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posted April 26, 2010 11:04 PM         

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Cute guy who's totally into astrology and whose Pluto conjuncts my Venus. Rawr. The synastry is the best I've ever seen on a preliminary look. We just talked on the phone tonight and it was a GOOD conversation. What do you see?

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posted April 26, 2010 11:35 PM         

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moon in Pisces in the 12th square Neptune in Sag in the 8th... that can't be good, right?

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posted April 26, 2010 11:40 PM         

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Did you just meet this guy?
I wonder because Mercury is rx and tends not to be a good time for meeting new people, or starting anything.
I do like that he has Mercury natally rx, which gives him an advantage for forming something significant during a mer rx, but yours isnt. Do you happen to have mercury rx progressed?

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posted April 26, 2010 11:45 PM         

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We met about 3 weeks ago on an online dating site but have been hit and miss with communication after the first week and couple nice emails. We finally chatted a few minutes tonight and then he called me and we had a great conversation that would have lasted even longer if he didn't have to get up at 5 in the morning.

I will check my progressed chart. How long has Merc been rx?

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posted April 26, 2010 11:50 PM         

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My progressed Merc is at zero degrees Sag. I do not see an rx by it so it must not be retro when progressed. Retrograde Saturn is currently conjunct my natal Mercury though. (I have no idea what that means but thought I'd throw that in.)

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posted April 26, 2010 11:57 PM         

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MM. In the composite there is to much orb between the most. For me saturn must be strong to be longterm. The only connection is one trine from saturn to NN and saturn square chiron (break off). Sun conj venus is good but there is not so much more in the composite. I can't see any strong in this composite who give the relationship a special kind of love..

Do not look at the chart just go for it..

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posted April 27, 2010 12:05 AM         

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Awww Popcorn boo-hoo! What about the Moon trine Saturn (5 degrees is too much?) and Saturn in the 4th house? Fiddlestix!!! Thanks for your input, Popcorn. ♥

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posted April 27, 2010 12:08 AM         

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MM. I've the best synastry chart with 2 individual who I falling in love in my life but there not ever be anything more than just feelings between us and or from me or him or so,,,.

In my mirriage number 2 (15 year) we not have good synastry and composite but we was happy togheter in maybe 8 of 15 year...We have so strong saturn in both synastry and composite

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posted April 27, 2010 12:29 AM         

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Popcorn: what were your Saturn aspects in your 15 year marriage, if you don't mind sharing?

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posted April 27, 2010 12:58 AM         

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I think this may be exciting but short lived -- not because of lack of saturn (and the moon/sat counts imo) but because it's highly uranian.

The physical should be good.

I love the synastry, but I see more of a physical than a long lasting thing. I may be wrong though.

Imo, saturn contacts in synastry are totally overhyped. They don't necessarily indicate permanence. They often indicate delays, hindrances, and unrequited love, though.

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posted April 27, 2010 01:08 AM         

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here it comes!!! my 15 years mirriage composite. I see wrong. Me the younger woman and not the man in chart and he the older not woman

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posted April 27, 2010 01:12 AM         

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I can't say the composite are special good looking. Look at mars square pluto/NN!!!. Yes it was the only in our relatinship who works before we ended...
We have many good year togheter and the relationship was not easy to breake off...

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posted April 27, 2010 01:17 AM         

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Popcorn.

That's one intense composite. How was the relationship? Was it difficult, because it looks very difficult!

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posted April 27, 2010 01:31 AM         

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No it was not difficult. We really love each other and he was a kindly man. The sex and love always be there but the problem in our relationship was the surroundings. His familys talk bad about me to some of my family members. The familys don't like me and he not stood behind me like a man. I breake off from this people and he meet them and I have no ide about what he said to them because they never change their mind. They always talk bad about me.. That was the problem wich cause the relationship burned out and ended. I must leave....but it took many year to breake

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posted April 27, 2010 01:42 AM         

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well, I am glad (and surprised) because it looks very fraught with conflict!

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posted April 27, 2010 01:52 AM         

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I don't want to be without the experience togheter with my exhusband and we get our daughter. We had many good times togheter. So for me the chart not should be the choice when I meet someone.

Sometimes when I looking at a good match synastry it feels like I been love in a chart and not in the man...

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posted April 27, 2010 07:53 AM         

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Well, the composite isn't too good on further inspection, like Diana said... the Saturn square Uranus... and Venus Sextile Uranus... it will be interesting to see how those manifest and how I deal with them. The problem might be the Neptune square Sun, Moon and Mercury in the composite. We do have a chance at a very spiritual relationship due to both of our beliefs being compatible... but does the square mean it will always be delusion rather than the higher vibration of Neptune?

