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Topic: Am I intimidating?
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CrazyAquarian
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posted June 03, 2010 02:56 AM
 
What in my chart shows that I am intimidating? That Cap coldness? Scorp moon? Would Mars in my first house do that? It's also my most dominate planet. I swear I must be. And a few people have told me. Guys are ALWAYS too afraid to ever say anything to me and even some girls look scared lol Or they get an attitude like "psh, I ain't intimidated by you" but I can tell they are lol
I don't bite...often  I'm actually quite friendly. Anyway, what you think?
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MyVirgoMask
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posted June 03, 2010 03:07 AM
It's probably all that damn Capricorn. Caps have a very 'you should' energy early on and it tends to come off as bossy from time to time. Interestingly, Aries has the same effect, so even tho the signs square there's a similar vibe, tho Caps are very like whatever, I KNOW, ok? LOL.I want to say also maybe your Scorpio moon, but you feel more Aqua to me. But you also have the square. I think people with the square of Sun/Moon tend to reject one side and associate more with the other because it is very hard to combine the energies. So one side will be fine and the other will come out in unconscious ways, and yet the planet being rejected will almost be disdained by the native, like they want nothing to do with that energy. For the record, about the guy thing, I always have guys acting nervous when they like me a lot too. I have a lot of Saturn and a Cappy MC plus the Virgo and Scorpio Venus does it. They get all nervous...as they should 
But you can also use this to your advantage to weed out the idiots Does that make sense? IP: Logged |
Coffee
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posted June 03, 2010 03:07 AM
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What in my chart shows that I am intimating?
You missed "id" from the word intimidating. Believe? Nice message. Good old Eve on the end, Adam and Eve. Reminds Me of My mate Adam Naylor who I saw twice yesterday, after not seeing for ages eh? Where was that post about Adam and Eve?
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CrazyAquarian
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posted June 03, 2010 03:13 AM
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You missed "id" from the word intimidating.
LOL Oops
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Believe? Nice message. Good old Eve on the end, Adam and Eve. Reminds Me of My mate Adam Naylor who I saw twice yesterday, after not seeing for ages eh?Where was that post about Adam and Eve?
Incest!
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vapor-lash
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posted June 03, 2010 03:24 AM
Don't worry CrazyAqua.. In time you'll find yourself a nice Scorpio Mars boy... and he will not be intimidated.. and you'll realize that there is someone out there who actually appreciates your coolness exactly as it is. I have Mars in Cap and Moon in Cap -- nothing unwinds me like Scorpio mars.
I find their courage and direct approach - soothing. :edit: It's a combination of sexual directness and silence.. that Cap finds great because.. usually with Cap influence you don't want a man who is VERY overt (eg. the aries or sag -type-).. Scorpio Mars lets you know he wants you, but in a quiet way. I have seen this combination very often -- Cap mars female & Scorpio Mars male. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted June 03, 2010 03:25 AM
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I think people with the square of Sun/Moon tend to reject one side and associate more with the other because it is very hard to combine the energies. So one side will be fine and the other will come out in unconscious ways, and yet the planet being rejected will almost be disdained by the native, like they want nothing to do with that energy.
Yeah, I kinda flip flop. And usually my Scorpio comes out at the wrong times lol
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For the record, about the guy thing, I always have guys acting nervous when they like me a lot too. I have a lot of Saturn and a Cappy MC plus the Virgo and Scorpio Venus does it. They get all nervous...as they should
But you can also use this to your advantage to weed out the idiots
I have no one to weed out. lol All the decent guys are crying in the corner lol I've brought down guys I never thought it I could O_O I think I have more power than I realize.
Some should get nervous, the ones that I don't want anything to do with it kinda funny to see lol While the others I think its kinda cute...and some.... O_O just give it up already lol------------------
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CrazyAquarian
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posted June 03, 2010 03:28 AM
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Don't worry CrazyAqua.. In time you'll find yourself a nice Scorpio Mars boy... and he will not be intimidated.. and you'll realize that there is someone out there who actually appreciates your coolness exactly as it is.
The most forward guy I encountered is a mars Aries. But I took him down too lol
And I REALLY scared this Libra loaded guy  I feel bad
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vapor-lash
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posted June 03, 2010 03:32 AM
Aqua - I was just editing that post.. and it's funny that you mentioned Aries -- I just did also LOLAries is not like Scorpio... They'd have the tendency to dislike your Cappy (because of the square). You'll see... You are bound to attract a Scorpio Mars IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted June 03, 2010 03:38 AM
wow someone's being hit by the cardinal tsquare!!IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted June 03, 2010 03:40 AM
For the record, a Taurus Mars will also do just fine
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CrazyAquarian
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posted June 03, 2010 03:42 AM
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wow someone's being hit by the cardinal tsquare!!
WHO?!?! ------------------
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CrazyAquarian
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posted June 03, 2010 03:45 AM
Wouldn't my neptune influences make me more approachable? Or just dreamy? *bats eyelashes* lol------------------
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vapor-lash
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posted June 03, 2010 03:47 AM
lol MVM.. hmm I do like Taurus Mars men but as I was saying on an older thread - I find them a bit kid-like & sometimes superficial.Scorpio mars is more mature and "colder" - due to the Pluto influence -- which I find similar to my Saturnian influence. I find that Taurus Mars men get hurt sometimes by my coolness.. They're more venusian. they're also more lazy and laid back. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted June 03, 2010 04:57 AM
Vapor, I hear you about the kid-like thing for mars Taurus. I have the same Mars...so I am kind of a sucker for it esp since they love constant touch and are quite affectionate.
