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Topic: Why do people think we're a weird couple?
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la_sexorcisto Knowflake Posts: 112 From: wat Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2010 02:58 AM
My boyfriend and I always get questions like "YOU'RE dating HIM/HER?!" People at school and work (we both work at the school and it's a very small school) always give us crap about dating each other..my guy thinks it's because we seem too offensive and weird to be romantic. I don't know why people think it's weird..we have common interests, we both have blunt and sometimes vulgar or over the top ways of talking and joking, we both like "weird" music. Why why why? What is going on here? Behind closed doors we are the most amazing pair..we communicate so well, we have deep and interesting conversations, we have sex, we go places together, we have fun, we argue over stupid things but it's stimulating and we both admit it. We CLICK so well..it's an amazing feeling. So wht do others see that we aren't?? Here is our composite: We have the same Venus and Moon signs..both water ASC and both have strong 4th houses. In synastry, we have both easy and stressful aspects. Hmm.. IP: Logged |
belgz Knowflake Posts: 1420 From: Sydney, Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2010 04:19 AM
Here is your answer... On this thread you quoted... ( http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203105-4.html ) quote: Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Pisces (female) Turn Ons: -Sense of humor, funny as hell -Charm & wit -Intelligence and common sense -Confidence and ability to stand up for oneself -Adventurousness -Weirdness..not like anyone else -Sexual and sexy (not shy about it) -Something "damaged" or 'dark' about the guy..
as your description of your "type of guy" and then later I commented asking if you had venus/uranus aspects since you mentioned your liking for weird people and then you wrote back saying.. quote: my venus does not aspect uranus but i have lots of other planets aspecting uranus, particularly mars. i am a weirdo so that is who i tend to attract..and i like them better anyway
So you already answered your own question IP: Logged |
Writesomething Knowflake Posts: 1193 From: meet me in montauk Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2010 04:23 AM
Mars is conj Neptune and Uranus, possibly giving you guys a "complicated", maybe even strange image as a couple. Ruler of ASC, is Scorpio, in 4th, there is a secretiveness to the way you interact, that might confuse people. I think you are attracting jealously from others by the closeness and intensity you guys radiate. MC(how others view you) is in Gemini, there is a changeability here too...Gemini symbolizes the twins .they might feel confused by your interaction. the main things i think it is mars in cap, conj neptune...and uranus..and the fact most people are intrigued by a "powerful" couple....i think you guys come off that way even if you arent separately.IP: Logged |
Seeing Stars 7.21 Knowflake Posts: 121 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 05, 2010 04:48 AM
i think the most simple answer besides astrological is these people prolly see something they envy. they dont have such a person to be in union with so they naturally hate on someone elses relationship.IP: Logged |
vapor-lash Knowflake Posts: 1715 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 05, 2010 05:25 AM
I think they're just nosy.If you said you were with another guy -- you would get the same reaction. But then - think about it this way... Think of two people you know.. who do not even know each other -- as far as you're aware... or alternatively -- they seem to know each other as friends-acquaintances. If one of them told you "hey - X is my gf or bf.." you would probably be surprised. IP: Logged |
enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 117 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 05, 2010 08:16 PM
Honestly, though you have similar personalities, there is probably something on the surface level that makes the two of you seem very very different. The two of you may not see it because you know each other so well, but people who don't know you both as well may not see it. IP: Logged |