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posted April 27, 2010 11:56 AM         

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Hey, what's a Saturn conjunct Sun and Mercury in the Composite mean?

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon)
And yes, i'm a guy!

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posted April 27, 2010 12:07 PM         

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To be honest popcorn, I wouldn't even pay any attention to the synastry or composite at this point. It's too early and these charts have a way of clouding our judgement and making us "look" for certain aspects to play out totally forgetting that we all have autonomy. These charts don't always define us or our relationships perfectly.

If I were you I'd totally forget about the astrology of the relationship you are entering into and just enjoy each other. Then after half a year or more, come back and look at the astrology then.

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon)
And yes, i'm a guy!

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posted April 27, 2010 12:39 PM         

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I agree with Got Gemini, it's more preferable to take a look at the synastry/composite only after some time, coz unless we are really skilled, what we read through astrology might not always be accurate, that it can be misleading (and even the ones who are very skilled could be wrong too). It's better to follow your own intuition, and only after some time use astrology for a better understanding (but not the other way around).
There are just too many details and factors to read in the charts, while intuition is about reading all the real life details and sum them together unconsciously and fast.

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posted April 27, 2010 12:43 PM         

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Honestly, astrology goes out the window when I'm in a relationship. Yes, it's nice to have some aspect validation for the way you feel but what you do with the energy is totally up to you.

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posted April 27, 2010 01:40 PM         

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ok FINE, all you wise and wonderful people. Can't a girl get her obsess on about a new cute guy without having to be all rational and MATURE about it... sheesh.

Seriously though... my ex-husband and I had Venus/Uranus and a heavy Neptune aspect along with the Venus/Pluto thing and he was able to deceive me about some pretty serious stuff, abrupt changes that I wasn't able to escape easily etc. so I guess I hold that fear and it comes up when I sense any strong connections. I guess I'll have to deal with it if I want a relationship. I just want to be careful... but I guess I just have to face whatever my Soul has chosen for my learning experience. Who knows... I always get worked up about these guys and then it turns out to be nothing and we never become a couple. It is fun to think about it for a while though. ♥

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posted April 28, 2010 07:24 AM         

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Ohhhhhh... I talked to him on the phone again last night and we are having lunch today... be kind Uranus. ♥

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posted April 28, 2010 08:27 AM         

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I hope it goes well.

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posted April 28, 2010 08:46 AM         

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Can't a girl get her obsess on about a new cute guy without having to be all rational and MATURE about it... sheesh.

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lol I guess that my Pisces DC can somehow relate to this *cof* Just remember to still keep an eye open lol. XP

Ok then, if it's fine, I can take a look here, although I'm still not skilled at analyzing other people's relationships, so please keep in mind that I might not be accurate lol.

In your composite, you have Sun/Venus conjunction, plus Mercury being near. This relationship can be very affectionate, and communicative as well (Sun represents the chore of the relationship).
Also, the trine between Moon and Saturn are too wide, although this can still show that you have basic compatibility/affinity with each other. And with Uranus/Neptune midpoint opposing their midpoint, there's an idealistic feeling (you know, the combination of Neptune/Uranus feeling lol) between you.
But Neptune is square to Mercury. This can show an idealistic mental connection, but there's a danger that communication might be misleading or unclear, or even deception.
With Uranus, it sextiles Sun/Venus, which can make the relationship a bit exciting (while not too much and not make it unstable).
Saturn here seems to be squaring Mars and Uranus, but these are too wide to be considered. But with Saturn oppose to Mars/Uranus midpoint, problems with independence might be there, and it might be coming from him.
Moon is opposed to Sun/Jupiter mp, so there are some commitment feelings, but Pluto is tagged along, which might show some complex unconscious issues underneath? And Jupiter conjunct Pluto is very powerful. These together indicates powerful outside influences, which can be related to career ambitions, finances, background or other relationships (or you're socially powerful? powerful background? - I'm just guessing here lol). And they are near DC, so they can be more relevant in the relationship dynamics.
Lastly, Saturn square Chiron can show coldness in criticism.

*edited* Just noticed that the Sun also falls in Saturn/Jupiter and Saturn/Pluto mps. This can show further commitment feelings, but it might show some control and domination feeling, since it's Saturn/Pluto mp.

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