posted May 28, 2010 10:38 AM         

Yes, it is theoretically true that Venus Water gets on best with venus in water or earth , but is this really true as far as personal experiences are concerned?

Based only on your venus sign and taking no other planets to the game, do you really connect with another "compatible" venus sign?

for example:

I have my Venus in Scorpio and connect best with fellow Scorpio venusians as well as venus in Aquarius.

I don't have any special bond with Pisces or Cancer venuses as alleged and seem to consistently have love/hate relations with Gemini and Aries venuses.

posted May 28, 2010 12:06 PM         

Can't remember where I read this? Was it LG who said it?

I find that Venus in Earth and Water signs are more compatible to me than Venus in Air signs definitely, of course.......

posted May 28, 2010 12:56 PM         

As far as other Air Venuses go, I was once in a relationship with a Libra Venus, and I don't think I want to do that again. He was way too people pleasing and flirtatious. Granted, that's an accusation commonly hurled at Gemini Venuses, but honestly....sometimes our friendliness and desire for genuine conversation (not small talk) can be mistaken for other things. Plus, I have a need for my own time and identity and that didn't sit well with him. I haven't been romantically attracted to an Aqua Venus before, but I have had some as friends.

posted May 28, 2010 01:28 PM         

I DEF get on with other water and earth Venuses, not so well with Cappy Venus but not in a bad way, I understand them. Their reliability is how they show their love so far that I have perceived. All in all, I get on with Cancer and Taurus Venus the best.

posted May 28, 2010 05:19 PM         

I've never connected emotionally so well as with Venus in Scorpio. Male or female (romantic or platonic). I feel like i've been on a life-long quest to nab one. It's a bit strange to hear so many Scorpio Venus folks here say they don't care for Cancer Venusians!

I seem to attract Sag Venuses like flies (albeit lovely flies!). I contribute it to my Venus in the 9th.

posted May 29, 2010 01:24 PM         

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Peri FTW!!!

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posted May 29, 2010 01:40 PM         

Venus in Taurus, here.

I grew up in a family of six; 4 had Venus in Taurus, 1 Venus in Scorpio, 1 Venus in Libra. I had the toughest time with the Venus in Scorpio. As fate would dictate, all four Taurus Venus ended up living together, wasn't too unpleasant.

I do attract a lot of Venus in Scorpio, but unless the Sun is also there, I probably won't pursue. I've had ugly run-ins with a Libra, above mentioned Virgo, and the Sagittarius with this Venus sign.

Outside of my family, I haven't met a lot of other Venus in Taurus.

As for the trine, Venus in Virgo I either find too snooty, or below my standards in grooming and hygiene. Venus in Capricorn, haven't met many.

My two BFFs have Venus in Virgo, and Venus in Leo.

posted May 31, 2010 04:58 AM         

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this is not to say that I don't care for venus in cancer or Pisces but really haven't felt that "deep" connection as alleged by venus water-venus water interpretations.

I have been in relationships with both venus in cancer and venus in Pisces.

One venus in Pisces had his Sun in Taurus, though it was romantic, it didn't last or end well.

The other ex had his Sun in Aquarius. We got on fine at the beginning but trust issues started to surface and before I knew it, he disappeared (literally) only to surface again with another person.

I wasn't hurt or anything, I was just taken aback by that whole fiasco...

The only Venus in cancer that I had an okay connection with had his Sun in Leo. He was a sensitive guy and sparks flew right from the beginning as we quickly bonded.

Things got monotomous and mundane as we progressed and the initial spark(well, atleast in my books) disappeared soon thereafter.

Venus in Scorpio and Aquarius never fail to disappoint- nevermind the Sun positions- and to a certain extent Venus in Capricorn.

posted June 02, 2010 03:32 AM         

My social world is filled to the brim with people who have Venus in:
~Sag
~Aries
~Gemini

My sexual relationships have been with people who have Venus in:
~Sag
~Aries (>1)
~Cancer (>1)

My 4 longest-lasting, closest friendships are with people who have Venus in:
~Libra
~Sag
~Sco
~Gem

I sometimes think of the other person's Venus sign as showing the traits I want to express with another person. If Venus shows what they're attracted to, and they're attracted to me, then I must have those traits when I'm with them. It's just a theory.

posted June 02, 2010 09:40 AM         

I am fast becoming a pro at guessing people's Venus signs and in some cases, it is peculiar to think how big the effect is on their overall projection.

This is why I was wondering about other people's connections with their Venus as well as their respective partners.

