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jacque
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posted May 04, 2010 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jacque     Edit/Delete Message
what do you need to do to find your true soulmate or twin flame in this incarnation?

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DD
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posted May 04, 2010 04:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Stop looking.


(I am actually serious)

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Lara
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posted May 04, 2010 05:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, she's very serious.

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jacque
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posted May 04, 2010 05:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jacque     Edit/Delete Message
why?

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Ami Ann
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posted May 04, 2010 05:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message

My biggest mistakes--- and I do mean big-- have come from pursuing my own way with intention to make something happen.
Getting out of this type of a hole is hard ,too.
I agree with DD,100%, although it seems hard and silly when you really want something.
You think you must pursue or you will never get it.
I don't think I would pursue again. If something was not moving toward me,I would not reach to bring it in.
If it were moving away, I would let it go.
You can force what should not be .
However, when you get it it is not good.
I know you just lost a deep love. You will have a lot of grief.
I let grief heal me cuz it does.
My heart goes out to you,now.
I pray God will bring you the exact right person cuz love is the potting soil for humans lol.


Ami



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DiandraReborn25
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posted May 04, 2010 07:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiandraReborn25     Edit/Delete Message
it is true what DD said.

it is when you let go of the search that the things will come.

cause you will be showing the Universe that you have faith,and that at the same time,youŽre working on yourself firts.youŽre learning to love yourself,and be confortable just being so,without any other person beside you.

it will be then,that the SOULMATE appears.

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posted May 04, 2010 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comica23     Edit/Delete Message
This is cliche, but - it's by loving yourself that you can find real love.

We have dreams/expectations of what love could be, but we often forget that a relationship is about two separate individuals being together and sharing their lives with each other.

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Seeing Stars 7.21
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posted May 04, 2010 07:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Seeing Stars 7.21     Edit/Delete Message
i agree with this. it is a hard thing for some to do though. because so long as you are thinking about it, it still is occupying your mind and therefore will elude you. you have to let go of it mentally and try to forget.

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jacque
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posted May 04, 2010 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jacque     Edit/Delete Message
AmiAnn: I don't want him back as anything but a friend. He was a good friend, and I dont want to lose that friendship. If I were to have a love relationship with him, it would ruin me completely, I don't want that. For a love relationship, I deserve better.

thanks for the replies everyone.

my question was in reference to: what I could do to attract the right soulmate for me in this incarnation like affirmations, meditations etc? because on a previous thread Coffee had said looking at my chart it didn't seem likely that I would find my soulmate in this lifetime .. & that's just not fair to me. So what do I do?

A few things you'll have mentioned are good: I have to focus on taking care of myself and loving myself.

what else do I have to do?

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MysticMelody
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posted May 04, 2010 09:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message
Ami Ann, I like so much to read your words. Always soothing and good.

Jacque, all we can ever do is try to commune with and listen to our Highest Self to discover our Soul Mission. It seems to reason that any "Twin Soul" or fellow soul who is meant to share our entire life would be on a similar path (if they were on another distant path then obviously it would be hard/impossible to hold hands and walk together) so to make sure we run across this soul we would have to make sure we kept to our correct path. I think for most people it takes time to get a feeling of this path. It sometimes is discovered once and then it is easy for it to get obscured by other paths crossing it etc. That's why it is sometimes a blessing to be alone on your path with no one crossing it. It makes it easier to get to know your path so that when things pick up again and you cross more busy intersections you can still pick out your own path and follow it in the right direction. Anyway, the more you stay on track and stay on your path the easier it will be to discover the paths that run close to you. Some will have been there for years, maybe decades, loosely connected to your own. Some may have recently coalesced with your path. To figure out if a certain path will remain next to yours or diverge off at some point, takes getting to know the person... and their path.

Meditate that you will follow/continue to follow your truest path. Ask for guidance daily as much as possible.

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Got Gemini?
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posted May 04, 2010 09:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
Hey guys, let me ask you something. First, let me preface it by saying that I agree, we shouldn't search for it.

However, I want to ask you all. Have any of you, or anyone you know personally ever found what they consider to be their soulmate or twinflame using this method?

