me just as SHE is IP: Logged |
changchiu
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posted April 11, 2010 09:49 AM
Moon in Aries in 4 th house..
I think in 4 th house,moon real house.So I love my family and mom' house more and more..I am quite well and like friends with my mother..
But my aries moon-4 th house combination I always change my house because of job...This is relly depressing because I want stay a home for years..IP: Logged |
changchiu
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posted April 11, 2010 09:54 AM
Belgz 
My moon Aries also square you Cancer sun,but we are quite well
May be cancer-scorpio sun..IP: Logged |
belgz
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From: Sydney, Australia
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posted April 11, 2010 10:28 AM
I dont think its her aries moon. I actually think its her gemini sun right on my moon. I hate people and planets on top of me especially my gentle lovely moon :P IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted April 11, 2010 12:54 PM
My moon is the 1st conjunct the AC and my DC is Cancer. The only thing that saved my relationship with my mother was the birth of my daughter, and it is still strained greatly and mostly non-existent for the most part. My mother is also a Cancer which is square to my sun, venus/uranus in Libra and square my Cap moon and AC and since Cancer is on the 7th squaring (and opposing) those Cardinal signs, my mother is more of my "open enemy" and a constant challenge. I get no love from her. There's a possibility that she thinks she is loving me at times, but it just doesn't come through to me at all. Or maybe she just doesn't. It is hard to tell with her cold Virgo moon.
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belgz
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2010 01:29 PM
My mum is in my 7th as well. Well just her moon. Even that's too much!
I have seen lots of awful cancerian mums which surprises me because cancer is born to be a mum. But I guess we do get moody and sook.
I will hate myself if I dont establish a great relationship with my children. When I change my 5 month old cousin I love her so much but Im not patient so im not gentle with her. That worrys me because im always in a rush and in some hyped tempo but I spend hours kissing her and playing with her. Im not patient bathing her either or changing her diapers.. I know I wont be any more patient with my own kids then I am with her. Affection wise I never like to kiss anyone but my neice and my cat are an exception, my uncle and aunty tell me to stop annoying her but its like she has kiss me bubbles all over her.. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted April 12, 2010 09:38 AM
This might not be a popular response with the Cancer people but a thought I have considered when trying to figure out my mother is the way that Linda claims each sign represents an "age" of the soul. Cancer is like the tween girl... 12 years old and very loving and innocent and easily hurt by the world, yet also selfish in an innocent way. Little girls that age love to play with dolls and want so much to be a Mommy and are very good at pretending to be a Mommy but in the real world they are not equipped to shoulder the real life burdens of being a Mommy.
My mother did the dishes, worked hard and made meals, sewed clothes, (imagine a little girl bustling around her big plastic kitchen set) but she never took the time to teach me to do those things or teach me about people or relationships in the world. She knew that she was supposed to dress me up pretty and wheel me around in the baby carriage and feed me and keep her house clean (as all little girls with dolls know) but she did not see me as much more than a doll... so when I grew up and had things to say (dolls don't do that) she couldn't handle me. And because she never gave me any guidance, what I said bothered her greatly and created a chasm between us that she had no idea how to close and personally, I believe she had no desire to do the work to close that gap due to her own selfishness. Selfishness in an innocent and immature way... it was just too much for her soul "age" to handle and comprehend. She also has a Leo AC and Virgo moon so the Leo added some self-centeredness and the Virgo moon was cold to anything I was going through.
Her strong point was caring for me when I was sick. As a Cancer with Virgo moon she did all the right "Mom" things when I was sick and I often wanted to be sick so I could stay home with her and have her take care of me... because it was the only way I got to feel some of her "love", though it was always more of a duty to her than a labor of love. She did not stroke my head and say poor baby... but she did make me soup.
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Benedict Moon*
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posted April 12, 2010 03:43 PM
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I have seen lots of awful cancerian mums which surprises me because cancer is born to be a mum.
This is one of the reason's why I think the sign of Cancer needs to be hugely reavaluated. I personally have NO desire to take on motherhood without some conditions.
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Summersunshine
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posted April 12, 2010 04:20 PM
Hi, I'm happy about  planets. I love my mama & family. 4ever IP: Logged |
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