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Topic: A Synastry and Composite I need help with. We'll call this one #1
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leapinglemur14
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posted June 02, 2010 01:28 AM
 
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MysticMelody
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posted June 02, 2010 01:39 AM
Wow, that's a LOT of fire in those charts.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 02, 2010 01:51 AM
they both look like quite intuitive people with the man being slighty more impassioned. his asc and dsc rulers are venus sq pluto, so relating is going to be do or die for him, despite any earthy vibe you get from him, he has undercurrents for sure. theres a tsquare there in his with moon opp venus sq pluto, so he has some difficulty placing a woman in both a nurturing emotionally available role and also a more desisrous girlfriend type (read: it's an aspect prone to affairs). your asc dsc rulers are merc trine neptune in earth which is a good balance. in the interaction the focus may be on the feeling/spiritual natures of you 2 and how you connect on that level. your mars as part of that engulfing mars venus neptune t square is strengthed by a trine to his saturn so he may ground you a bit in that respect. sun conj mars typical for attraction, usually initiated by sun. actually both of you have dynamic aspects with mars venus and a deep feeling outer planet (pluto and neptune) and this adds to the attraction, with his energy being more perhaps obsessive and your perhaps, well you may be playing the pisces and he may be playing the scorpio role if that makes sense to you. his nn is conj your asc, his neptune is sq his nodal axis and your venus mars neptune play into that as well, so actually i see a lot of reasons that you 2 would be drawn together. as far as advice, i'd lean hard on his aquarius moon, your merc trine his jupiter for levity and some airiness if you 2 start feeling a bit emotionally overwhelmed while together.his jupiter conj comp asc says he has hope for the relationship and feels the face of it brings him some possibly needed levity. comp sun/merc is conj the synastric sun/mars conjunction, so again him being the sun i'd guess would be desirious of this connection, merc conj his sun would point to him being quite talkative here, merc conj your mars could point to you pursuing communication with him and in c. h5 related to love artistic matters and day to day as that conj falls in your h6 too. c.moon is in his h7, and your h8, this is an aspect of sexual attraction on your part and on his its feeling tied to the emotional exchange between you 2. I like the way comica reads composites so hopefully she'll add to this.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 02, 2010 01:52 AM
Your guy's Chart looks just like mine 
Except for the generational planets.I'm wondering does he act leo?? For me having the Venus in cancer as a singleton, really takes over my emotions, and overruns my leo.. His Leo is in the 4th house, where Cancer rules.. Mine is in the 5th IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted June 02, 2010 02:12 AM
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Lioness
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posted June 02, 2010 02:24 AM
I also have 4 planets in Leo. I don't act Leo,even though its my internal wishes. but I also do have my defense mechanism, but its my Aries Asc..
My my feelings/emotions are all cancerous... I feel more of the cancer than I do the Leo, but at the same time I need to be treated like a Leo.. Its very conflicting.. IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted June 02, 2010 02:36 AM
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Lioness
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posted June 02, 2010 02:50 AM
My Leo is in the 5th the Leo ruler. Except for my mars which still is in leo but in the 6th.Your a Leo also right. So your ego's could be a problem, with of you wanting to be the center of attention, plus wanting appreciation form the other person. t can be hard. I have met other Leo's before, but cant get past the friendship level. Way to much of an Ego conflict. But you dont have as much fire as me.. LUCKY... LOL.. You know what you said about him, is/HAS been my main problem with me.. Maybe its bc of all the fire.. Try being a woman with all that fire.. Scares the crap out of men... It's true Leo's can be very hard to break through. (i know I am) but once they do, its very hard to get away from... He probably feels the fear of you also... IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted June 02, 2010 03:00 AM
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Lioness
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posted June 02, 2010 03:16 AM
ve recognized when my ego gets in the way and have learned to swallow it. Not easy but I make the effort.
===============================================I can't speak for you I can only speak for myself, but for ME, the ego is there for a reason,and yes it does need to be controlled at times, but when ego conflicts arise in relationships, that when compromise from both people need to come into play.. For me If I had to swallow my ego all the time. It would cause resentment. I also have my needs and wants that need to be met.. I have Pluto conj my DC line so every relationship (even co-workers) are power struggles.. It took me a long time and lots of lessons, to learn that I need to make sure that me needs are also being taken care of... So now for me.. I will discuss any issues and then see if a compromise is something that could be worked out. Then I feel its time to walk away.. (talking about major wants/needs) I do give and take, but I will not be the only giver.... Not saying you are... Just saying to be careful of when you swallow the ego, look deep inside your self and is this something that wont cause resentment. IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted June 02, 2010 03:37 AM
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