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Randall
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posted April 21, 2010 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Okay, so I am insanely attracted to a Libra. She seems to fit Libra very well. As everyone knows, I'm a Capricorn. Just accounting for Sun Signs alone, what advice can anyone give?

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MyVirgoMask
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posted April 21, 2010 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I know a Cap and a Libra who just got married after being together for like ever.
What's the synastry, Randall? I mean, if you're ok with putting it up, please do, and I'll happily comment. I can't say too much about sun signs alone because you guys have squaring suns, but I never pay attention to that stuff.

Plus in a woman's chart the moon and Venus count for a lot, along with their aspects. Plus the 7th house rulers for both people matter a lot too. Angles as well and all that good stuff

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vapor-lash
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posted April 21, 2010 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message
I know a man (Capricorn) who was in a de facto relationship with a Libra lady for about a decade.

They had both been previously married and had kids. I think that due to their maturity and mutual respect-love, a lot of differences were overcome. They definitely seemed in tune and happy at times (not always). Every so often I would hear gossip of disagreements between them - but they stayed together for a long time so I doubt these disagreements were major.

However towards the end of the relationships things came crumbling down. It was not a "nice" break-up. I've never checked their transits but I'd imagine they were having a Uranian transit because the events were sudden. She wanted to travel around the world with him. It was very important to her. He has a phobia to flying and couldn't get passed this (also not very happy spending money on traveling). This caused major arguments in time. They broke up and she went traveling on her own.

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vapor-lash
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posted April 21, 2010 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message
Also - Randall.. I think the charts are important. If she has a Capricorn or Cancer Moon/AC, it could be a match made in heaven.

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amowls*
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posted April 21, 2010 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
Frankly, I refuse to just count Sun Signs lol. Might as well just ask "I really like a woman. I am a man, will we get a long?"

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MyVirgoMask
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posted April 21, 2010 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Vapor, that sounds a lot like my ex-husband and I with the travel lol.
He was a Capricorn too.

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Happy Dragon
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posted April 21, 2010 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Happy Dragon     Edit/Delete Message
*** Okay, so I am insanely attracted to a Libra. She seems to fit Libra very well. As everyone knows, I'm a Capricorn. Just accounting for Sun Signs alone, what advice can anyone give? ***

is his a "how to" query ??
as in .. how does a cappy sun male get libran female to swoon at his .. ( fill in blank )

or is it .. what to avoid once the mountain has been conquered ? .. the summit reached ?
or are you still up the creek sans paddle ?

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surely AG would have some input here .. astro wise .. or otherwise .. :-)

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put up charts 'n get to the nitty-gritty ..

isn't mars co-ruler of cappy 'n libra part martial aries ?

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vapor-lash
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posted April 21, 2010 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vapor-lash     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
once the mountain has been conquered ? .. the summit reached ?
or are you still up the creek sans paddle ?

LOL

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BearsArcher
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posted April 21, 2010 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BearsArcher     Edit/Delete Message
amowls,

I think Randall is asking for generic advise and information from people that have been in that situation. He does know a lot about charts and transits as he IS the owner of this site

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posted April 21, 2010 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
I know. But even conjecturing can lead to bad advice.

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MyVirgoMask
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posted April 21, 2010 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I agree, amowls.

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Lonake
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posted April 21, 2010 11:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
Just Sun signs, Randall?
They're cardinal, so they both want to be in control but in different ways. Libra is the iron fist in the velvet glove so in the beginning her strength may not show as much, his on the other hand is quite on the surface, and his vulnerabilities are easier to spot as the weight he carries on his shoulders. So she's a tougher lady than you might think.
There seems to be 2 types of Libran women, 1 is the very feminine charming archetype, the other is a fighter for women and for justice. It depends on which one she is?
I'm guessing she's the more girly model, if so then pay attention to what she deems as acceptable and proper, Capricorn and Libra have that in common, they don't want to offend. So you could play up both your natural Capricorn sense of 'doing what's right' in addition to the goat's secret sense of romance and sensuality and come out close to equal with her, which would be a v.good thing when dealing with a Libran.
But she'll definitely want to be impressed, so whatever you think will do that is a good start, she wants to flirt, and she likes the compliments, but being Capricorn you'll know how to be sincere with them, just make sure you don't keep too hush hush about her charms, and I don't think being a Capricorn you're in danger of going over the top


p.s.,
Linda Goodman's 'Love Signs' Capricorn man Libra woman chapter

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posted April 22, 2010 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BearsArcher     Edit/Delete Message
amowls-

