posted April 19, 2010 12:16 PM         

For some people, the 7th house may be in disharmonius aspect to their Sun sign and it's Ruler. This is my case. Pisces is on my 7th house cusp and so, it squares my Sun sign Gemini.

I've had experience with Pisces Sun exactly square my Sun and Mercury, and I've had experience with Pisces Moon sqaure my Sun and Mercury by sign. Neither was pretty.

So for romantic relationships, I DO NOT like Pisces planets anywhere near my Sun and Mercury within orb.

Now with that said, I will admit I'm attracted to Piscean women like no other. I don't know why though. They are very mysterious to me. I can recognize them almost all the time after a few words. But in relationships, they are no good for me unless other aspects balance the square out.

Ironically, my best friend of almost 20 years is a Pisces. No problems there.

posted April 19, 2010 12:29 PM         

Good points

aspects matter too

I have Pisces Descendant. My Moon is in Pisces too.

I am not crazy about Pisces Planets conjuncting my Moon because they aggravate my t-square. I have Moon square the opposition of retrograde Saturn and Jupiter-Neptune. If you add the big transneptunian objects. I have Moon square the opposition of Saturn-Varuna and Neptune. Moon square Varuna is only 10 minutes of arc. If a person's Pisces planet,angle conjunct my Moon less than half a degree, it will be squaring my Varuna. I don't think they would want a transneptunian object like that squaring their Pisces planet,angle. It can be way too intense for them.

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posted April 19, 2010 03:48 PM         

In the long run, relationships tend to be deceptive. The love relationship tends to evolve into a relationship full of disputes.

Sounds half right. Love at first sight and sudden encounters/attractions do influence me because I'm impulsive. I just act upon them.

I also have Neptune conjunct Venus, which is the same: deceptive loves.

It's kind of relative, but to be honest, I don't think it's an accurate description of a 7th house ruler in the 1st house. It doesn't feel right.

posted April 19, 2010 04:26 PM         

I have 10th house Gemini Sun cj. Mercury squaring my 7th house Pisces. I love it in synastry when a guy's Pisces' placement are conjunct my moon. It does tend to crate a lot of nervous energy at first but that's ok, generally speaking. My Sun and moon are part of t-sqaure with pluto, with my Sun as the apex, and my mercury is part of an air grand trine. So that nervous energy can be channeled.

My problem is if the attraction is unrequited. Then there's a problem because of all the Pisces moon energy that is being activation by the guy's Pisces contact, wants to express it self to that guy. And if he's not interested, it's like that energy just spills over and drowns me.

posted April 19, 2010 05:13 PM         

You pay attention to the details and your partner has to be neat. Your partner may have a weak health and you may encounter him or her in your working environment.

posted April 19, 2010 05:23 PM         

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Ruler of the 7th house in the 1st house
You may be under the influence of the partner. You tend to follow and submit to the other, the partner. The danger is to become totally dependant. Love at first sight and sudden encounters/attractions influence one's life. The partner brings you in motion and is the force that drives you.

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posted April 19, 2010 06:41 PM         

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You know, I know this is slightly off-topic but I think the 7th house and love issues is NOT all it's cracked up to be. Some say it's the end all be all house for love matters but I beg to differ (humbly).
For some people, the 7th house may be in disharmonius aspect to their Sun sign and it's Ruler. This is my case. Pisces is on my 7th house cusp and so, it squares my Sun sign Gemini.

I've had experience with Pisces Sun exactly square my Sun and Mercury, and I've had experience with Pisces Moon sqaure my Sun and Mercury by sign. Neither was pretty.

So for romantic relationships, I DO NOT like Pisces planets anywhere near my Sun and Mercury within orb.

Now with that said, I will admit I'm attracted to Piscean women like no other. I don't know why though. They are very mysterious to me. I can recognize them almost all the time after a few words. But in relationships, they are no good for me unless other aspects balance the square out.

Ironically, my best friend of almost 20 years is a Pisces. No problems there.

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posted April 19, 2010 07:20 PM         

but i wonder about that a lot. if they just used mars as the ruler becuase they didnt know about pluto yet or if it really is. and the discription then would be ruler of the 7th in the 6th too. i cant difrinciate that with my virgo moon and my sun, merc and mars in the 6th.

(dont mind the spelling, im horrible at it)

and from my observations.. the aries that i know 2 in particular that are twins with aries sun, moon, merc and venus are very competative, talk a lot at the million miles per hour, very satirical, and argue alot but they get over it and really open about a lot of things. now.. take another friend who is a scorpio with pluto conjunct her sun at a 0 degree orb and she only has scorpio/capricorn and one cancer. she depicts everything about scorpio/pluto to the tee. its crazy. so when i think of scorpio i definitaly think of pluto. whenever you have really strong aspects like that with pluto and then read about scorpio.. its completely magnified.

posted April 19, 2010 07:41 PM         

Ruler of the 7th house in the 10th house-
You need more mature partners and in case you are a woman, chances are there is a HUGE age difference with your partner. Also, your partner has to be a person of importance, someone who climbed the ladder and has a decent position you can look up to.
Status and prominence attract you.