My observations and interactions:

With Venus in Aries, it is always quite messy. Two people I met had this position but both had Earth moons which I guess tailored the expression of Venus a little.

I however do think that the expression of Venus becomes that much more "uncensored" when moon is in Fire, Air or Water.

My sister has Venus in Aries with Moon in Cancer: She can get very aggressive and be pretty confrontational in social interactions. She , however, does tend to forget about it quickly and befriend the very person that she once considered her nemesis. LOL.

Venus in Taurus is always so very sexy to me, regardless of how physically good-looking the person is. When Moon is in Air or Fire, it makes the person spunky whilst when in Earth or Water, they are just yummy(Well, at-least to me).

One friend of mine has Venus in Taurus with Moon in Pisces. He is very cultured and extremely well-mannered.(His sun is in Gemini)

Another one has both Moon and Venus in Taurus and is Gorgeous. There is something mild-tempered and "capable" about the way he projects himself to others.(His sun is in Aries)

Venus in Gemini can be playful and fun to be around but at times can be really annoying. This is especially true for me when the Moon is also in an Air or Fire sign.

Venus in Cancer is sweet, warm and very nurturing...even more so than I think a moon, Sun in Cancer(if that makes sense).

This sensitivity is not affected even when the Moon is in Air or Fire. When it's in Earth or water,it can show itself fully.

I haven't had the pleasure of interacting with the Venus in Leo yet....

Venus in Virgo can be sexy, in a very cool detached kind of way. This is especially true when the Moon is in Air or Earth.

My brother has his Venus in Virgo and so does my Dad. My brother is a chick magnet and my Dad still turns heads at age 55. My Dads moon is in sullen and controlled Capricorn(Cancer Sun) Whilst my Brothers moon is in Virgo(Libra Sun).

Venus in Libra is quite simply the unequivocal nice guy. I don't know of any other Venus position that can honestly go out of their way to make you feel comfortable(save for Pisces I guess).

Physical beauty(if it happens to be the case) seems to just affirm popularity with this position. This is true when the moon is in Air, Fire or water. When in earth, they tend not to try so hard and maybe a little less concerned of what people think.

Venus in Scorpio(the much hyped about Scorpion) is more difficult to assess objectively without being bias, seeing that I am this position. But I have observed with those sharing this position that there is something vaguely interesting about them. And one can never really tell what that thing is.

When moon is in Air or Fire, they can seem a little more detached than how they really are. When in Water or Earth,the emotional nature is heightened and they can seem standoffish or "miles away".

Venus in Sagittarius-No real experience...

Venus in Capricorn always appears grounded and to have their ducks in a row(so to speak). This position doesn't project an appearance of someone who is not control of their life.There is something deliberate and exacting about the way they speak because the ones I know, always want to be taken seriously.

My mom has this position with her Moon in Taurus giving people the impression of someone extremely capable and as such she occupies a very senior position at her workplace.

Another one I know has his moon in Capricorn and is always busy, and I mean ALWAYS. I tell him that he is busy making money that he will never get to enjoy.

Another has his Moon in Libra but still the same themes of hard work and diligence seem to be the order of the day. He is struggling to get his business off the ground because of lack of funding but he is not the type of person to throw in the towel and has been going at it for a year now.

posted June 02, 2010 10:17 AM         

Ami

posted June 02, 2010 02:44 PM         

It's okay. I understand. Different strokes for different folks.

I have a Leo Sun, by the way.

posted June 02, 2010 03:02 PM         

it's lovely

It is also great cos his mer is gem and my merc and moon is libra

so the venus, moon and merc trines all 1'

I've experienced a few diff venuses and I like gem, sag, taurus and leo

posted June 02, 2010 04:40 PM         

I guess that I'd get along best with other Aries Venus. I've met a person with that and an Aries Moon, and our tastes and emotions seemed similar and compatible.
Maybe Sag and Leo Venus are fine too. And the air Venus too, although not as similar as the ones mentioned above (it's like less common tastes, but still find their tastes interesting).

With other Venus signs.. With Taurus, I just don't find their tastes very similar or interesting (even thought I have Taurus Mars/NN), although I can get along with them and have a good time. Virgo's taste doesn't interest me much as well, even thought I have Virgo AC lol.
Cancer Venus is the same, not very much interested in their tastes lol. Scorpio seems interesting, probably due to my Scorpio planets plus 8th house stellium (including Venus). Pisces' tastes and affections are interesting to me too, maybe coz Neptune is relevant in my chart and I have Pisces DC.