posted June 03, 2010 03:53 AM
I had my Sun & Mars conjunct someone's IC -- the "Pisces Psycho" as I affectionately call him here on Lindaland It's hard to say how it affected him. I have a sense that he found me unsettling, in a very general sense. I'm unsure how much of that can be attributed to my Sun and Mars on his Nadir (I also had Jupiter conjunct his MC/opposing the Nadir).
He had his Pluto conjunct my ASC and his Venus was quindecile my Pluto... so it was just a very weird, obsessive, compulsive connection. It started out beautifully, but just kept getting more and more warped and uncomfortable as time went on.
He's the only one of my exes I do not talk to at all today. It was all just too intense and way too weird at the end.
But like I said, I think that was all the Plutonian energy and not so much Mars on the Nadir. We each have Pluto prominent in our chart -- I have a 1st house Pluto and he is a Scorpio ASC. Although I do think that Mars on the IC may have contributed to him not letting his guard down around me. I don't think Mars on the Nadir fosters comfort and feeling safe with someone. I think mars on the Nadir might make you feel like someone is about to shake your foundation (maybe destroy it?). I feel like he was always guarded and not wholly trusting of me not to hurt him severely.