The men I have met with Scorpio Mars which I can remember kind of got on my nerves and seemed to have an agenda and are far too calculating, which I can't stand. Maybe it's because they oppose my Mars too? I dunno. Maybe I just didn't meet ones I liked!
My Scorpio Venus and Taurus Mars oppose anyway, so it's hard to tell. You'd think with all the seriousness in my chart I would want the Scorpio Mars, but my Aries moon desperately needs someone to play with
And as long as they can be serious about certain things, I love a guy who is kind of a kid at heart and loves to be coddled and cuddled - I've never seen Mars Scorpio as cuddly, and I am very touchy-feely in relationship.IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted June 03, 2010 09:02 AM
CrazyAquaSpeaking from experience just the Aqua energies with your Scorp moon can scare the hell out of a guy. The vibe of independence, from Aqua and strength from your Cap, but the very intriguing "dont fu#k with me" energy of the Scorp moon, will throw the traditional man off his kilter. I have a Scorp Asc and a huge Aqua infuence and I scare the hell out of me even before talking to them! My Pisces sun only comes out after one gets to know me, ,and I know this cause the ones who have had the balls enough to get to know me  have told me this. Tho I have to say, that most men bore me, I have never been one to date and those who do take me on I become intriuged with myself. Yours is not a bad or difficult energy, just one that alot of men will have difficulty with cause alot of men are scared of a woman with strength, independence and depth. t~~~ IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted June 03, 2010 09:05 AM
Another thought, maybe the Scorp is the ace in the hole.My 18 year old daughter is Aqua sun/moon, Cap Venus Mars, Cancer asc and with her astounding beauty men are always after her, or should I say boys! But the difference is the Scorp energy. Still I think it is the combo that counts! IP: Logged |
jane
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posted June 03, 2010 01:37 PM
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tho Caps are very like whatever, I KNOW, ok? LOL.
 MVM, you make me laugh! IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?
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posted June 03, 2010 01:53 PM
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It's probably all that damn Capricorn. Caps have a very 'you should' energy early on and it tends to come off as bossy from time to time. Interestingly, Aries has the same effect, so even tho the signs square there's a similar vibe, tho Caps are very like whatever, I KNOW, ok? LOL.
MVM, SOOOOOOOOO true! My sister is this way! ------------------
Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon)
And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Diana
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posted June 03, 2010 03:06 PM
I think it's the scorp moon conjunct pluto. Scorp anything can come off as intense even if you don't feel it's coming through. IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian
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posted June 03, 2010 07:42 PM
Its not that they don't want me. Thats for sure lol They are just too afraid to approach me. Like from my other thread some time ago, there are many who like me and for years and yet they are all scared lol I'm sucha heart breaker. I swear I never knew! Well until recently. And I don't lead them on either in anyway because I'm not interested in most. I want them as friends.
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Yours is not a bad or difficult energy, just one that alot of men will have difficulty with cause alot of men are scared of a woman with strength, independence and depth.
Well then they need to stay the hell away from me. Oh and if they **** me off they'll have another surprise coming too LOL the faces I've seen when people get to know me LOL Lots of :O O_O------------------
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vapor-lash
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posted June 03, 2010 08:11 PM
Maybe it's an age thing as well.
In my late teens, I met few guys I could be *just* friends with. Friendship means a lot to me (my Sun is in the 11th).So much has changed - since then -- in the past 5 years. I feel like a different person and the people around me are very different also. I think you should just relax and go with the flow.. Eventually you'll attract the right people. You seem very disconcerted but also amazed at your own power.. It is not strange. You are who you *are*.. and it is perfectly OK. For the right person - you'll be perfect. They'll have their own inner strength which will match yours. Don't sweat it - basically! IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted June 03, 2010 08:16 PM
I am reading a book on Chiron. It says Chiron in the 7th house is very hard for relationships cuz your particular form of working out pain is THROUGH relationships.
You will feel a sense of "Why bother" cuz you feel so frustrated and even despairing.
The Scorpio moon in the 12th seems hard cuz Scorpio /Pluto energy is very powerful and the 12th house is like quick sand(if I am right in that lol)
I view a planet in thethe 12th house as being in quick sand cuz you have to try doubly or triply hard to express it.
I can relate with Mars in Cancer(its fall) which seems like a quick sand placement cuz Mars is not comfortable in Cancer.
Cancer is indirect and passive and Mars wants to be direct and active.
For me, since I am aware of my Mars in Cancer--I try to overcome it by being direct.
Perhaps---you are not embracing your moon energy and instead pushing it away.
If so, the outside can reflect it back to you in hard ways.
I have just learned this about my Scorpio ASC.
Please--throw out what does not fit
Ami
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CrazyAquarian
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posted June 07, 2010 02:04 AM
So how does my Neptune play in this?
It's in my first house. Wouldn't that make me seem approachable and impressionable. But, it's also conjunct my Mars, would that change it?------------------
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LanaofAugust
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posted June 07, 2010 02:19 AM
Edited. The person who started the thread about herself did not bother to comment. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted June 07, 2010 07:38 AM
Dear Crazy Aqua
I just read this and have a friend with it. If you have Mars conjunct Neptune--you can dream true.
Do you have dreams/visions which come true? Ami IP: Logged |
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