I agree with you 100%

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Lonake
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posted April 22, 2010 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
Well, it's what the man wants!
Love you Randall
I'd be happy to take a look @ a synastry, fwiw.

I think it's so funny you're mingling with us commoners in 2.0, I thought, is that our Randall? I never see you post here

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MyVirgoMask
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posted April 22, 2010 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Randall, this feels like a tarot question more than an astro question to me.
If you need a reading, let me know.

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Geocosmic* Valentine
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posted April 22, 2010 03:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic* Valentine     Edit/Delete Message
Wow, Randall! Let me first say I wish you love.

In terms of the Suns of Capricorn and Libra being attracted, I like that fact that they both have Saturn in common, remembe that Saturn is exalted in Libra. And I actually hope that your Sun's do square each other. I believe it's better to have Ptolemaic contact with the lights even when it's stressful than to not have any contact at all.

No matter what this turns out to be, let me just say enjoy the moment. It's great to be insanely attracted and in the Spring no less. Woo HOO!!

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Ami Ann
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posted April 22, 2010 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message
Lonake
What a concise and practical analysis.
I can only hope to be that good someday!


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Ami Ann
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posted April 22, 2010 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message
Dear Randall
MY experience with Libras is that love for someone to recognize their special qualities.
They have a sweetness about them like a boy scout or girl scout , a wholesome quality.
My Libra friend(male) loves fair play, as Lonake and others said.
He has a sunny, airy disposition and likes things to be on an airy sunny level,often.
He comes in to my house singing "It's a wonderful day" lol
He has a good sense of humor about the zaniness of life.
That seems like it might be a Libra quality.
If they are your friend, they will climb mountains for you.
Once they consider you a friend, it is a bond not easily broken.
They admire good values and integrity in other people.
I think that they need to know that you have good values and integrity in order to bond with you.
He has a Virgo Venus and Cappy moon so it is hard to know what is Libra and what is Virgo and Cappy.
I saw him in a situation where someone took advantage of him.
He spent time thinking of the "rightness" of it and then got really strong and backed the person down.
He said,"You can never let someone disrespect you"
So, he has a wonderful mix of boy scout and strength.
That is my Libra friend.
Good luck ,Randall. I bet she feels the same about you--just a feeling!


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posted April 22, 2010 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeker3030     Edit/Delete Message
Well I'm a Libra woman with a Cap moon and Cancer rising so I generally attract and am attracted to Cap men. Re the square on sun signs alone, I've had relationships with men who trine and sextile my sun and yet the one's I'll always remember are those who've squared me - gotta have the fireworks! ;D

I think play to your strengths Randall - use your Saturnine practicality and dependability, and if you can, pepper it with old fashioned charm and romance. Us Librans generally have a huge penchant romance, moonlight and some carefully chosen beautifully spoken words. But even if that's not your particular forte, just being yourself will I'm certain, be the perfect approach Randall Good luck and let us know how it goes x

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posted April 22, 2010 11:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diablo     Edit/Delete Message
An old ex boyfriend was a Libra, can fall in love hard and fast then just withdraw all of a sudden.

He was definitely into his justice and rights. He's going to the Navy soon.

Libra's are fantastic with the partnership thing, they're great in the bedroom (but his Mars Scorpio probably had something to do with that) :P

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Randall
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posted April 23, 2010 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks! This has been a great help.

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Randall
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posted April 23, 2010 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
She is the second type--the fighter.

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