I personally don't know of anyone who has. I read about it and see it in movies all along but I never seen it myself.

Now, with that said, i'm just playing devils advocate when I say that. I think I met my soulmate when I was 8 years old. She and I are not together and never have been, however, the feelings are mutual even till this day 22 years later.

I do subscribe to the whole don't think about thing. I just am not sure it works. The law of attraction says what we think about we bring about.

Sometimes I wonder if it's just a saying that has No merit that has survived through the ages.

I do agree that there is the possibility of projection of the soulmate ideal on each good partner we enter into a relationship with if we aren't careful. But if we set off on the journey to find/attract that "soulmate" (I put it in quotes cuz everyone has their own definition of what a soulmate is) partner, I think we each need to know at least some basics we look for in a partner. Like for instance, if you like peace and quiet and you find someone who likes to live life "loudly" and always has something "noisy" going on, then that person may not be a potential "soulmate" for you.

Or if you love the nightlife and going out all the time, then you know a homebody type may not be a good match for you. The point is, I think we must know some of the things we want in a partner and not just leave it all up to chance. And the only way we do that is if we give it some thought.

I dunno, I'm just 1 person with a humble opinion.

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Ami Ann
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posted May 04, 2010 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you (((Mystic Melody))
I don't think soul mates exist in the sense that it is too perfect a concept.
I think it will fail cuz it is too unrealistic to put on a relationship.
I think Comica had it right about being whole in yourself as much as you can be(which is so hard it is not even funny lol) and then walking next to another person.
This is the first time in my life I realize this--in my heart.
I hope I can attain some of it.
I don't know but with God all things are possible lol.

x o x Ami

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DD
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posted May 04, 2010 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Jacque,

I didn`t know you are going through a separation. I am sorry for you. (Even though sometimes a separation is necessary).

But I am in agreement with much that had been said here.
And I want to emphasise something Comica said; only if you love yourself, love will come to you.

Well, love has many faces, I know...

I have been one being almost obsessed with the idea of twinflames and soulmates for many years. It can become a mental fixation. And fixation is exactly what blocks the "natural flow", and now I believe it is this flow, that natural attraction between soulmates of any kind that attracts them to each other.

On top of that, I am thinking that it doesn`t matter what names or labels we are giving certain people in our lives.
It`s the feeling, the love that matters. And it is the NOW.

I also think we are complete each on our own. We don`t need anyone to complete us.
If we have that feeling, we might slide into a symbiotic addictive relationship (not healthy).
I rather like the feeling that each of us is complete and that we just love to share ourselves.


BTW I think Coffee is an idiot, saying something like this.
Or maybe just insensitive and inaccurate. You can`t see in a chart if you will meet your soulmate or not (well we all meet soulmates along the way, and sometimes we may not even recognize we do; life can be ironic sometimes).


Anyway as I said:
be open, be loving, enjoy your life, be what you want to attract

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DiandraReborn25
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posted May 04, 2010 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiandraReborn25     Edit/Delete Message
OMG

Someone said that to you?

that cant be seen in chart---if someone is going to find a sm or not...cause we always have them in our life,not always in romantic relationships and nevertheless,we all have some of our soul family members here with us,sharing our life with,wether friends,brothers,siblings,etc...!

about what you said....i can say that i met my dear JOhn when i wasnt looking for,it was a complete surprise and some call it syncrhonicity.
i must say that i was in a place wehre i learned to love myself,i was finding my "way home" sort to speak.

we were in similar paths,to both it was a shock,but a good one to been able to find each other.

so yes,,it works that way.often SM appear after dark periods on our life,from where we learnt the important things in life,and learned,like Comica said,to love ourselves firts and foremost.

the act of "searching" says to the Universe that you didnt find that yet...so you+re sending the message that you need it.you are eager to find it,so youŽll attract that need over and over.
it is when you stop,when you realize that you dont NEED IT to be happy with yourself,that you will attract the person.cause youŽll be then,someone who loves yourself,spreading love around,consequetnly.youŽll be then sending the message that youŽre happy,loved,positive.so that is why youll attract the SM.

that is how it goes,from my own experience.

about meditation i think IQ put one of VenusDEINDIa in one of the other forums..

the book game of life by Florece Scovell is another great reading for you to do - it is free ebook in the internet.jusg google it.

