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Topic: Do Geminis want to be in a relationships....or?
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CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 244 From: US Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 13, 2010 07:25 PM
I thought geminis were one of the more independent signs. But this friend I know is making me wonder, then I realized that shes not the only Gem that I know who is like that. Or could it be the Taurus influence? They seem to always want to be in a relationship. She does have a libra rising, but would it make that strong of an impact? Or could this be something else in her chart? It aggravates me that she's always with someone and half, well most of the time they are douche bags and they she doesn't even really care that much and they always cheat on her! You think this is a deeper issue?------------------ ~Believe~ IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 1256 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 13, 2010 09:35 PM
quote: She does have a libra rising, but would it make that strong of an impact?
Sure it does. Where is her Venus? What are the aspects? Like your friend, I'm always in a relationship. One look at my chart and you would think that I shun relationships (Aqua Sun/Gem Rising/Mercury in Aquarius/Venus square Saturn and Uranus/DSC in Sag/Jupiter in 11th in Aries... etc). I have a 5th house Libra Moon. I find security in romantic relationships. IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 505 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted June 13, 2010 09:52 PM
In some systems, Gemini is the sign of a couple/coupling/embrace, not twins. Also, Air is the relationship element.IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Knowflake Posts: 41 From: Lutz, FL USA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 13, 2010 10:06 PM
I think they subconsciously do, it's just a matter of some Geminis having longer attention spans than others. And then again, depending on where their Venus is, some of them are better able to express that need for companionship. ------------------
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CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 244 From: US Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 13, 2010 10:50 PM
I was thinking that Nine. How maybe the twins things could play into it.Her Venus is it Taurus. ------------------ ~Believe~ IP: Logged |
CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 244 From: US Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 13, 2010 10:53 PM
Aspects...OH! Sextile Jupiter trine uranus, but is 6 too large? trine neptune! That explains alot! And opposite pluto She always gets herself into bad relationships, could that be the opp pluto and mixed with trine neptune, not seeing things clearly then libra rising of wanting to be in them, oh my ------------------ ~Believe~ IP: Logged |
Nine Knowflake Posts: 505 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted June 13, 2010 11:20 PM
quote: I was thinking that Nine. How maybe the twins things could play into it.Her Venus is it Taurus.
I've noticed myself how Venus in Taurus shows prominent in the charts of "committed" Gems. My Grandfather, a Gem, married @ 22 also had this Venus placement. IP: Logged |
glamgem25 Knowflake Posts: 435 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted June 14, 2010 01:26 AM
Im a gemini sun and Libra rising...and I like being in relationships..I have a cancer venus/mars in gemini. I like knowing I have someone there though!! IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 3571 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2010 02:15 AM
I believe that you have to look at the overall chart.My mother has Sun in Gemini with her birthday being today, but her chart is one of the most watery. Ascendant,Mercury,Venus,Jupiter, Uranus,and South Lunar Node in Cancer Moon and Saturn in Scorpio Her Sun is in 12th and trine Neptune,and so her Sun is very Pisces-like. Her Sun sextile Pluto, and so has affinity with Scorpio. She even has Sun parallel Pluto.
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CrazyAquarian Knowflake Posts: 244 From: US Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 14, 2010 02:55 AM
quote: I have a cancer venus/mars in gemini. I like knowing I have someone there though!!
Of course. How cancer! lol------------------ ~Believe~ IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 1256 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 14, 2010 01:39 PM
quote: In some systems, Gemini is the sign of a couple/coupling/embrace, not twins.
With Tarot cards, Gemini = The Lovers. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 820 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 14, 2010 03:53 PM
^^^Yes, Gemini = The Lovers.
quote: I've noticed myself how Venus in Taurus shows prominent in the charts of "committed" Gems. My Grandfather, a Gem, married @ 22 also had this Venus placement.
I've noticed alot of people with this placement tend to marry and settle down early....even in this day and age. Not faulting them for it, since it seems to work out for them.
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 2745 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted June 14, 2010 04:40 PM
BM, both my sisters are Geminis, and one of them has always wanted to settle down early, so there might be something to what you say. She did marry rather young but then lost interest as soon as she did.
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Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 820 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 14, 2010 05:50 PM
Oh, I was talking about Venus in Taurus. My mistake! IP: Logged |