Relationships have something conventional, traditional and may be rather "boring." You need a partner to bring order and structure to your chaotic mind or life.

He really didn't get what he bargained for, did he? I'm jobless, hardly classy or popular, and have no status. I actually don't even like social status and I'm pretty much socially inept. Thanks to my foot-in-mouth sagittarius mercury (which happens to be my 7th house ruler and is in 1st, conjunct my rising, by the way).

I can hardly bring structure and order to anything. I don't like structure and order. Well, my Capricorn mars does, but it's overrun by my pretty chaotic planets in sagittarius, with uranus leading the bunch.

Anyway, one thing is right though: I am more mature than him sometimes, and there is quite a big age difference between the two of us.

posted April 19, 2010 08:50 PM         

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My seventh house ruler is neptune ....I put people on a pedestal and worship them...it terrifies most guys but I doubt that's gonna change..my neptune is in the 4th house in capricorn.....im very much attracted to the capricorn type guy probably because my moon is in capricorn aswell....neptune blinds me in my love life, although it makes romance so magical!

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This is exactly like me. Neptune is my 7th house ruler, and it's in the 4th house (Thanks, Lonake ), in Sagittarius. And I have Moon in Sagittarius.

posted April 19, 2010 09:17 PM         

what about traditional ruler of Pisces, Jupiter
what house is that placed in.
Traditional 7th house ruler might give some insight too

Mine just repeats thoughs because both my traditional and modern 7th house ruler are in 3rd house, but Jupiter 3 degrees from being in the 4th house, and so I can also relate to Jupiter in 4th house.

I have Pisces Descendant like you.

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posted April 19, 2010 09:59 PM         

Also, I think these meanings can be altered if you have other planets in the 7th.

I think GG is also right as well about the 7th house.

posted April 20, 2010 12:09 AM         

saturn is very heavy in my chart since is conj to the sun by 4 degrees

true is tho with uranus in my 2nd i ended up supporting all my men most of the time.

posted April 20, 2010 12:15 AM         

I have Neptune in the 7th too (oh yay) as well as Mercury, both in Scorpio, I should add.

posted April 20, 2010 12:37 AM         

I also call Neptune in the 7th the Relationship Social Worker position.
So, compulsive workaholic relationship social worker...yay!!!!

posted April 20, 2010 01:21 AM         

Relationships should be stable and if no relationship is possible, stability is found in material gain and possessions.

Relationships tend to influence one's self-worth enormously. Relationships may develop slowly and with difficulty. It's not always the partner you're dreaming of that you will marry!

Often, the partner is involved in one's business (love relationships and business go hand in hand)."

Very mych of this is true in my case (my 7th house ruler Uranus is in the 2nd house).
HOWEVER, I find no consolation in material things whatsoever. I am so bored to hear about the material side always attached to the 2nd house - the 2nd house can also represent STRONG VALUES and PRINCIPLES, SELF WORTH. Maybe in my case also the planet itself (freedom loving Uranus) works against the material side of the house...

Anyway, my man is Aquarius.

~ Lana

posted April 20, 2010 09:24 PM         

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what about traditional ruler of Pisces, Jupiter
what house is that placed in.

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I have Jupiter in Leo in the 11th house...doesn't ring a bell.

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I was thinking about this moments after my last reply. Shouldn't the natural ruler on the 7th be taken into consideration?? But that would be Venus and she's been given much credit there already. Don't see how she can figure more strongly. My Venus is in Taurus in the 9th house, once more pointing to a Sagittarius influence.

I'm definitely drawn to people from a culture different from my native one. But I attract to myself either older types, or the illegally young.

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I have Pisces Descendant like you.

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posted April 20, 2010 09:24 PM         

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what about traditional ruler of Pisces, Jupiter
what house is that placed in.

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I have Jupiter in Leo in the 11th house...doesn't ring a bell.

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Traditional 7th house ruler might give some insight too

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I was thinking about this moments after my last reply. Shouldn't the natural ruler on the 7th be taken into consideration?? But that would be Venus and she's been given much credit there already. Don't see how she can figure more strongly. My Venus is in Taurus in the 9th house, once more pointing to a Sagittarius influence.

I'm definitely drawn to people from a culture different from my native one. But I attract to myself either older types, or the illegally young.

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I have Pisces Descendant like you.

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