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Topic: world's worst boss?
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cappy1277 Knowflake Posts: 144 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 07, 2010 07:57 PM
i started a new job two months and it has been a living hell ever since. my boss treats me terribly to the point where she has violated company policy and i had to report her to corporate human resources. my claims are under investigation at this time but for some reason, my boss has made it her mission in life to make it impossible to work, sabotaging my work purposely and isolating me from my team and not allowing them to help me at all. she upholds me to different standards than the rest of the team and makes me work more than the rest of the team for way less pay. she makes it a point to tell me on a daily basis that she does not like me and wants me to resign because she has no reason to fire me. so my question is, why doesn't she like me? i think that i must be a direct reflection of her and what she wishes she could achieve. i hate conflict but she loves it and stirs it up all day. she creates so much tension for everyone but i am the only one that has the guts to file this complaint. i will post our synastry chart, please any of your opinions would be appreciated. knowledge of astrology has given me the ability to counterattack and protect myself. IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 414 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted May 07, 2010 10:35 PM
I can't comment on the chart but it sounds like to me you need a recorder to record her being that way to you! That is harrassment big time which is against the law!! I was in a management position and I didn't like every single one of my employees but I would never speak that way to another person! Good luck and don't let negative people ruin your happiness!! IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 1787 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 07, 2010 11:47 PM
Which one are you?IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Knowflake Posts: 144 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 08, 2010 10:48 AM
i wish i could but i investigated it and taping her would be illegal and unadmissable since i work for a big journalism company. something about insider trading, etc. nonetheless, she has done this in front of other people and my complaint has already been made. i just want to counterattack at this point astrologically. i am in the inside, she is on the outside. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Knowflake Posts: 144 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 07:12 PM
i find it so incredulous that this woman is still up to her antics in trying to create a hostile environment knowing that i have made a complaint and an investigation is underway. she has now talked to all my co-workers privately about what was done and confiding in them details about the complaint even though i was told to talk to no one about it nor have i haven't talked to anyone about it.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 2994 From: acousticgod@sbcglobal.net Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 07:22 PM
Bad Gemini's can be pretty verbally bitchy. You're just going to have to wait it out, and be the better person. The reasons she may not like you: - You're slow, - You're careful, - You don't take shortcuts, - You don't broadcast everything you're thinking IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Knowflake Posts: 144 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 07:29 PM
i am cautious never slow....lol. i am known to have a "poker face", i am not easy to ready and i definitely don't wear my heart on my sleeve. i am being the better person, on the outside i say nothing and just nod, etc but on the inside i want to drop kick her. i hate to think that people have the capability to be jealous of other people, but i think that might be the case unfortunately.
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 2412 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 08:39 PM
UGH, I HATE sun/moon conjunctions. Her sun conjunct your Moon closely, no? Methinks she not only sees herself as your boss but also your keeper lol. Like she owns you.Toss in your Lilith right on her 7th house cusp and it's like you drive her bananas. She's extra paranoid around you. Don't try to be friends with her. Just don't. She's a ***** on wheels by the looks of it. And her stupid Neptune looks like it's afflicting your ascendant. You don't trust her and I don't blame you. She seems like a liar too. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Knowflake Posts: 144 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 09:31 PM
Never has she or ever will be my friend. She is my boss and i keep it strictly professional. I wouldn't trust her as far as i could throw her. I sensed something in her very negative. Like she is the devil herself.
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crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 234 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 09:38 PM
Cappy1277, how'd you find out your boss' time of birth? Or is that your best guess? Just curious.I think it's awful what you're going through there. Talk about hostile work environment. May I ask what field you're in? IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 1467 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 09:41 PM
Ahahahahaha! The devil herself! Seriously though - I've worked with some horrible Gemini women before. It's my least favorite Sun sign to work with. There is always some little detail that they've missed and they can only communicate the problem in shorthand talk. In my line of work that spells DISASTER.IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Knowflake Posts: 144 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 11, 2010 06:15 AM
she told one of co-workers who is into astrology as well CP. i work in sales and marketing for an educational institution who is owned by one of the largest newspapers in US. i wouldn't even call her an effective boss because all she knows is how to delegate and argue. no sense of business direction whatsoever and no help to our team. she is a very negative person and likes to gossip and keep feuds going on in the office. she likes to play people against each other but our team is full of cardinal (all but one) and funny enough we all have gemini moons except one who has a sagittarius moon. (we have a b-day list)
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crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 234 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 11, 2010 06:48 AM
Well, I'm just a newbie wannabe astrologer, so I won't comment based on the synastry, but her own chart looks like she's got some aspects which could make her a difficult person in general if she's not mature enough to recognize her tendencies. But here's my two cents: (a) despite the rough economy, sometimes it's not worth being in an abusive work situation because the fact that it makes you so emotionally sick outweighs the steady money coming in, and (b) since she's ignoring the warning not to talk to other people about it, and it probably can't get much worse than it is already, have you tried to sit her down behind closed doors and just plain ask her what it is about you that she's bothered by? That might actually shame her into better behavior. I dunno. Maybe not. My gut feeling is she's jealous of your groundedness and ability to stick to a job to completion.But seriously, and I know this is easier said than done b/c we all need a roof over our head... I would consider walking away from that job, because I think what she'll do over time is continue to needle you until you inevitably explode, and then she'll have grounds to fire you for insubordination or some such nonsense. Oy, I feel for you, Cappy1277. IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Knowflake Posts: 144 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted May 11, 2010 06:59 AM
point well taken crabby patty but unfortunately its not something that i have the ability to walk away from. it leaves me in a precarious situation as i am a single mom and would have no other income to fall back on and it took me over 6 months to find this job. right now it is being investigated by corporate office who know that my intention is to retain a lawyer and that want to avoid that. i have spoken to her about her behavior and tried to give her the benefit of doubt but she has been relentless. she left me no other choice but to file a complaint with corporate office and pursue an investigation. plus if i was to leave due to the stress,it would be called constructive dismissal,meaning that she created such hostile work environment for me that i felt no other choice but to quit which in turn be a lawsuit against the company being that i followed protocol. IP: Logged |