posted May 28, 2010 09:31 AM         

I agree. But in my case it's more than firework when it's within a few degrees of my Scorp-Moon;

posted May 28, 2010 11:28 AM         

I can live with that because he isn't an exception, better to say; i finally stopped looking for such rare sensitivity in a man.
Also, I vainly tried to develop it in the same.

It's there or it isn't.

posted June 11, 2010 10:35 AM         

So maybe new more experienced eyes will see something I'm missing, or the relationship may not have those sexual pyrotechnics.

posted June 11, 2010 11:46 AM         

this is funny, we share the same birthday. I am just a bit older.
And Mr Angel is only 5 days older than my youngest brother. lol

Anyway,
How far is Mars from Pluto?
If within 3 degree, this is ULTRA-SPICY.
I experienced that myself once, an exact Mars-Pluto-conjunction (I was Pluto), the electricity was overwhelming. Even though it was not an easy attraction, there was something pretty compulsive about it.

posted June 11, 2010 11:59 AM         

Any thoughts?

posted June 11, 2010 02:09 PM         

His Sun/Moon Midpoint is exactly conjunct my Sun at 26 Sag with his Cupid conjunct both my Sun & Asc

posted June 12, 2010 05:11 AM         

you listed some very hot placements, I agree.

posted June 12, 2010 05:16 AM         

Vertex signifies fated encounters; the connections based on these, may not last, but the effect is a lasting one. It`s sometimes a major turning point in your life.

So since Eros and Amor are tied to the respective Vertexes, maybe it means that the purpose of this fated meeting is to wake up erotic as well as giving love?
For you your erotic nature may be arouses, and he may discover the meaning of how to love unconditionally, without instantly looking for sexual gratification?
Of course there are more connections between your charts which may modify this.

posted June 12, 2010 05:51 AM         

Now that you spoke a little on Sappho a light bulb went off in my head. We met...dancing. We're both very passionate dancers, especially with latin dance. In fact that was one of things we both pleaded with the universe on, to let the person we're with be an excellent dancer. Lol, I'm sure thats not the only way we'll ignite artistically. Since meeting him my desire & passion for photography has re-ignited and he's definitely encouraging it.

I noticed that Pan is also in the mix. His Pan conjunct my NN, My Pan trine his moon and our Pans sq each other...again with the creativity & earthy sensual pleasure.

posted June 12, 2010 06:23 AM         

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sexually intense *but* frustrating:

vapor - what part is frustrating? thanks!

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With the oppositions I mentioned - Venus or Mars opposite Pluto - I find these frustrating because even though the people are very attracted to each other, the attraction seldom becomes physical (there are always problems, whether it is their egos clashing or one person being unavailable or disinterested when the other is interested and so forth). They can't synchronize very well. These are very changeable aspects. The person can go from "not that into you" to "obsessive" in days... and then back to "not that into you". Sometimes with Mars-Pluto it goes to hate and love and back again.

This only happens when the aspects are either very *close* or activated in the synastry for whatever reason.
I have Venus opposite Pluto in natal and this was not activated with the hundred guys my age in school & uni. It was only activated when the guy had Mars opposite Pluto conjunct my own opposition.

posted June 12, 2010 06:23 AM         

yes, what you described sounds very "Sapphoan" to me.

And like for you, Pan is also in the mix for me, most of the times.
As Pan is exactly conjunct my Eros and Vertex and opposing my Sun-Moon-mp and squares my Sappho exactly.
NOt an easy one natally, but whenever someone triggers one end of it, the other will be activated, too. Well, my Chiron is opposing my Sappho and squaring my Pan, so it is not always a smooth thing.

Pan actually fascinates me A LOT.

I also have found that in the cases of performers that I find "electrifying" and whom I have spoken to, that my Moon is being triggered.
Actually there are 4 peformers I can think of right now, even though I have only spokent to two of them, and three of them have their Sappho conjunct my Moon. The other one has his Sappho flat on my Eros-Pan-Vertex and opposes my Sun-Moon-mp. lol

In some cases Pan also plays a role:

1st:
his Pan on the exact antiscion of my Moon

2nd:
his Pan in the same sign as my Moon and on my True Black Moon Lilith, which has lunar symbolism, too.

3rd:
no Pan-Moon aspects, but this one is falling out of the pattern anyway
(his Pan opposes my IC-ruler though)

4th:
his Pan exactly trine my Moon (and conjunct my Karma)

There really seems to be a pattern with their Sappho / Pan and my lunar bodies and points

(lunar bodies / points would be: Moon, nodal axis, Sun-Moon-mp, BML, IC)

posted June 14, 2010 02:00 PM         

All the planets do their thing!

I gotta have Uranus. I love the jolt and letting excitement be the authority.

Saturn can be hot too. Saturn says: "You. Me. This is our Time." It's personal and deliberate.

Pluto brings energy. It's the A-bomb compared to a hamster wheel. Pluto will have your orgasm having an orgasm having an orgasm... It's like the Russian Doll of orgasms.

To paraphrase Byron, Neptune fcuks in beauty. By beauty, I don't mean moonlight and graceful mounting, although prettiness is the surface part of it. I mean Neptune will have you penetrating the veil. Pluto will push your energy further and further, and Neptune will drop you into that realm. You will be that energy. I don't think there's any better feeling for a human.

posted June 14, 2010 02:36 PM         

my Mars = his Venus/Mars midpoint.
I have this with all but one of the guys I've had sex with. (I would even have it with him if we included the quincunx in midpoint configs. I generally don't.)

Part of the reason I'm so attracted to this is that I have Mars semisquare Pluto. So through that aspect, I also have Pluto on their Venus/Mars midpoint. (I use the minor squares in midpoint configs.)

Pluto and Mars are my chart rulers. Adding to their importance for me sexually:
~Pluto is on my Sun/Moon and Venus/Juno midpoints.
~Mars is cnj Jupiter and in a grand trine with Venus and Chiron.

So, uh, yeah. I'm wild for that synastry aspect.

I have my Vertex in my 8th house. My SO puts his IC on it. Feeling someone's soul rushing into you through your 8th house "portal" ( )? Not too shabby!

I can also endorse ...

Mars with -
Pluto, Juno, Venus, Moon, Sun, Asc-Dsc

Eros with -
Asc, Nodes, Psyche

Venus with -
Sun, BML, Pluto, Mars