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posted May 04, 2010 10:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah Ami Ann, I agree with DD. You cannot see in your chart if a person is or isn't gonna find a soulmate in this lifetime.

Just pick up the pieces and heal your heart. You WILL find happiness in this lifetime. :-)

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posted May 04, 2010 10:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
GG
interesting question and from personal experience I think we can meet our soulmates anywhere but when it comes to meeting our twin flame the cirumstances are highly unusual and the way you meet is through a medium that is out of the ordinary for the individuals. I believe it's an out of the blue impulse that guides you to them, all orchestrated by the Universe.

I also believe that once you meet, you instantly recognize and want to be with that person. You have almost parrallel lives to date, have crossed paths many times before without meeting and that it is a love without any negativity or doubt right from the start.

I now also believe that if you think you have found your twin flame that person might be the person who precedes your twin flame. In other words, this person is a precursor to the twin flame

peace x

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Lara
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posted May 04, 2010 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
wow DD, it's really wonderful to hear your words and see you evolve into this very positive and beautiful mindset.

I'm so happy that you have reached this space of 'now' where self love allows you to exist in the 'now' with just breathe of energy.

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posted May 04, 2010 11:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message
imho


I believe that a person meets their twin flame when he/she no longer identifies with form whether nationality,race,ethnicity,sex,sexuality,religion,culture,ideology,politics. I believe that the soul goes beyond that. If a person truly believes in twin flames,then I believe that he/she wouldn't care about any type of labels that are based on society. It would all be about just being.


I think a lot of people that are into this stuff are heterosexuals that want a lifelong relationship with a person of the other sex.
I also believe that there is still some identification with form too.


This is all just my opinion.


I know that I am not going to attract a twin flame in this lifetime because I still identify with form. I think that with my background, it's hard not to. I think that's with many other types of people that include certain minorities (race,ethnic,sexuality,neurological,etc). A majority of people identify with form in some way.


Of course, the twin flame might not even be a valid concept.


I just want to find a woman to be my wife and mother of my children. I want her to be somebody that I can spend the rest of my life with. I want what a lot of people want. I was born to a short term couple,and my mother was born to a short term couple. I know that some couples come together temporarily for a purpose,and they split up. That's seem the norm with my relatives too. The impermanence of life.

I truly believe that detachment that includes no fear of loss is a requirement to have a twin flame.


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DD
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posted May 04, 2010 11:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Lara,

actually I have "regressed" to that state.
A "friend" asked me when I was really happy and asked me to recall exactly how "happiness" felt to me, and he also asked me what was keeping me from having it.
It sounded so simple, and it actually was.
It`s my natural state of being, BEFORE the thinking comes in.

My mum also recalled that as a kid, I was maybe 3 years old, I once said to her: "Mama, life is so beautiful."
And I remembered that. Not that I said it, but how it felt.

So in a way, I didn`t evolve, but regressed (but to a good point I think).

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posted May 04, 2010 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
Life is a circle. There is no regression so maybe you simply evolved into a simpler state of feeling over thinking. I believe we have talked about this in some depth on emails?

Going from simple to complex and back to simple is still evolving because it's impossible to be the same person you were when you were happy before - you don't even have a single cell in your body that is the same as it was a year ago!!

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DD
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posted May 04, 2010 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
You know what, Raymond?

I think that was a very deep thing to say, and I believe it is absolutely true.
Love, especially soullove, doesn`t need categories. It`s above all that.

Which makes it difficult for we are part in the material world, too.

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posted May 04, 2010 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Glaucus     Edit/Delete Message

Thanks DD,

I re-edited my post. I added more stuff.

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Lara
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posted May 04, 2010 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lara     Edit/Delete Message
True Love doesn't live in the material world. Actually, the material world doesn't even exist if you live from the heart.

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Ami Ann
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posted May 04, 2010 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message
((((Raymond))))
Thank you for those words!


x o x Ami

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DD
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posted May 04, 2010 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, Lara, that was why I put the word "regressed" into quotation marks.

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