posted May 02, 2010 08:19 AM            

Ami

PS In synastry---his moon(his chart ruler) conjuncts this. What would that mean,also?

posted May 03, 2010 01:56 AM            

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PS In synastry---his moon(his chart ruler) conjuncts this. What would that mean,also?

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posted May 03, 2010 03:57 AM            

This is true for reading charts in general people read what works for them from learning the charts in different ways, and then the psychology behind that differs too. The end result is often incredibly similar, but from a-->b-->c, etc. that's where it's usually v.different.

I see a planet not receiving a major aspect from a major planet/luminary (incl pluto) within a certain orb as unaspected, so it stands out, therefore it gains strength. So I read your comment on your personal Venus and was wondering why it might act as such in your life, so your interp on unaspected planets is prob diff than mine based on your experience. Though it is a relatively rare chart factor so there are actually a lot of charts to comb through to try to see what it may mean based on their experiences, etc.

But to answer your question some see it as a person having difficulty connecting in with the unaspected energy, others may see it as a focal pt in the chart because nothing is directing its energy in a potentially positive or potentially adverse manner, so it has a free rein on the chart to dive into things etc.

Personally I see them as strong focal points, a need to "find a home" for that energy, to find a place in their life where it can be expressed unbridled and eventually integrated more cohesively into the rest of the personality. I think they may not always be happy what they made of the unaspected planet in the end, but the driving force is to put that energy somewhere and make use of it, and i see it as a point of talent, like the unaspected sun would likely have a latent star quality but even if realized the person may sort of want to cower away from the fame but would nevertheless feel compelled again and again to put their solar energies out there in full force. It seems to me that the energy spirals around them even in childhood and the will is to try to find a place for themselves in that neverending motion. I haven't stated this as articulately as I could have, this is based off researching others charts, unfortunately I don't have an unaspected planet for any injection of first hand experience. Maybe if you want to share how you think it's impacted you with what you know of astrology? Only if, since I know Venus for a woman is a really personal planet, etc.

posted May 03, 2010 08:01 AM            

I have felt numb since I was 14. I had too much trauma and went in to shock.
I did not realize what it was until recently.
I don't know WHAT is my Venus and what is being numb.
I feel like I can detach from emotions and look at a situation in a detached way.
It is like feeling above the situation like you see when someone has had a car accident and is out of their body looking from above.
I thought that I was a sociopath or something bad cuz my M was a therapist and always diagnosing me with things --bleh--lol.
So, I had this part that could "go aloof"
When I learned about unaspected Venus, I thought maybe that is the explanation.
I read with a Scorp Ascendent, the grandmother will often replace the mother and mine did.
HER chart cradles my Venus in love(i.e many positive aspects).
I loved her so much.

This is what I feel might be the unaspected Venus.
I have NEVER cried over a man except my current with the aspects I mentioned.
Of my 7 b/f's in my life---I really was not attached.
I did not know it cuz it was "normal" to me.
This one has his Pluto in exact trine ti my Venus and my Pluto conjunct his moon, as I said.
I am very attached from the heart and not aloof at all.
It feels like my Grandmother in the extent of my heart's attachment.
When my grandmother died, I wailed like an animal. I still cry whenever I talk about her.
I think that the unaspected Venus can stay dormant without love. That is my theory and I could be wrong.
I had to detach from my mother cuz she was abusive. I think the Venus helped me to do that.
I see it as being able to go in to a cocoon or hibernation when needed.
Perhaps, that theory is all wrong.
If I lost the one I love, I would throw myself in to creative things.
Sappho is in exact conjunction with my Venus.
Music, reading etc can substitute for love if there is none.
Thank you for asking me ,Lonake.
I would appreciate your POV.

posted May 03, 2010 05:57 PM            

Do you have h4 in aquarius? With scorp rising? I'd pay attn to what Uranus is doing in your chart. the detachment like you speak is commonly Aqua/Uranus. the depth of the loss would be more pluto/scorpio if it's something that shakes you to your core.

posted May 03, 2010 06:19 PM            

I will try to post it if I can get out of the primate stage on the computer

posted May 03, 2010 07:08 PM            

I call unaspected planets our Wizard of Oz planets. With an unaspected Venus, much effort is put into analyzing love, affection, and social life. There is a constant quest, only to find out at the end that you were loved all along. If your Venus placement allowed you to view an abusive situation with a detached analysis then that was a gift. Many people with unaspected Venuses can look at emotionally charged situations analytically, which makes them doubt that they are loved or that they love others. Since this is a high focus for them, it can make them feel like they are missing something very important. Sometimes they can have an "a-ha" moment that lets them know that they were loved/what they felt was love. I have a close friend with an unaspected Venus and she has always questioned love. Realizing that her hubby buying her favorite brand of coffee for the house(his fave was a different brand but she'd never considered it) was a way he showed love = clicking the ruby slippers.

posted May 03, 2010 08:23 PM            

I hope this works. I am very sorry,Lonake and Musette, it is a link.

posted May 03, 2010 08:30 PM            

Ami

posted May 04, 2010 09:28 AM            

Here is your chart!

posted May 05, 2010 01:29 PM            

Ami