posted May 09, 2010 12:44 AM         

let's try this one out for size. we have a tendency to look at every possible chart, but i think that a lot can be gleaned from just one chart. so let's try with this one. if no one gets anything i may post synastry.

posted May 09, 2010 07:10 PM         

if not romantic, there could be some power issues and fight (-), or cooperation and achievement (+)

did they meet at work, or find a way together through "work" or another project?

posted May 09, 2010 11:27 PM         

aspects

posted May 10, 2010 07:34 AM         

GOSH...why do you say that by looking at the charts?

posted May 10, 2010 07:52 AM         

Venus/Mercury/Uranus conjunction - an intense electrical emotional/mental attraction, a strong mental/intellectual connection. Love at first sight? Or they get along really nice.

posted May 11, 2010 09:35 PM         

i guess i can give up the details now.

this relationship was a "gift" of a pluto transit. there is so much scorpio energy between these two people its crazy.

oh, and i and the woman.

most of you were right on:

quote:

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dinobleue-
"I think there may have been an instant attraction and a lot of chemistry that was great in the beginning..."

MysticMelody-
"an intense and adventurous fiery open friendship ♥ that will remain in the hearts of both for a long time. "

MyVirgoMask-
"I feel these two still talk and are on good terms even if the relationship isn't 'on' in a romantic way..."

Quinnie-
"Friends that became lovers? They got confused as to what they really felt about each other and decided they were better off as friends as they just generated way too much energy and were too good as friends..."

pire-
"did they meet at work, or find a way together through "work" or another project?"

(this one was funny, but has an ounce of truth in it.)
Geocosmic* Valentine
" The man would possibly be forced to move geographically for the woman for some reason."

comica23-
"In this composite, Jupiter/Juno mp is conjunct IC. Strong commitment feelings were always there?

Venus/Mercury/Uranus conjunction - an intense electrical emotional/mental attraction, a strong mental/intellectual connection. Love at first sight? Or they get along really nice.

But Pluto is square Moon. It could indicate complex emotional issues and even manipulation/struggles. They are also conjunct the SN and square the NN/SN axis."

MysticMelody-
"wow... passionate and hot AND deep true emotional love and a haven in each others arms. Intense! "

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i met this guy a week after i had a verbally violent break up. it was love at first sight, our eyes locked in a room full of people and we both thought "do i know you?...nah..."

it was short yet intense, innocent and complicated love affair/work relationship. we are both musicians and he ended up being a huge piece of me getting a big project off the ground. he shelled out cash and provided some much needed personnel.

he is a touring musician that never stays in one place. 2 days after we met, he left. it was supposed to be only 2 weeks. it ended up being 2 months.

it fizzled out very quickly. i questioned why it fizzled out and he would always say that we just need to focus on the music...clearly that wasn't the whole truth. i didn't know why until the eclipse that occurred in january. it was exactly conjunct my first house mercury. turns out, he was engaged to be married to another woman. at the same time he was confessing his love for me and making plans to be with me. i tried to confront him but he never admitted it. i questioned why it fizzled out and he would always say that we just need to focus on the music...clearly that wasn't the whole truth.

he had just moved to my city a week before we met. and he left just as quickly.

it was so karmic. so intense. our conversations were spoken to each other like prose. telepathic doesn't even begin to describe the nature of our thoughts. in all my time, i have never experienced anything like this. and i was surprised because he is a bit younger than me. we called our conversations "the vortex" because they were so intense. he even composed a song called "lost" about us...its on his album.

one thing he said that i'll never forget..."i don't what i've gotten myself into. its like you can see right through me..." <---that sentiment explains a lot. and it was so true. he definitely activated my clairvoyance and telepathy in ways that had never happened to me before.

in retrospect, his chart makes so much sense.

libra rising never wants to ruffle any feathers so of course he wouldn't admit to telling me the truth just to save face. he's got neptune in the 3rd house square mars in its fall in libra in the 12th. it is a testament to his musical genius. he's got perfect pitch and Synesthesia (he sees colors when he hears music...he is actually the second person i've dated who had that)

all those planets in scorpio in the first house is quite strange. scorpio is so secretive but right there in there first house, how could one hide anything?

jupiter conjunct his dsc opposing his asc/ trine uranus... i could see excess there concerning how he comes off. jsut going too far sometimes and not knowing.

later he did say that he regretted having been so emotionally hasty with me.

posted May 11, 2010 09:44 PM         

the night before i discovered his lie, i had a dream that everyone around me was deceiving me in some way.

i knew something would be revealed to me the next day, but i was still devastated when i found out. i sent him a text message letting him know that i knew and that if he wanted to talk we could. but i didn't want to make a big deal because he had booked me an out of town gig that was happening the next week. he was playing on the gig as well and i didn't want to be awkward at the gig. he even had a picture of the girl as his phones screensaver!!! i couldn't believe it.

till this day, he never has admitted to anything. this all happened between oct 09 and jan 10

posted May 11, 2010 09:48 PM         

what really bothered me is that he spent thanksgiving (the entire week) with me and my family. my family really liked him. everyone was fooled except my mother. she says he was too much like eddie haskell from leave it to beaver. she knew he was hiding something. of course she doesn't tell me this till after the fact. but, that's mothers for ya!

posted May 12, 2010 01:51 AM         

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