posted May 26, 2010 05:54 PM         

and it seems to be me who acts out the saturn so much more toward the venus person, then they do of their saturn to my venus.

all i can say is natally i have it by a 5 orb square, they don't (unless you consider an orb of 7)

my saturn is in a tighter orb to their venus than their saturn is to mine (theirs is 2 orb, mine is 0 orb)

there is definitely restrictions though in a saturnian way, by circumstances out of our control, ( a time zone gap ) their work hours and other duties.

does that count as a saturnian way of playing out in a saturn venus square, instead of the more traditional "saturn limits the expression of the others venus" ?

they are never cold toward me or saturnian much at all, although saturn rules their 7th and their venus is in the 10th so prhaps they are more comfortable with saturn and venusian things.

in the composite we have an opposition, yet they never play it out.

it can be noted that their natal saturn is not afflicted (it conjuncts mars and uranus and a trine and sextile i believe)

they have moon in capricorn too.

my saturn on the other hand is very afflicted and troubled in my natal (oppositon and squares)